seaspirit -> RE: What makes you submit completely? (9/28/2008 3:29:43 PM)
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Trust and a feeling of connection, or intimacy -- All He has to do, once trust and intimacy are established in the relationship, is hold me and gaze into my eyes... and i go to my submissive place... His kisses melt me like chocolate. Then, i'm yearning to do anything He wants... At least, it feels that way, and since He knows and respects my limits, doing whatever He wants has always been beautiful. But knowing my limits doesn't happen magically. Master talks over new ideas with me in advance, when we are in "real time." He just says something like, "What would you think about...." or, "I want you to imagine being ... and tell me how it makes you feel." He puts a lot of thoughtfulness, caring, and effort into our relationship, and i can feel it. i am ever so grateful...
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