Mousefriend -> Hello from Cali (9/21/2008 10:54:04 AM)
Hello I am new to my involvement in the scene but not new to the scene itself. I have alot of people in my life that are either doms or subs. Mostly doms. I never given my tendencies towards being a sub much thought until about a year ago. Personality wise I always seem very dominate but when it came to relationships I Hated being the one in control. After discussing this we a good friend who is a Mistress she helped me understand that I was a alpha submissive. In a group of subs I tend to be bossy and dominate. But what I was looking for was someone stronger in personality then myself. Unfortunately I am not sure how to proceed with is. I have been to a few events but I have difficultly break threw form a spectator to a potential participate. I guess I am just not sure how to do this safely and considerately.
GotyouinitsSway -> RE: Hello from Cali (9/21/2008 2:01:20 PM)
Welcome aboard. San Diego is a fine Navy town so that seemed like the appropriate greeting.
Good for you to be pursuing your interest. Who knows, maybe it will become a passion.