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sub4hire -> RE: confussed (9/11/2008 12:57:52 PM)
Probably easier said than done candy. This is what you do. Sit down. Think about it. Where do you want to be in 5 years or 10 years. Do you want to be married? Can you see yourself married to this man and be happy? Do you want children? If you do, decide how long you want to wait. Think about life after children. If you wait until you are 40 to have them...figure you're going to be minimum 65 before you really get them out of the house. What is your retirement going to be like? Age is a factor. Decide just how long you want to play games. If you've got the time and it fits into your schedule then play away. If you don't. Make the decision. Is he going to support you in your goals and dreams? Things we know. He has children already. He cannot afford to live alone. So, he lives with mommy and daddy. Can't take care of himself. He wants to take care of someone else. Though unless he is planning on getting his own place when she moves closer to him. She is going to move in with mommy and daddy as well. Which means he doesn't respect mommy and daddy so is he going to respect her? It isn't exactly like you can put the St Andrews cross up in the living room with mommy and daddy watching..nor get loud. Unless of course you are only using them and do not respect them. What sort of part are his kids going to play in any relationship? I could go on and on but you probably get my point. Do some thinking and make the decision that is wise for you.

sweetbabygirl65 -> RE: confussed (9/11/2008 3:37:33 PM)
i do thank everyone for their responds. i have blocked His number and am going to take it one day at a time. it hurts like hell but it is the right thing to do. ty everyone

BlackPhx -> RE: confussed (9/12/2008 6:13:40 AM)
Hang in there Sweet...there is a Master out there for you who won't have to deceive or hide his life from you because you will be that life. poenkitten

Dnomyar -> RE: confussed (9/12/2008 6:21:40 AM)
Forget about the 5 to 10 year junk. Where do you want to be now. Listen to Blackphx.

Worldly1 -> RE: confussed (9/12/2008 10:30:28 AM)
The overwhelming opinion from others here is to RUN in the other direction from this person, for whom I would have a few choice names. Liars and deceivers are very bad news. Period. I hope you're not considering, even for a skinny second, that things might work out between you. They won't. If you ignore all of this advice, well...I think you know the rest.

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