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RE: How to be bait for mistresses? - 9/19/2008 2:54:49 PM   
SassyBird


Posts: 48
Joined: 8/16/2008
Status: offline 		I'd say work on your profile.
Personally I cba to read the whole shopping list of interests that have been filled out with great care. Write about yourself. Who you are as a person/interests/kink, what quallities you seek in a Mistress, and your basic limits.

When you send someone a message, dont cut and paste. Dont make it a one-liner, or even a three-liner.
Refer to something in her profile so she feels you read it.

Dont write her again after 3 minutes when you see she read your message. She will reply when she feels like it. Usually we have enough in us to send a "thanks, but no thanks" message to those who put effort into their first message if we feel there would be no connection.

Respect yourself and present yourself as honestly as you can. Fibs and lies are a no no, and if you are married or only looking for weekend fun, say so.

There is no wrong way of being. There is a glove for every hand and a hand for every ass.

But most of all, be patient. She's out there for you too.

SB


Edited to add: After looking at your profile I have to say it looks good. You've noticed that spelling and grammar counts, and the only thing I can add is "use enter more". Makes it easier on the eyes to read than the three blocks of text you have there.
Keep the journal entries coming and what ever you do, dont start complaining about pro-dommes, how fake people are and how long time it takes to find someone. That's just.. not attractive. ;-)

< Message edited by SassyBird -- 9/19/2008 2:58:48 PM >

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RE: How to be bait for mistresses? - 9/19/2008 4:15:53 PM   
MsCfromMelbourne


Posts: 777
Joined: 2/15/2007
Status: offline 		If I was you, I would join Steelfet quick smart http://groups.yahoo.com/group/steelfet/

The next Munch is 22/9.  Go along and make friends of all persuasions.  If you are likable and stick around, eventually a Mistress will get the hots for you.  Have confidence, be charming and ooze a bit of sex appeal.  And while you are waitng for The One, get as much experience with friends as you can

Sorry but advertising on the internet is pretty hit and miss.   How can someone judge you on the basis of a few words and a photo?  But you will meet women in real life who then go away to read your profile - so make it a good one!!



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RE: How to be bait for mistresses? - 9/19/2008 4:22:19 PM   
MsCfromMelbourne


Posts: 777
Joined: 2/15/2007
Status: offline 		Good grief and take the "I am not looking for love" out of your profile!!

Take the word "bed" out as well

The fact you want to treat a Mistress like your personal unpaid whore is the kind of bad news you break to a lady 6 weeks into the relationship!!

Sheesh....what is it with the young folk these days!!!

BTW, be careful what you wish for.  A life without love is not a life worth living.


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RE: How to be bait for mistresses? - 9/19/2008 5:28:10 PM   
TheLadyConstance


Posts: 40
Joined: 8/19/2008
Status: offline 		I second azropedntied's suggestion of "How to Capture a Mistress" .  Buy it, read it, follow it.  Sure, it's not foolproof, and not ALL dominant females will want a male who has groomed himself this way, but I bet a LOT of them will, and it's a good place to start your journey.
Go buy it.  Now!

Have you gone, yet?  Get going!

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RE: How to be bait for mistresses? - 9/19/2008 6:19:47 PM   
azropedntied


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Joined: 7/25/2005
From: Phx AZ
Status: offline 		shakes head , Lady C .. points , he is still here and not gotten the required reading material   yet .chuckles . thanks for the  second vote regarding the suggestion . Yes its a great start , and gives pain simple terms .And your right its not a catch all training manual thankfully .

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