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RE: Such a thing as a crossdressing Dominant? - 11/30/2005 8:59:20 PM

newguy303

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Thanks again all. It's good to know that I'm not the only one out there. I suspected as much, but as Rosa suggested, few if any talk about it. I completely agree that it is all in the mindset, and that I can be dominant no matter what I'm wearing. But, the unfortunate truth is that crossdressing is wrongly stereotyped as a submissive act, and I clearly want to make sure I avoid any such suggestion. While I do know that my sub girlfriend is ok with the "idea" of me cding, there is always the danger that no matter how dominant I am, the actual vision of me in a skirt, or dominatrix outfit, or whatever, will ruin the scene. I think it's important to introduce things slowly and over a period of time, so I don't think I'll be showing up in full domme gear tomorrow, but I think I can do it in a way that will increase her enjoyment as well as mine.

(in reply to petwolf22)