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Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/13/2008 8:06:13 PM   
OneMoreWaste


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Status: offline 		Since it's a slow night here, I thought I'd go ahead and brave the inevitable "WANKER!!" response to post something I'm curious about.

What do you think of using vibrators on males?

I get the impression that on the Maledom/femsub side, it's not uncommon for a Dom to enjoy "forcing" his partner to orgasm by mechanical means- he can remain detatched, perhaps give her other sensations both pleasurable and not, while she is stimulated relentlessly, intimately. It can be used as a reward, or a punishment if she is forbidden from climaxing, and the Dom can let it stimulate her indefinitely without lifting a finger.

In the Femdom/malesub arena, this seems like it could translate well- yet, it's something I rarely encounter people discussing. I dont know if this is due to the different approach taken toward orgasm between M/f and F/m, the male preference for toys of all sorts (ooh, this one runs off a car battery!), or just my own flawed perception.

Any thoughts?
(other than "WANKER!!" )
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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/13/2008 8:10:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like to incorporate vibrators when playing with men. (And also, vibrating cock rings.) It can be fun for teasing the cock/balls, as well as pressing against the base of a buttplug.

And for a nice contrast, it's fun to run over sensitive areas with a pinwheel, then follow up with a bit of vibration. Things that vibrate are fun for everyone!

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/13/2008 8:10:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		Or perhaps its becasue there is a lot less sex discussed in the FemDomme/male sub arena sometimes.
I use vibrators on Fox when the desire moves me. It enhances rather than replaces sensations for us. Its mainly a warmup, and often a small part in what turns into a CBT session. I love the reactions, so I employ it more often now than I used to. I have also used them during sex, to enhance both our enjoyment.

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/13/2008 8:21:32 PM   
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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/13/2008 8:25:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		We've played around with a vibe before, he thinks it's "ok", and I feel awkward using it. :-(

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/13/2008 8:49:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've used a small one on men while in the doggy position, rubbing it first against their testicles and then anally.  Some enjoy it immensely; others barely seem to notice it.

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/13/2008 8:51:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow I'd love to try that on my slaves!! Good idea.

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/13/2008 9:08:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

Any thoughts?
(other than "WANKER!!" )



Your posts are in the triple digits and you're far too coherent to be a wanker.

I think you're safe.


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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/13/2008 9:16:23 PM   
OneMoreWaste


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Anyway...

I enjoy this for a couple of reasons.

It can be a rare treat for the heavy bondage bottom. If someone is completely mummified, there really isn't a whole lot you can do with them. Thus, things like vibrators and TENS can be particularly helpful. And of course, it seems as though a lot of boys who enjoy bondage don't enjoy it nearly as much after they've climaxed.... Perhaps they'll actually *want* to be released?  Poor thing...

(And with the caveat that, Yes, I have gender issues)  To have all the bits snugly hidden away under panties, then the vibrator placed over them... ooOOOoooo. Will the naughty "girl" make a mess in her panties? To be certain, she'll be punished if she does, but what kind of control does it have? Maybe enough, maybe not. But either way, Mistress doesn't have to worry about repetitive stress disorder, and there's no wobbly bits showing to ruin the fun...

I don't know if there are many others who have a sexual dynamic but feel that it's beneath the Domme to have to touch the penis. I understand that a lot of Women would see that as pathological, but i like to think it's not unique. Anyway, if so, and the boy can climax from it, the vibe seems a  much more elegant solution than a Fleshlight or other pseudo-vaginal toy. Thus, the submissive partner does get some relief without any kind of penetration taking place- natural or unnatural- and it can still be totally controlled by the Dominant.

Either highly under-rated, or under-reported, I say!

May your batteries always be fresh...

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/13/2008 9:24:32 PM   
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Of course. You can do a whole gender fuck - between tight pink panties and a very, very feminine vibrator instead of using a big monster vibrating cock or dildo.  All depends on what the femdom wants, right?

