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knowshisplace009 -> size matters (9/17/2008 12:39:16 PM)
a question came up in the ask a submissive/slave category about penis size...i had a question for all the Dommes out there...if a sub/slave is very small should be bring this up early in a relationship or just wait until She asks? thank You!

chamberqueen -> RE: size matters (9/17/2008 1:33:46 PM)
When I was a Domme I had men with small penises write to me asking to be humiliated for it. If they didn't have a specific request I really didn't care what their size was. Honestly, personality and willingness come first.

knowshisplace009 -> RE: size matters (9/17/2008 1:36:20 PM)
gotcha.....that makes sense...thank You!

Usako -> RE: size matters (9/17/2008 2:20:14 PM)
Another account? Huh... Anyway, I usually ask ahead of time. If I find the person attractive and think that things may lead in a sexual direction, I'll ask to know what he's packing. I think it's best just to wait until she asks. If she has any interest in your penis or having sex with you, then she will bring up the conversation if it's important to her. If she just wants to spank ya around then your dong size probably doesn't matter and you should just take it as a hint not to mention it.

knowshisplace009 -> RE: size matters (9/17/2008 5:19:01 PM)
Makes sense:) Yes my other account vanished....not sure exactly how..so I had to start a new one

LadyHibiscus -> RE: size matters (9/17/2008 6:52:09 PM)
A dominant would be spending more time with YOU as a human, than with your penis. Do I care? Sure. Is it a deal breaker? By no means. When I want to see a unit, I ask.

Racquelle -> RE: size matters (9/17/2008 6:56:46 PM)
If your tiny wiener is going to give me something to tease you about, yes, I want to know right away. Besides, I don't want a sub with a huge unit because then I might actually want to sleep with him, and that's no good.

onthenosetone -> RE: size matters (9/18/2008 2:56:09 AM)
I answered this question before....Size is very very important to this submissive boy................................... No really...............................................[:'(] Seriously....................................................[:'(] Straight up.................................................................[:'(] No lies...................................................................[:'(] Women with big feet don't say yes to me...................ewwwwwwwwwwwww big feet! Nasty![:(][:(][:(]

idroolchicksrule -> RE: size matters (9/18/2008 3:36:53 PM)
Perfect answer...hahah as someone who is small and likes to be teased about it, i vote for not mentioning it until asked....unless your on an internet message board about the subject...and are not the topic starter... there is no bigger turn off than pushing your own agenda on someone else. It seems if its an issue for a woman she will be outspoken on the subject...which is a good thing.

ShiftedJewel -> RE: size matters (9/18/2008 4:14:41 PM)
*Size doesn't matter nearly as much as whether or not it works!! At least to me. And no, that isn't the first thing I want to know from anyone.* *Jewel*

SweetDommes -> RE: size matters (9/19/2008 7:10:56 AM)
I prefer for the boy to wait until asked. And I do ask - size is important for a number of reasons (mostly, though, it gives me an indicator of what positons we can/can't do because of the pain factor). Small is not a problem as long as it works and the boy knows what to do with what he has.

HotMistress22 -> RE: size matters (9/19/2008 10:58:51 AM)
If it's important to Her, She'll ask, as I do. I find most males who have a small cock, want to be humiliated because of it. HM

ShiftedJewel -> RE: size matters (9/19/2008 1:33:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HotMistress22 If it's important to Her, She'll ask, as I do. *I find most* males who have a small cock, want to be humiliated because of it. HM See, I don't understand that at all. I believe you, absolutely, but I don't understand it. Jewel**

SassyBird -> RE: size matters (9/19/2008 2:43:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel quote: ORIGINAL: HotMistress22 If it's important to Her, She'll ask, as I do. *I find most* males who have a small cock, want to be humiliated because of it. HM See, I don't understand that at all. I believe you, absolutely, but I don't understand it. Jewel** I dont understand it either, but it's accurate in my experience. I wont tell you what I prefer myself, but yes, wait for her to ask. Like so many other said, if its important to her she will ask.

malloves69 -> RE: size matters (9/19/2008 3:11:29 PM)
yes it does i think [:)] love when my lady uses her 8 in or 10 in strapon on me [:)]anything smaller just isnt the same ..6 in is good to start with but im way beyond that [:)] gawd she looks great wearing the 10 in strapon [:)] her sexy body ..plus that strapon [:)] assuming the position anyway she wants to take me [:)] have fun mal

idroolchicksrule -> RE: size matters (9/19/2008 4:04:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HotMistress22 If it's important to Her, She'll ask, as I do. I find most males who have a small cock, want to be humiliated because of it. HM Its better than being in denial about something you can't change and hating yourself...its a life gives you lemons sort of thing...

MistressDolly -> RE: size matters (9/20/2008 8:06:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: knowshisplace009 a question came up in the ask a submissive/slave category about penis size...i had a question for all the Dommes out there...if a sub/slave is very small should be bring this up early in a relationship or just wait until She asks? thank You! That's tricky. It depends on the nature of the relationship. At some point, however, the male should disclose any mechanical or esthetic issues he may have with his penis.

MistressDolly -> RE: size matters (9/20/2008 8:07:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: idroolchicksrule quote: ORIGINAL: HotMistress22 If it's important to Her, She'll ask, as I do. I find most males who have a small cock, want to be humiliated because of it. HM Its better than being in denial about something you can't change and hating yourself...its a life gives you lemons sort of thing... Very very true.

DavanKael -> RE: size matters (9/22/2008 10:40:58 PM)
Hi, all---- The title of the thread made me smile and I have gotten some giggles from the replies contained here-in. I have been accused of being a 'size Queen' by some but, I'd say skill is more important...now, given size and skill, I'd say that would make me a happy girl, of course, along with all of those other reeeeeeeally important things in a relationship. A man is more than just his package, imo. Sometimes they act like 'packages' but, I digress, and truly, I am a big fan of male creatures in general. Anyway, I would say average on up rocks and I make that pretty apparent. Now, if I grew to love someone who was under-endowed, obviously I would have ot find a way to deal with it but, I've gotta say that I'm not so sure how satisfying that would/could be. Conversely, I think we ladies have a responsibility to keep our pieces parts in good working order; kegels and all that good stuff. Everyone is endowed differently and everything has potential. We all have our preferences. My older sis thinks smaller is better, I giggle and traumatize her with my ideas about male size. It's all good; the fact that we're all different keeps the world more interesting. :> Davan

chezzy71 -> RE: size matters (9/23/2008 2:27:46 AM)
I'm diabetic..enough said

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