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RE: Time With Master - 9/12/2008 3:49:22 AM   
Dnomyar


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RE: Time With Master - 9/12/2008 5:24:40 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		with Daddy, getting a 10 min phone call from Him between patients really makes my day. we set aside time for each other every morning and night (if i'm not covering a band). on the weekends, we squeeze in more time between family obligations/plans.

with my pet, it's hard spending a fair amount of time together because of the long hours he spends traveling and visiting construction sites. however we do burn up a lot of long distance minutes while he's away (good thing his boss pays for the calls) ...but when his travels brings him close to home, i'm happy to have a couple of hours between his meetings and lunches.

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RE: Time With Master - 9/12/2008 5:44:24 AM   
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< Message edited by SoulPiercer -- 9/12/2008 6:12:06 AM >

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RE: Time With Master - 9/12/2008 6:11:23 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I have gone to Fox's store and waited for him for 30 min jus to spend 10 on his break with me. He has driven from school to my store just to meet me for lunch.
If you can only free up an hour for someone, but that is the only hour the entire week you will be seeing them, then that hour is going to be the most precious thing ever.
If you see someone every day, and they want you to put aside an hour for them during what may be a busy day just becasue, I can see where someone might, some days, think it isnt worth it.
But I am sentimental and I would meet someone special for 5 minutes if that meant it was going to brighten their day. There were times when a 30 minute dinner together were the only contact Angel and I had for weeks because of our schedules. I was willing to drive 45 out and 45 home to see him for 30. I still am, to see he or Silk.
The time isnt the thing, how you feel about the person is. For those I love, Id gie about anything to see them for a few minutes here and there. For those I am not all that concerned about... an hour might seem like an impostion.

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RE: Time With Master - 9/12/2008 6:19:22 AM   
persephonee


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If you make me unexpectedly cry and clutch at my son one more time im coming out to see you. But youre right.

If im anywhere near my partners as my day progresses i try to stop in and see them...and 5 minutes is long enough to get some sort of contact that keeps me thinking all day.

We text all day every day too...nothing like laughing for no apparent reason in the middle of a meeting...my bosses think im insane. The danger of texting at work is that sometimes i get bored and end up with embarassing assignments.

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RE: Time With Master - 9/12/2008 12:04:25 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I'm betting the person who said this was thinking about playing for an hour, not about just meeting to be together.

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RE: Time With Master - 9/12/2008 12:37:02 PM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		I see two sides to this, and for me it depends on how much time they spend together as a whole.  There was a time for me when any amount of time I could spend with my (former) Master was divine and welcomed and enjoyed.  I actually drove 2 hours to him on several occasions just to orally service him and go home.  It was a treat for me.

Toward the end of our relationship, however, time with him was rare.  A call or two a week, a one-liner email here & there, and 5 months went by where I was unable to see him physically.  In that time, while I would likely have soaked up an hour here or there, it wasn't enough.  In fact, after those 5 months I did get a visit with him which only lasted an hour, and I was just really sad afterwards.

So, while there was a time when I would have thought, "Hey, suck it up and enjoy what you have," I understand the flip side of that now.  I suppose the important factor is, however long the visit, are you fulfilled afterward?

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RE: Time With Master - 9/12/2008 2:26:34 PM   
lovingpet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: persephonee

lp~

If you make me unexpectedly cry and clutch at my son one more time im coming out to see you. But youre right.

If im anywhere near my partners as my day progresses i try to stop in and see them...and 5 minutes is long enough to get some sort of contact that keeps me thinking all day.

We text all day every day too...nothing like laughing for no apparent reason in the middle of a meeting...my bosses think im insane. The danger of texting at work is that sometimes i get bored and end up with embarassing assignments.


giggles... love em while you have em... or at least as long as you don't get the Mooom!!!!! (insert eye roll and blush here).  Then keep on huggin them and being the embarrassing mom.  He will remember it and will remind him how much he means to you.  Oh, and bring it on!  Come on and visit!  ;)

Thread hijack over!

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RE: Time With Master - 9/13/2008 11:00:09 AM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

How do you feel about any amount of time spent with your Master?


