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SassyBird -> RE: How to be bait for mistresses? (9/19/2008 2:54:49 PM)
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I'd say work on your profile.
Personally I cba to read the whole shopping list of interests that have been filled out with great care. Write about yourself. Who you are as a person/interests/kink, what quallities you seek in a Mistress, and your basic limits.
When you send someone a message, dont cut and paste. Dont make it a one-liner, or even a three-liner.
Refer to something in her profile so she feels you read it.
Dont write her again after 3 minutes when you see she read your message. She will reply when she feels like it. Usually we have enough in us to send a "thanks, but no thanks" message to those who put effort into their first message if we feel there would be no connection.
Respect yourself and present yourself as honestly as you can. Fibs and lies are a no no, and if you are married or only looking for weekend fun, say so.
There is no wrong way of being. There is a glove for every hand and a hand for every ass.
But most of all, be patient. She's out there for you too.
SB
Edited to add: After looking at your profile I have to say it looks good. You've noticed that spelling and grammar counts, and the only thing I can add is "use enter more". Makes it easier on the eyes to read than the three blocks of text you have there.
Keep the journal entries coming and what ever you do, dont start complaining about pro-dommes, how fake people are and how long time it takes to find someone. That's just.. not attractive. ;-)
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