ExistentialSteel
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Again it depends on what we are talking about, but, to me, pushing limits is about adding more excitement. Spacing out a sub flogging her the same way, in the same position, with the same flogger, every time could become less exciting to both of you. Plus the endorphin high becomes harder to reach as she becomes accustomed to the pain level and a tolerance develops. That is why more pain, say caning harder, keeps things on the roller coaster ride for both. The same thing can be said for nonpain play where she is surprised by the things you make her do.
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