There are more and more "cute" vibes coming onto the marketplace - really, the options are there. If the femdom replaces all references to the male anatomy with female anatomy, she'll blow the mind of any sub who has kinks for that kind of thing. I won't go into graphic detail for fear of benig accused of being trollish, lol.

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/13/2008 9:37:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

quote:

ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

Any thoughts?
(other than "WANKER!!" )



Your posts are in the triple digits and you're far too coherent to be a wanker.

I think you're safe.



You can post in the triple digits, be coherent, and still be a wanker.  Look at me!

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/13/2008 9:43:46 PM   
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i really love when my loving mistress uses vibrator
as her male slave it what i love most

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/14/2008 12:42:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

We've played around with a vibe before, he thinks it's "ok", and I feel awkward using it. :-(


Why do you continue to do something if you feel awkward about doing it? Does he know how you feel -- or are you braving it for him?

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/14/2008 7:44:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't usually write about forced orgasms and such because that sort of activity is private to me. But I will say that one simple and fun technique that I have used and enjoyed is to use a vibrator as a simple anal toy/insertable without turning it on at the start of a cbt session. Just leave it in there like a plug for about a 1/2 hour while you have your other fun, and then once the bottom is focused on something else - that's when you turn it on. The ensuing jump and yelp makes me smile every time.

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/14/2008 8:29:13 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Untouched1282

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

We've played around with a vibe before, he thinks it's "ok", and I feel awkward using it. :-(


Why do you continue to do something if you feel awkward about doing it? Does he know how you feel -- or are you braving it for him?





We haven't done it again- I'm just overly awkward with things every once in a while. >.>


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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/14/2008 8:49:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have this vibrator that is sort of an egg on a stick---extra fun for those hard to reach areas!  I also like the remote control ones...  But I am easily amused.

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/14/2008 11:28:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

quote:

ORIGINAL: Untouched1282

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

We've played around with a vibe before, he thinks it's "ok", and I feel awkward using it. :-(


Why do you continue to do something if you feel awkward about doing it? Does he know how you feel -- or are you braving it for him?





We haven't done it again- I'm just overly awkward with things every once in a while. >.>



I'm a n00b, and an idiot, but I would suggest talking to your special someone about your feelings. I mean, he most likely senses how you felt about the situation. However, talking about why you felt awkwrad/don't want to do it again could help build the relationship.

obvious, I know.


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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/14/2008 4:27:42 PM   
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Your posts are in the triple digits and you're far too coherent to be a wanker.

I think you're safe.



Agreed Ma`am. i think most wankers use five digits.

Errr....Allegedly 

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/14/2008 7:23:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		A simple bullet is the best vibe i have found (waterproof of course). Put it in your pussy when he is fucking you and it's a live vibrating pussy, or hold it in your hand while fisting him...see how long he can last. Add in touching his cock and balls with a vibrating glove and he stands no chance, unless he is not really human

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RE: Using a vibrator on a male sub? - 9/14/2008 7:29:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nothing wrong with it at all, and NO, I'm not just saying that because I happen to like the guys.  A great number of males, both homosexual and heterosexual, enjoy stimulation to that area.  Including inside.  Women have their g-spot, nothing wrong with going after that, right?  Well, men have their prostate.  And let me tell you, the right touch against that, and WOW!  Doesn't make him gay, or even bi.  That has to do with the gender of the person one finds attractive.  Just means he likes pleasure, and who doesn't? 

EDIT:  Two awesome toys, by the way.  Google them. 

Slender tulip wand, good vibration, durable, reliable, not too big (6" long, and, as the name implies, slim), the top has a gentle bulb on it, great for hitting where you want it to.

Mens Pleasure Wand, 'C' shaped, so that the part inside hits the prostate, the part outside rubs the perinium, adjustable vibration with the remote, pliable for comfort, dependable manufacturer for vibration devices (doc johnson).

Strap him to the bed, put one of them in, and have fun. ;)


< Message edited by BKSir -- 9/14/2008 7:35:52 PM >

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