Well... I don't have a Master...... but I thought I would post to this thread anyways *g*

I think alot of people equate time being spent together as to the level of seriousness or commitment of the relationship.  This to me is not neccessarily the best way to measure commitment.... for some this is what they use.

I think what some people miss is that a person might be only spending time with you to get what they want.  In the beginning of a relationship the person spends alot of time doing things with the person... but if you look at what these things actually are... a few clues begin to appear to the motivations. In time, they spend less and less time with the person... before long you rarely see or hear from them and when you do it is more because of one's own intiative and not the other person.   Some people need to learn the hardway that they are only being used as a toy.  That who they are is not all that important to the other person.. it's what they can do for them.  Then when they had their fun.. the time spent together begins to lessen and then the relationship ends.... sometimes with no explaination... sometimes as a surprize....  unfortunately.. it's not generally a surprize or without an explaination for those that are watching it happen from a more objective point of view.


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RE: Time With Master - 9/13/2008 1:47:04 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I find what Knights said very interesting.  I guess for some it is that way they are just being used as a  plaything.  I know it is not that way with Master and i because there is love there.  Case in point after my surgery i could not do anything sexully for a month ( dr's orders)  Master still came to see me every day.  We kissed and hugged but that was all he did not mind waiting case he loves me.  So even though i knew i was not being used as just a plaything  that confirmed it.

Matt's litttleone

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RE: Time With Master - 9/14/2008 8:30:47 PM   
offeredup


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Status: offline 		There is nothing so wonderful than a long, unrushed time together. But sometimes a quick, unexpected hour can be pure magic! i know, i had that experience out of the blue once on my birthday. i won't go into details, suffice to say i will never forget it.

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RE: Time With Master - 9/14/2008 8:57:50 PM   
CoffinDancer


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Status: offline 		I completely agree that it depends on the depth of the relationship. If you are extremely close to your one, you love and cherish every moment together. We never want to think anything bad will happen, that the relationship will someday come to an end, but sometimes they do. There are no guarantees. If that does happen you could be left sitting there thinking about what was, what could have been and wishing you had just one more hour. 

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RE: Time With Master - 9/14/2008 9:04:14 PM   
CoffinDancer


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RE: Time With Master - 9/14/2008 9:11:59 PM   
slapmesillysir


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Status: offline 		sometimes that half hour at lunchtime is very intense. sometimes the 5 or 6 hours hidden away in a hotel room seems like 5 minutes.
We are working towards 24/7 cohabitation, and til then, I'll take what I can get.... 

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RE: Time With Master - 9/15/2008 12:58:59 AM   
shiazn03


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Status: offline 		i totally agree with the first couple posts on this site.  

maybe, she didn't mean it in a way that it is "not worth it" but rather it leaves her wanting more and she'd rather wait longer for more time, etc. etc.

peace out, all!

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RE: Time With Master - 9/15/2008 6:30:12 AM   
silkenfire


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Status: offline 		It's terribly dangerous for me to drive down here just for an hour with my Master. Granted, it's about a 100 minute drive for me to get down here... so I spend a long weekend here. However, Thursday I was in a place where I felt like I just needed him... and came down on Thursday (getting here late at night) just to drive back for work Friday and seeing him right after work anyways.

Now, I wouldn't do it on a Tuesday/Weds night as it's too dangerous, I have less sleep time as it is those nights because of my work/class schedule (which does make it better though for having free weekends)... when I say dangerous I mean Master worries about me constantly because I have a tendency to get sleepy and even fall asleep driving when riding alone over a distance like that, and have actually had some close calls with that since I've started the driving down here all the time thing. But, if I had someone to drive me (or a BUS?? Oh hey, greyhound does exist *ponders*) I'd be here every night. (I'm sure Master would like his alone time though, so I only come down after asking permission even though I have a key).

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RE: Time With Master - 9/15/2008 11:59:24 AM   
Daes


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Status: offline 		It could never be enough.

But Im just happy he comes to see me, I appreciate his time and am grateful for every moment. ^^

Though - until one of us has a different living situation I dont think either one of us would drive for 2 hours minimum one way just to see each other for 60 minutes. =/


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