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RE: Pain, how do you experience it? - 9/19/2008 3:41:07 PM

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For some reason I can handle sharp pain better than dull pain. Bite, scratch, even cut- I'm good. I tend to focus more on the heat of it than the sting, if that makes sense. With sharp pain it's there, then it almost immediately fades to this hottness that I enjoy. Sharp slaps are good too. Dull pain, like a paddle, take me a lot longer to deal with and breathe through. I'm really not sure why or if it's even 'normal'. I just know that I dread the paddle but look forward to the crop. Seems odd to me... The biggest way I deal with the type of pain I do not enjoy is constantly reminding myself it will be over in a second. I bear down and breathe through it. I don't ride it or even get carried along with it, I tend to batten down to deal with it more I guess. Kind of like when you're in labor- bite down, push through, then it's over. I wish that dull pain would carry me away though- then I wouldn't get sweaty palms everytime my Master says the word 'paddle'.

It's the opposite for me......i'll take the paddle over the crop any day....

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RE: Pain, how do you experience it? - 9/19/2008 4:18:51 PM

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Kidney Stone pain i NEVER wish to experience again .Your a pain slut if you can laugh at that level of pain .Bdsm pain i receive i leave up to Ma'am to give to me how she see's fit .She can see if i need something in line with a cathartic release or something less or a variation .Its a wonderful thing not to have to worry about a menu to order off of but instead leave that in capable hands .

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RE: Pain, how do you experience it? - 9/19/2008 6:48:25 PM

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I dunno. I guess I just reflect on pain after it happens. I think about what if the next session will be more painful than the last, things like that. Hey, what doesn't kill me makes me stronger!

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RE: Pain, how do you experience it? - 9/19/2008 10:01:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

Kidney Stone pain i NEVER wish to experience again .Your a pain slut if you can laugh at that level of pain .Bdsm pain i receive i leave up to Ma'am to give to me how she see's fit .She can see if i need something in line with a cathartic release or something less or a variation .Its a wonderful thing not to have to worry about a menu to order off of but instead leave that in capable hands .

OMG...i can NOT believe i forgot about my gallbladder issues....holy chit now THAT was painful...as a matter of fact, the first time i had a truly challenging scene involving so much pain that i broke into a sweat i recalled that searing overwhelming pain i had before my surgery...one minute i was walking around the living room and next you know im rolling around on the floor all broken out in flop sweat and praying to die....Please Lord...just take me now!!

Then there was the whole labor thing....what a nightmare...i told my OB that i watched 2 yrs of Baby Story prior to getting knockedup so i knew for a fact that i could have my epidural at 4 cms....so i wanted the guy to meet me in the lobby of the hospital all ready to go...i wouldnt be inside the building until i knew for a fact i was dilated...as it was i had to beg....(heaven forbid)...then they overestimated my weight and i was numb up to my shoulders...and so high i was slapping my own ass soundly and announcing to my partner/wife that my ass felt fabulous......and we were decidedly vanilla....even for dykes.

So as happy as i am today....and as able as i am to process pain...i dont think that the pain i beg for now is of the same quality or calibre of the pain of true trauma or illness. i have a feeling that if i were to have another bout of labor i would be begging the MD for an epidural and trying to name my next baby after the anesthesiologist.
My um was almost named...."x...Dr. Winkleman...x"...i see no reason not to attempt to repeat that. Keep it a family namesake.

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