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masterbrad6 -> Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 7:57:48 AM)

Im a Dom who enjoys wearing pantiesand sometimes diapers(I dont use them I just wear them), I wear them during sceens when spanking my subs, I was always curious if it lowers my respectability in the eyes of my sub, but they would never say.



Mercnbeth -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 8:20:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: masterbrad6

Im a Dom who enjoys wearing pantiesand sometimes diapers(I dont use them I just wear them), I wear them during sceens when spanking my subs, I was always curious if it lowers my respectability in the eyes of my sub, but they would never say.


Brad,
Speaking from the perspective of being around the block a few times what your wearing has nothing to do with having, obtaining, raising, or lowering respectability in the eyes of your sub or anyone else.

When I saw your post I noted to beth that once at a NYC club I saw a Dom dressed in a chicken suit using a rubber chicken on his 'sub'. It barely raised an eyebrow and the only comments I remember were wondering if he could do Florentine with two rubber chickens.

All it takes is a partner compatible with you and the confidence not to be concerned what anyone thinks - You go for it!



GreedyTop -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 8:25:17 AM)

LMAO, Merc.. was that at HEllfire? 



CalifChick -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 9:42:57 AM)

It's not something I would be comfortable with, but that doesn't mean that your sub(s) feel the same way I do.


Cali



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 11:24:18 AM)

Ditto what Cali said. 

But I'll add to what Merc said.  Last Christmas Day, my Master (who hates cold weather), gave me a Christmas beating wearing one of those red plaid flannel all in one jammies (you know with the feetsies in them), and wearing His Godzilla slippers.  This might not be too "domly looking" to some sub/slaves, but I thought it was funny as hell, and in between the visual of Him whacking on me in that getup and His music selections (including Christmas with the Devil), I was laughing and crying at the same time!  [sm=biggrin.gif]



KatyLied -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 1:49:13 PM)

I don't think I would enjoy it.  But I also see it as more of a fetish thing than a dominant thing.



silkenfire -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 2:44:18 PM)

If I could be fully broken, I don't think it would matter, because I would know what they were capable of.

However, prior to that point in a relationship... it probably would lower my respect for them.



lusciouslips19 -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 3:40:56 PM)

If my Dominant did that, and it was a new relationship he would not see me again. If we were together long term, perhaps I would still feel his command. However, the whole idea just squicks me. But your subs desire may vary. but you asked if it would make subs lose respect. Obviously for some of us the answer is yes. But not everyone feels this way necessarily.



OneMoreWaste -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 6:08:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
When I saw your post I noted to beth that once at a NYC club I saw a Dom dressed in a chicken suit using a rubber chicken on his 'sub'. It barely raised an eyebrow and the only comments I remember were wondering if he could do Florentine with two rubber chickens.


Man, New Yorkers be some jaded mofos! [:D]

Honestly, MB6... you know the answer, or else you wouldn't have even thought to ask...



Gwynsbitchboi -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 6:23:17 PM)

lol, yeah, it would be missing something. a diaper, at least to me, indicates a lower status, that's why i like them so much,  but then again, to each their own, so whatever



camille65 -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 6:25:39 PM)

Ohwow I'm so confused. I would have sworn I answered this thread earlier....[8|] are my posts disappearing?



lusciouslips19 -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 6:28:24 PM)


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ORIGINAL: camille65

Ohwow I'm so confused. I would have sworn I answered this thread earlier....[8|] are my posts disappearing?


my first post was #1. next I looked and it was gone too! I thought it was just me. Weird.



stephykate -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 6:38:36 PM)

I love my diapers and twice, I've had dommes wear diapers and use them in front of me.  But then they made me worship their wet and messy diapers.  I didn't think it took my domme down a notch while my nose was in her messy diaper.

SK



ThundersCry -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 6:45:44 PM)

That is SO sweet stephy poo...
 
<spits and fades away>



ExKat -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 7:25:58 PM)

  This would be a big turn-off to me. It's very much a guy fetish thing (notice that all the positive replies are from malesubs). In a new relationship, this would be the end for me. In an established relationship, I don't know what would happen...likely I'd advise him to enjoy this activity alone, and seriously reevaluate our sexual compatibility.



lovingpet -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 8:56:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

quote:

ORIGINAL: masterbrad6

Im a Dom who enjoys wearing pantiesand sometimes diapers(I dont use them I just wear them), I wear them during sceens when spanking my subs, I was always curious if it lowers my respectability in the eyes of my sub, but they would never say.


I saw a Dom dressed in a chicken suit using a rubber chicken on his 'sub'. It barely raised an eyebrow and the only comments I remember were wondering if he could do Florentine with two rubber chickens.



So, now I just have to know, did the rubber chicken squeak when it hit her ass?

To the OP, I have no idea what my thoughts on this would be.  I am assuming that the subbies you have now have been with you for some time.  If that is the case, I am sure you have established your position in the relationship regardless of your attire.  If this is the beginning of the relationship, it may be that you will have to be more insistent that they discuss their feelings more openly with you, so you can evaluate this for yourself.  The answers you get here will vary with the kinks, quirks, and personalities of each of us here.

lovingpet



BeIgnited -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 9:17:17 PM)

Is it a problem in general?

Nope. Go on with your diaper-wearing flogger-weilding self. I know at least one other cross-dressing male top.


As for my opinion, I'm not adverse to the panties, but I suspect both would be big turn offs for me.



JerryFrankster -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/11/2008 9:38:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BeIgnited

Is it a problem in general?

Nope. Go on with your diaper-wearing flogger-weilding self. I know at least one other cross-dressing male top.


As for my opinion, I'm not adverse to the panties, but I suspect both would be big turn offs for me.





Does he deal cards for sorrow, as well as cards for pain?



Aileen1968 -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/12/2008 5:22:58 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: masterbrad6

Im a Dom who enjoys wearing pantiesand sometimes diapers(I dont use them I just wear them), I wear them during sceens when spanking my subs, I was always curious if it lowers my respectability in the eyes of my sub, but they would never say.


If you like it and your subs like it then what's the problem?  As for me...if he walked through the door wearing panties or a diaper I'd be out of there so fast. 



azropedntied -> RE: Panties/Diaper on a Dom (9/12/2008 8:17:46 AM)

if that's your bdsm and your partner digs it too then rock on  , Suzy slave on looker and Lord Master whats his name at the local space with her think it s weird who cares  its your bdsm not theirs . 



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