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RE: the end of ownership - 9/21/2008 8:01:56 PM

urlittleprincess

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ORIGINAL: serisa

there was no collar nor contract but He verbally said i was His. visits about once a week for 18months or so... one day He said He didnt want control of me anymore, the Dominace stopped, He just turned vanilla really... no explaination... i asked why but He just says that He doesnt know what i am talking about

so...are you still together 'vanilla-style' then? my Dom told me about a month ago that He doesn't want D/s anymore and i have been having such a hard time with it...i still have Him and He is happily planning all these vanilla activities for when i move there, but truthfully, im not sure i want the relationship without the D/s....and that makes me feel so guilty because He tells me im being mean...<sigh> i wish you the best...i know how you feel...but if you take some of the good advice offered here, you will be just fine and perhaps meet the person you are meant to be with!! :)

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RE: the end of ownership - 9/21/2008 11:47:03 PM

patina

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As others say i cried for a couple of weeks then decided to start out with a new outlook, i decided i would just move on. Mine was not as long as yours but i was hurt just the same. i still stunble now sometimes, look back occassionally with weepy eyes, then turn and face forward again. It is a process that just takes time.
Get out and move to other areas of interests but don't give this up. In time there will be more to talk with that will interest you, but only when you are ready. i wish you the best of luck.

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RE: the end of ownership - 9/22/2008 3:25:03 PM

tweedydaddy

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You pick yourself up dust yourself off and you write a new profile, then you go shopping, buy new shoes and get blind drunk! The hangover will take your mind right off it

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