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RE: Really Unusual Situation - 11/16/2008 8:11:58 AM

antipode

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I have purposely kept the sexual aspects of a D/s relationship out of it for the first phase of her training.

Big mistake. You need to establish ownership of a sub right up front, it is part of reprogramming her mind, which is what training is, and using her for your sexual gratification (not: having sex with her) is an essential part of that. I think you probably don't know as much as you think you do. No woman with submissive tendencies will respect you if you don't take what you want from her. You're almost negating her femininity.

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RE: Really Unusual Situation - 11/16/2008 8:29:48 AM

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Oh brother.. ~rolls eyes~... Like you know everything about EVERY submissive woman..oh yea.. the be all to end all...

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RE: Really Unusual Situation - 11/16/2008 10:42:12 PM

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this thread was started a couple of months ago....it would be interesting to see how the OP is going with the submissive

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RE: Really Unusual Situation - 11/17/2008 4:15:44 PM

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Agreed...now I'm curious. It's great to hear things worked out (and I suspect this sort of thing is more normal than we imagine)...but now I want to know 'the rest of the story.'

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RE: Really Unusual Situation - 11/17/2008 11:27:07 PM

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LOL... should some of this been in the humor section? God... he sucks because he can't tell the future and talk about anything and everything that could come up and because all submissive's need to be put in a postion where what the dominant wants he/she takes. ROFL Give us a break! Oh... you did! lol Thanks for the laughs because neither of those comments could be taken seriously by at least me... hummmm... Guess I shouldn't try to speak for everyone... which is exactly my point and why I said that!

No one can know how every relationship will go or what will come up and be a mind reader and no one can determine how every submissive should be trained, worked, taken, not taken or anything else. LOL... this place is always good for a few laughs.

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RE: Really Unusual Situation - 11/18/2008 11:02:15 AM

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never mind -- it resolved ;)

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RE: Really Unusual Situation - 11/18/2008 4:06:58 PM

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LOL..seems to me your doing fine...

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RE: Really Unusual Situation - 11/20/2008 2:55:15 AM

tweedydaddy

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Talk it over carefully, has the thought occurred to you, as it would to me, that if this went wrong you could wind up in jail?
Plenty of force sex panic issues in there I guess...

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RE: Really Unusual Situation - 11/26/2008 1:43:41 PM

masterdstar

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Or you could throw her down, tie her up, slap and flog her silly and force her to have 10-15 orgasms, untie her and hold her and clean her up and give hugs and kisses since it appears you were not 100% above board at the beginning why start now?

Or just listen to the entire caring PC, SSC responses.

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RE: Really Unusual Situation - 11/29/2008 10:12:08 PM

Passion357

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ORIGINAL: antipode

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I have purposely kept the sexual aspects of a D/s relationship out of it for the first phase of her training.

Big mistake. You need to establish ownership of a sub right up front, it is part of reprogramming her mind, which is what training is, and using her for your sexual gratification (not: having sex with her) is an essential part of that. I think you probably don't know as much as you think you do. No woman with submissive tendencies will respect you if you don't take what you want from her. You're almost negating her femininity.

Psst Antipode, you're wrong.

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RE: Really Unusual Situation - 11/29/2008 10:38:56 PM

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Psst Antipode, you're wrong.

I second that statement!

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