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Small penis humiliation - 9/11/2008 3:16:11 PM   
knowshisplace09


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i would like to ask the Mistresses out there if they typically are excited by small penis humiliation, or if it is done more for the subs arousal.  thank You all for answering!
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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/11/2008 3:25:00 PM   
Lockit


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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/11/2008 5:38:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		I never understood the appeal of it.  Especially when you've got a boy like mine who's undoubtely well-endowed, it just... well... it doesn't work so well.  

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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/11/2008 6:29:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		It does seem rather boring to me. What's the point? He'd never be touching ME.

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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/11/2008 6:34:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd have to think it was for the male.

True story.

Someone actually contacted My collared sub yesterday to ask him if he had a small penis.  Nope.  Wasn't a female at all.  It was another male sub.


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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/11/2008 8:57:42 PM   
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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 5:24:41 AM   
knowshisplace09


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Status: offline 		that's very odd Lady Pact, what do You make of that?  very strange for a sub to try and contact another sub to begin with.....

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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 5:26:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: knowshisplace09

that's very odd Lady Pact, what do You make of that?  very strange for a sub to try and contact another sub to begin with.....


Why is it strange for one sub to contact another?
I do it all the time (not for penis related reasons however)


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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 5:31:01 AM   
knowshisplace09


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Status: offline 		i guess perhaps it makes sense if a sub has questions for another sub and is in need of some sort of insight. 

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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 5:46:08 AM   
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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 5:51:05 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		It is done strictly for the subs arousal, and VERY infrequently, for me at least. I see no point to it.
If I am really that concerned with their endowment as to humiliate them over it, then I am obviously not really concerned about the rest of them... just their penis. If that actually is the case, rather than deal with someone substandard... I'll just find a new sub.

I've had several subs contact me and ask me how big Fox is, and if I would consider keeping them around just to humiliate them because they had small penises. I dont see the appeal of bringing on someone just for that reason.

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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 7:38:28 AM   
knowshisplace09


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Status: offline 		looks like for most Dommes, it is not their favorite thing and is done solely for the subs' pleasure.  if that is the case is small penis humiliation a way for the sub to "top from the bottom?"  

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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 7:45:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		It might be considered that, depending upon that sub's relationship with its Dom. Or it might be used by a Dom as a reward for the sub's exceptional behavior, to be doled out at the Dom's discretion.

I think it really comes down to how each Dom and sub pairing, that are into that practice, decide its best use.

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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 7:53:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: knowshisplace09

looks like for most Dommes, it is not their favorite thing and is done solely for the subs' pleasure.  if that is the case is small penis humiliation a way for the sub to "top from the bottom?"  


Depends, is that particular kink being acted upon?

I mean, having a fetish different from your partner's list is not in itself topping from the bottom since we've all got different interests, but if a submissive were to actually ask for it and beg for it and then be given it then yes, it is kind of topping from the bottom...

But say the submissive's been really well-behaved lately, and the Dom/me out of nowhere decides to indulge this long-standing fetish they know their sub has... well, then that's a bit different, because the dominant is choosing to enact it on their own.

Just my viewpoint of the matter.  A wise Domme once said "OPINIONS ARE LIKE ASSHOLES..."


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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 8:27:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		I expect that it is driven by emotional or mental masochism.

I expect that at least some of those who are into it at some point encountered a scenario--a story, a scene in a film, or a personal experience--where a woman mocked the endowment of a man. Or the triggering scenario may have been more general; it may have been someone mocking another for some other physical attribute. They might have then directed this general scenario to a more specific scenario of mocking the penis because they consider their penis to be an attribute that they consider inadequate and one that can be mocked. I expect that the humiliation or vulnerability represented by that scenario aroused them and eventually became a significant D/s interest for them. I think this is how many D/s interests evolve.

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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 8:30:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		I wonder if femsubs enjoy large vagina humiliation.

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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 8:31:30 AM   
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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 8:33:40 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		I'm gong to ask a side question.

Why do I see "small penis" associated so strongly with the idea of a man being submissive?

As a dominant woman I find myself offended deeply by the idea that only an inferior man (which is how this is spun by others) would submit to a woman.

Shouldn't a man want to offer the best and the most he can to his dom?

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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 8:39:56 AM   
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Why do I see "small penis" associated so strongly with the idea of a man being submissive?

As a dominant woman I find myself offended deeply by the idea that only an inferior man (which is how this is spun by others) would submit to a woman.

Shouldn't a man want to offer the best and the most he can to his dom?


I don't think the idea comes from a want to be submissive but from discomfort-based masochism. It is just that submission and this type of masochism often coexist in one person and, so, one sees a submissive with an interest in this activity for masochistic reasons.

Cheers,

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RE: Small penis humiliation - 9/12/2008 8:43:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well, if the guy has insecurities about what he has to offer, I can see how he might want to eroticise his insecurities as a form of validation and/or consolation.

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