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daddysliloneds -> RE: Information on Submissives. (9/13/2008 7:05:41 AM)
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ORIGINAL: mortre
Well, it's hard to explain since it leaves me confused at times. All I know is it took about 2 months before she quit asking me if I was sure I had never messed around the D/s world. And as far as what makes her/submissives tick, well, what I've garnered so far is to quit trying to make her stop buying me stuff. She's a lot happier now that I've stopped that. I've figured out that threatening a spanking (which I've recently learned I enjoy doing) for going against what I tell her virtually guarentee's misbehavior. I love the fact that sometimes she's as meek as milk. However if I pamper her, as I would normally do with I woman I'm happy with, she goes hell on wheels and tries to bull doze me over. That really gets under my skin. Basically, I love it when she stays in line, and would like to keep her there. However I need a little more information on the psychology of it all before I can stop flipping a coin and recording the results basically. Just trying to understand the underlying thought processes, what she is looking for, basic techniques and such. Learning by trial and error gets old after awhile.
it appears you don't need information on 'submissives' in general, but more of the making of your particular submissive, which you've already discovered through your trial and error...
perhaps you need to have a talk with her and tell her that it's getting old fast and that she either needs to get her shit together and submit to you and not her own whims, or find someone else to be; her behavior is not the behavior that is reflective of all submissives, that's for sure!
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