Alexander48
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ORIGINAL: patina This girl begs to ask a silly question on this puppy soothergag. Is it geared to be used as a training tool for sucking a dick? or as a gag to shut her up ? or for both. I know everyone will use it for their own devices but wondered what the main kink interest was. I have a very small mouth and a quick gag reflex, i love to suck a cock but have a hard time with large ones -- though seem to lately only get those that never get beyond limp form-- i am looking for ways to develope a better way to not get chocked or get tired too quick. i hope i have not offended anyone. had a ultra strict subjected upbring to sex, i am considered an oddilty to my family. patina Hello patina, First let me say that you certainly have not offended me, and I appreciate your interest on this topic and desire to learn. The main kink interest for me is because it pleases me to see a sub/slave's lips wrapped around such a (slightly phallic shaped) object. I have been known to have a slave suck on a lollipop or Tootsie Roll in order to enjoy the same pleasing sight of licking and sucking. With this toy, the soother shape also adds an element of humiliation...which is very erotic to many in this lifestyle. The fact that it is made for puppies can also be great fun in "puppygirl" scenes. However in this case it is also a very effective gag (when you thread some kind of buckled strap through the ring at the top and buckle it up at the back the neck), which is another advantage. Regarding your cocksucking training tool question, that is a whole topic in itself. But I would say that taking almost anything (including the toy we are discussing here) progressively deeper in your mouth can be an effective way to learn to control your gag reflex. This comes easier for some people than others of course. The gag reflex (pharyngeal reflex) is there for a reason but there are many articles online that teach ways to gradually desensitize it. A Google search will show quite a number of them...many of which involve simply using a toothbrush. I don't know what to say about your problem with limp cocks, except perhaps to be more discerning in your choice of partners. As for being considered an oddity in your family, I think you should turn this view around and remind yourself that you are special and unique! Having a positive and adventurous attitude about sex is only a good thing in my view. Be proud of who you are...and make sure that anyone you date or submit to reinforces that pride! Best Wishes, Alexander ps. With this toy, for any size of human mouth, make sure you get the size designed for small breeds of puppies, or else it will be too big. The small size, however, can be taken all the way into most sized mouths without much problem.
< Message edited by Alexander48 -- 9/23/2008 1:40:38 PM >
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