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nhite -> 'pain' play alone (9/13/2008 10:51:09 AM)

so yes the very best scenario in the world is to have a well trained, highly skilled partner to inflict sensation (or pain) onto you

however i dont live in 'perfect'  :)     

are there reasonably safe ways to tide yourself over?   i'm not a pain slut - i actually hate pain.  but it turns out i like strong sensation ie light caning, whipping, absolutely love spanking, and pinching.    the impact is impossible to do alone :(  

clothes pins simulate pinching rather well and have a very low risk factor




peppermint -> RE: 'pain' play alone (9/13/2008 10:58:02 AM)

I used to spend months researching tattoos and when I couldn't stand it any longer I'd finally get it done.  It was pain that gave me something in return. 




IvyMorgan -> RE: 'pain' play alone (9/13/2008 3:34:05 PM)

try gentle/more forceful "tapping" with kitchen implements, like pigs tongues?  it sometimes works for me.




VampiresLair -> RE: 'pain' play alone (9/13/2008 3:35:53 PM)

Id suggest investing in a vampire glove. The sensation is never the same twice, can be done on any accessible part of the body and if you do get a partner, they can always pay with it as well




ResidentSadist -> RE: 'pain' play alone (9/13/2008 6:53:01 PM)

From the “Things to do when Master is away” list:

Wash a bunch of flathead corkboard tacks with alcohol and set them on a wooden chair.  Then have seat and masturbate.  Non lethal and very stimulating if you grind your ass into the chair.  For more burn, leave some alcohol and sprinkle with salt to taste.




DesFIP -> RE: 'pain' play alone (9/13/2008 9:15:46 PM)

You can also try exercising to exhaustion, which will be good for you and release endorphins.




OneMoreWaste -> RE: 'pain' play alone (9/13/2008 9:26:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: IvyMorgan
try gentle/more forceful "tapping" with kitchen implements, like pigs tongues?  it sometimes works for me.


Wow, and I thought that the southeastern U.S. was admirable for really using ALL of the pig after it was slaughtered... that's a new one on me!

For the OP:

Impact is indeed difficult to do solo.
I find clamps are wonderful (even with a partner, I prefer clamps to impact anyway). For more sensation, attach them to something that doesn't move, then pull away.
Needles are nice. Sometimes really nice. Try not to bleed on the bedsheets.
But if you're not as much into pain as you are into strong sensation, I highly recommend a TENS box. You can get them for less than $70 online. Once the little pad-things lose their stickiness, start making your own toys (anything made out of metal conducts electricity... the smaller the contact point, the sharper the sensation. Let your mind wander). Play with the settings.
Is cool.




littlewonder -> RE: 'pain' play alone (9/13/2008 9:40:20 PM)

Inflicting pain on myself does absolutely nothing for me. It's just plain old pain and not the good kind.

It only works for me when Master causes me pain.

When I am feeling the need for some kind of sensation though and I can't get it from him then I'll think about getting another one of my planned tattoos or I'll do some kind of rough exercise that leaves my body aching and with an endorphin high.

If none of those are available to me for whatever reason then I just learn to suffer through it and ride the tide until it passes. I'll try to find something else to keep my mind occupied...hang out with friends, do some work around my home, work overtime...whatever works.




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