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B1gbear -> RE: depressed sub (12/1/2005 7:10:21 PM)

You will probably have more luck finding a life partner if you don't list in your profile that your not looking for one.

It's a hard and tricky game finding what you seek on this site. Honesty in how you present yourself is the best place to start. I am quite certain there is at least as many Master's seeking the type of relationship you are, as there are submissives seeking the same.



OscarHargraves -> RE: depressed sub (12/2/2005 8:08:47 AM)

Consider expanding your horizons with a couple of these ideas:

1.) Rewrite your CM profile. Tell everyone what kind of a 'life partner' you are looking for. Be specific and fill in all the details. It will help YOU define that person too!
2.) Put up profiles on one or more 'vanilla' sites.
3.) Become active in your local community or church.
4.) Actively work at expanding your circle of friends, both male and female.
5.) Consider a new hobby that includes getting out and meeting people (men), (fishing, hiking, scuba diving or something else in your area).

Remember that prozac and meds should be a 'last ditch' answer. You will be far better off to work yourself out of this than to rely on a pill for help.



MHOO314 -> RE: depressed sub (12/2/2005 8:58:25 AM)

After having reviewed your profile, it states

1. very clearly that you do not seek a partner--so you will indeed only get play offers
2. you joined the 28th of November, although this site is robust with opportunities, a week is hardly enough time--(if you came here with the hopes if finding someone having not found in your own searches--you still need to give it a great deal of time--many have been on here for a year and better--

and I'd venture to say that less than 10% on here have their life partner--


My recommendation, is have patience--it takes as time--you may also want to change your profile to indicate you are looking for a partner--good luck--



Slaveless1 -> RE: depressed sub (12/2/2005 8:37:30 PM)

well for one thing take a closer look at your profile...I did. It is a bummer to begin with. not much to go on and I as one who is still seeking to find a 24/7 slave would jsut pass you by...sorry. The first thing you say is your not looking, I would respect that alone and move on...I would strongly suggest redo on profile.



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