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SlaveIndigochild -> RE: Totality (9/22/2008 12:05:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes Nice telling, and I love your new pic, indi [:)] Oh now Indi is a nice diminutive....thanks. And what was so ironic was that we just looked like two mad holidaymakers doing mad things in the sea. it's edgy doing stuff like this embedded in everyday life.

angelslave77 -> RE: Totality (9/22/2008 12:08:34 AM)
Congratulations that is a wonderful story. I guess my trust in my Sir comes from the fact that he moved 1400km across the country, left his job, sold his business, moved away from is family and friends to come be with me and my lil peeps.

slaveluci -> RE: Totality (9/22/2008 5:31:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild My questions is; what have you done, in your dynamic, which has furthered this deeper type of trust, either within the submissive position or from the dominant position in having your will obeyed? We spent all day inside, doing nothing but watching tv and reading the paper. I loved your answer, LA, and have to say mine is pretty much the same. Everyday with Him deepens my trust in Him and in us because I see moment-to-moment and day-to-day just how worthy of that trust that He is. It's something that builds all the time no matter what activity is taking place................luci

IvyMorgan -> RE: Totality (9/22/2008 1:23:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild quote: ORIGINAL: IvyMorgan He put a collar on me. (Not as in "he collared me" but as in, "here is a collar" and then he put it on) Twas not wholly pleasant, as experiences go. And, nothing like how yours turned out, Prin smiles i've had this happen...seems like years ago now but it was only about a year ago. i thought it was supposed to be highly significant and i read into it that it was at the time. But it was just the way it was and i should have trusted my instinct but my instinct was deeply buried at the time. what my instinct was telling me was that the collar meant little or nothing and so, as it happened, the relationship itself meant little or nothng. Rituals are as meaningful as the ritualists make them. I think you misread me, neither of us put any significance on the collar, it was a thing to help in restraining me, and to look pretty, that was all. Unfortunatly, I have a dodgy history with collars (for restraint or as symbols), and he managed to tap into that. Made for interesting conversation whilst I was doing an impression of a very dizzy thing.

SrchngCpl73112 -> RE: Totality (9/22/2008 4:16:46 PM)
The day I was officially collared to him was one of the best days. He ordered me a day collar online and I am not allowed to remove it at all unless he removes it for me to be cleaned with the silver cleaner. Being collared has meant the world to both of us. I think in some ways it is more meaningful than marriage. But really every day I can think of things that he has showed me and opened me up too that are very meaningful. Every day is a blessing with him!

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Totality (9/22/2008 4:25:38 PM)
every day he proves himself worthy of my trust. Deepening levels and layers as we go.

MzDeadlyRed -> RE: Totality (9/22/2008 6:52:09 PM)
How wonderful for you! I had a panic attack just reading that. He spent all night with me in the hospital when it was thought I was having a heart attack. I knew from that minute on he was yin to my yan and truly my soul's mate.

JewAndCelt -> RE: Totality (9/22/2008 7:05:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild My questions is; what have you done, in your dynamic, which has furthered this deeper type of trust, either within the submissive position or from the dominant position in having your will obeyed? We got married. We wrote our own vows and they were heavy laced with our D/s mentailty. Then we ran off to Punta Cana and played around on the beach drinking dirty monkeys and presidente beer and hanging out in the swim up pool. _her

sistermargaret -> RE: Totality (9/22/2008 10:35:49 PM)
Wonderful story, i'm so happy for you, both. That moment of trust came the first time we played. After He helped me up off the spanking bench in the local BDSM scene, we both grinned this goofy grin and looked deeply into each other's eyes ... and we knew that the trust was there. We were both looking for a great playmate more than anything else and we both knew at that moment we'd found our dream date, lol. sm All it takes is absolute surrender

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