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RE: i'm confused - 9/20/2008 7:25:03 AM

sub4hire

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ORIGINAL: gerty
i have gotten several messages asking me "why are you here" i see that other owned slaves are a part of collarme

the "do not message, not available" was put on there per my owner's request.

is there a reason why i can't be here?

Since you seem to think it is only you getting those questions. Have you asked some of the owners of the other profiles that say the same thing? If you did you would find out they are going through the same e-mails you are.
So, let me ask you the question. Do they have a right to be here?
If the answer is yes it is still a free country in some aspects. You also belong here. You cannot allow a few people to govern your life. They are not your dominant and if you allow them to you are cheating your dominant.
Domination comes in many forms and control is a big one. If you run because a stranger used domination on you to get you to run...then they are controlling you.

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RE: i'm confused - 9/20/2008 9:06:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: gerty

this is my very first posting and possibly my last.

Please do not make it your last if you are here to read and contribute to forums. Your input might be valuable to just one person who is struggling or needs a good chuckle for the day.

yes i'm confused. i am owned. my profile is not filled out, but it does state "do not message, not available"

My profile is very brief also. Under "read mail" there is a section "mail controls". Check every box and you will never see the mail sent. It goes to bulk. Then once a month or so, delete all the bulk mail. Just a suggestion.

i have gotten several messages asking me "why are you here" i see that other owned slaves are a part of collarme

Everyone has a right to be here for their own purpose. Forget the dumb fucks.

the "do not message, not available" was put on there per my owner's request.

I do know, and this is not a judgement on the part of your owner,
insecurity manifests itself as "as my property you are not allowed to initiate speak to anyone, respond to anyone."

is there a reason why i can't be here?

The dumb fucks shouldnt be here.

if so, please explain and if necessary i will delete my account

Try something like this on your profile:
I am very happy and do not need another Owner.
It is an honor and priviledge to be His.
(All mail goes to bulk.)

But what if a female subs wants to contact you in regards to something you contribute here, on this side?
Does your Owner not want that either?
Are you allowed to only read forums?

Being close to your age, my owner doenst mind who I email with cause he knows where my heart and mind is..on him. He doesnt mind if I share, contribute, rub elbows with anyone cause he trusts my instincts to delete/block if I choose to.
But I dont ever request advice on our relationship cause that is a breech of trust, respect and openness.

Don't be confused.

thank Y/you

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RE: i'm confused - 9/20/2008 9:11:35 AM

RealSub58

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ORIGINAL: lizcgirl

tell them to fuck off,

If my owner caught me writing that...I'd get the cane with marks to remind me for a long time, his property is to reflect his ownership. If he wants to say "fuck off dumb ass" that is him, not my choice.

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RE: i'm confused - 9/20/2008 10:06:28 AM

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For a while I had "just here for the forums, not actively looking" in my profile, and I had several emails from those who said I was full of shit and a liar etc....some tend to take ones lack of interest in general, as a personal slight against them. I don't know why this is. Makes no sense to me.

If you want to be here and your owner allows it - you belong here.

There are some who seem to think that this place is ONLY for those actively seeking another, despite all evidence to the contrary. Just shake your head at their rather limited focus, and forget them.

< Message edited by WinsomeDefiance -- 9/20/2008 10:10:45 AM >

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RE: i'm confused - 9/20/2008 10:25:44 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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there's no need to delete your profile, OP.

it's the norm around here that some after seeing a pretty face and/or sexy picture message without reading the profile. i still get messages asking what i'm looking for in a Dom/Daddy or male submissive despite saying in nice bright red lettering that i'm not currently seeking.

just simply ignore, block and/or delete the messages

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RE: i'm confused - 9/20/2008 11:04:39 AM

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For what it's worth gerty, I'm not looking for anyone either nor do I ever expect to be. That doesn't stop me from coming here and nobody has made me feel unwelcome.

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RE: i'm confused - 9/20/2008 5:01:23 PM

littleone35

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I am very happilily owned and my profile states such and also states if Dom's/Dommes want to contact me they should get Master's permision first because he read all my mail. It also stated the female subs/slaves con contact me directly but i still get mail from Dom's who have not spoken to my Master.

To the OP as long as it is ok with your Master no reason you should not be here. This is a place for questions and to gain insight. If they are rude ignore them. iIfthey are polite and nice and if you wish to explain to them why you are here. Also welcome to the boards

Matt's littleone

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RE: i'm confused - 9/20/2008 10:02:03 PM

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thank you, everyone, for all of your thoughts and ideals. i have changed my profile and will use that delete feature.

gerty

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RE: i'm confused - 9/21/2008 5:26:24 AM

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Glad you decided to stick around.

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