jamesthehumanrug
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mistress, fire fey,you seem compassionate.
greetings, permission ,to speak, with you ,on reply post;
objectifiction;
a psychiatrist once said ,to me ,and, so did prof. -abnormal psych ,-zarinsky ,that:
one guy thot he was a balloon,
so the, ONLY way ,to reach this person ,
or, to talk, to him
and, relate ,
or get any where ;was, to take him, as a balloon,
and, speak, to him, only, on the qualities(variables),of a balloon.
ie
how are you feeling, to day ;you must be feeling pretty light
and, so ,on...and he's ,so happy ,now ,cause here's a guy, that usually speaks ,to few people, and,he says: oh yes; i'm ,so lite ,today ;like he was flying around town like a big red balloon!
a variable is a constant ,or anything you know you can plug ,in ,and, it is a constant; particular ,to,that object.
ie
a balloon may feel light ;
bouncy ;
afraid ,of being pricked
deflated
likes strings tied, to them
may hang in the bedroom all day, at the bedpost,or near the ceilings;
and lives high, in the air ,with the clouds;
found, at partys ,with clowns;
has the color red
etc
now :say it's a "couch" youre speaking, to;
ok sofie:
nice ,and ,comfy
over-stuffed: i think you ,belong right here, oh you feel pretty new,today is, that right?,or
you look pretty patterned, in flowers;
or you are ,so beatup ,couch ,you are pretty old ,but, soft warm and,used .
flowered? ;checks? ....(buz words)
think you match where you are? ,or ....where you will stay?
apply some constant ,and ,stick ,to the subject ,by speaking ,to the object directly ,about the object ,and ,it's solid-qualities.
say it's a "chair"(wooden?small?padded?)
instead ,of hello ;speak ,as, if he is, only able,to talk ,about his being a chair,as a chair.
you say: i have, to ,put you, over here, now
-no formalities,needed,to greet them ,at the door ,and,or welcome them ,and make them feel, at home.
i'll be right back,to sit down, and, watch tv ,or get, up there;(it keeps them relating ,and, keeps them attentive ,and, coming back, only, to you ,cause they can't talk, to anyone else; who knows who ,or even what they are ;they are, just nuts, or annoying ,but ,the poor guy, just wants, to be a balloon ,or chair ,so let him. he's ,not hurting anyone; he's, just a freakin' object.
you look, rather sturdy;
your back is long;
do you feel sunken, in (leave food),or
THE LEGS ARE, IN THE WAY? encourage conversation this way...I LOVE THIS CHAIR; it's MY FAV.speaking, to them, as if they are real.
INSTEAD, OF, THANKYOU ;
YOU SAY;
I BET YOU ARE A NICE WIDE SEAT,today . THEY MAY ,not want ,to speak,to you, but, you,SAY : YOU'RE WELCOME ,to fit, in here.
you don't say goodbye, to a couch; you leave, and, if you want, to encourage talk you say:" couch!" ,in different tones; like you do an animal who knows; by the tone; of your voice ;you are going, but , they must behave.
AND, ON ,AND, ON...,NOW YOU KNOW HOW ,TO TALK ,TO ANY OBJECT .YOU HAVE ,TO FOCUS,.NEVER RELATE, TO THE, OUTSIDE PERSON;THEY ARE GONE ,OR WISH ,TO BE,UNDERSTAND?AND, YOU DON'T KNOW HOW, TO TALK ,TO THEM WHERE EVER THEY ARE ,if you don't know all the things ,about ,that single-object,in order ,to talk,to them ,anymore ,than anyone-else.
IE:
A fancy elegant STUFFED CHAIR IS A ,"SAMOVAR",(A POMPUS- CHAIR).you ask:
ARE YOU ,TOO CLOSE ,TO THE PLANTS, TODAY?,if ,on the phone.
WHO MOVED YOU, TODAY?,to find where they are going.... ,DID YOU GET nicked, or scratched ,or were you left ,in a spot all week;
MIND, IF I TRY YOUR LEGS FIRST, BEFORE i DECIDE?
YOU GOTTA 'USE YOUR IMAGINATION.
STICK, TO THE QUALITIES ,ONLY ,OF THE 'THING'.
YOU ARE TRYING ,TO REACH.
NO ,OTHER TOPICS CAN TRIGGER A RESPONSE, OF COOPERATION, AND, UNDERSTANDING ,that YOU ARE LOOKING ,FOR, from this person,UNLESS YOU STAY ,INTO THE SOLID"-characteristics ",of the special-object; you have, in, front ,of you
.....,and, a dr. knows, that....
and ,likely speaks accordingly,because, anyone knows balloon is ,only a balloon,just '
what kind'
is the, only difference,when speaking ,to a person who simply wants, to be a balloon,not a person.( perfectly harmless;and,now you're the ,only one,that can do it ).
< Message edited by jamesthehumanrug -- 11/28/2005 8:59:37 PM >
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