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When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 8:13:31 PM   
AAkasha


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She's got a dungeons' worth of toys at her disposable.  You are bound and gagged, harnessed to a chair. Naked.  She's been taking out the toys one at at time, absolutely delighting out loud - talking about how these instruments will be used on you. The huge strap on dildo, the terrifying nipple clamps, the tens unit, the vibrators, the inflatable plugs and dildos..the O-ring gag, the riding crop and the cane..you name it. 

She places them with great care on the tabletop as she unloads her "bag of tricks" and sometimes pauses to reflect, pleasure herself. Sometimes it's as if you are not even there, unless you grunt and she looks over, then she smiles and continues. She does seem to take great joy in watching you struggle though, pausing from her "toy presentation" task to just watch you, tracing the inner flesh of her thigh with the tip of a skinny vibe.

She enjoys looking at you a lot. At your eyes.  And the feeling of the vibe. And all those PLANS!  She has so much....planning.  So many toys. What a long night. What a long WEEKEND it will be -- all those toys and her plans and....

And then she cums.

Right there, with the vibe. You tied up. She never put a hand on you.  The toys go back into the bag as she apologizes, cheeks flushed, skin glistening with sweat. She unties you. She's done, she feels kind of..silly now. 

But don't worry, in a few days, she will want to do it again.  But it happens again. Every time she ties you up and gets her toys out she cums before she can use them on you.  The good news is...she came.  The bad news is...she came.

How long do you put up with that?  Is all that matters...her pleasure?

Akasha

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 8:17:16 PM   
Venatrix


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Status: offline 		Not much of a domme if she can't play after she's had an orgasm, is she?  I'd keep going and enjoy all the subsequent orgasms, not pack up my toys.  If I were a sub, I expect I wouldn't put up with it for very long.

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 8:19:30 PM   
Dilseachd


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Status: offline 		I dont know that getting into a power exchange with someone who has a Toy fetish and never actually uses them would go well towards that exchange part of...power exchange. I suppose there are stranger things than getting off simply from taking out bdsm toys and never using them.  :)  Unless your biggest thrill is being tied up and watching somone get themselves off from fondling toys...I suppose that would be a good match.

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 8:20:45 PM   
AAkasha


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Not much of a domme if she can't play after she's had an orgasm, is she?  I'd keep going and enjoy all the subsequent orgasms, not pack up my toys.  If I were a sub, I expect I wouldn't put up with it for very long.


Hmmm I don't know.  It was a hypothetical situation I described. I know that a sexual orgasm does not stop me from doing anything, pure and simple. A more "emotional" orgasm, the one I get from domination, it does signal the end of any kind of "play" for me as I go into a sensory overload for a bit. But that's only after reaching a point in reaction to where my submissive's been "pushed to," so it wouldn't happen from just taking out my toys, so to speak.

Akasha


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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 8:23:58 PM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

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Not much of a domme if she can't play after she's had an orgasm, is she?  I'd keep going and enjoy all the subsequent orgasms, not pack up my toys.  If I were a sub, I expect I wouldn't put up with it for very long.


Hmmm I don't know.  It was a hypothetical situation I described. I know that a sexual orgasm does not stop me from doing anything, pure and simple. A more "emotional" orgasm, the one I get from domination, it does signal the end of any kind of "play" for me as I go into a sensory overload for a bit. But that's only after reaching a point in reaction to where my submissive's been "pushed to," so it wouldn't happen from just taking out my toys, so to speak.

Akasha



Oh, I hadn't assumed your remarks were autobiographical.  It just sounds more like a selfish domme rather than one who enjoys mutual satisfaction.  I fall very much into the latter camp.  His enjoyment intensifies mine.

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 8:37:51 PM   
ElanSubdued


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It just sounds more like a selfish domme rather than one who enjoys mutual satisfaction.  I fall very much into the latter camp.  His enjoyment intensifies mine.


Good girl.

*ducks and runs* :-)

Elan.

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 8:43:41 PM   
Lockit


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Venatrix,

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It just sounds more like a selfish domme rather than one who enjoys mutual satisfaction.  I fall very much into the latter camp.  His enjoyment intensifies mine.


Good girl.

*ducks and runs* :-)

Elan.



Now this is worth watching... lol (sitting back in the cheering section)

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 8:46:54 PM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

Venatrix,

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It just sounds more like a selfish domme rather than one who enjoys mutual satisfaction.  I fall very much into the latter camp.  His enjoyment intensifies mine.


Good girl.

*ducks and runs* :-)

Elan.



Now this is worth watching... lol (sitting back in the cheering section)


I know what he's up to.  Looking for a little sparring on a dull Sunday night.  Well, I'm not giving it to him.  I said I was into mutual satisfaction, what I didn't say was that Elan was the exception to the rule.

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 8:48:07 PM   
Lockit


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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 8:48:27 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I couldn't see this ever happening with Me, either.  Even if I did take things to a sexual level before playing, I can't imagine the sadist in Me thinking of it as anything more than round one.  It's so good to be a woman.

<Looks confused at the concept of never using the toys, and walks away.>


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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 9:06:49 PM   
houstonmalesub


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

A more "emotional" orgasm, the one I get from domination, it does signal the end of any kind of "play" for me as I go into a sensory overload for a bit.


Interesting about the "sensory overload" bit.  I see a woman occasionally who loves - no, "lives" she says - to be serviced orally.  When I'm through (it gets shorter each time ... lol), she says that she's absolutely useless to do much else.  In fact, she'll often just snuggle and lightly play with my nipples for about 30 minutes or so (which is fine by me too).  [She has plans to use her strap-on on me, but says that she'll have to do it first.]

In the scenario that AAkasha presented, I enjoy bondage.  I would be satisfied just being in that position.  Plus I enjoy knowing that my Domme has been pleased and satisfied, regardless of what has transpired.  So I would be fulfilled to an extent; however, I'm not certain how long I would be able to repeat that scene without some variation.

Jon 

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 9:09:42 PM   
ElanSubdued


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And then she cums.  Right there, with the vibe.  You tied up.  She never put a hand on you.  The toys go back into the bag as she apologizes, cheeks flushed, skin glistening with sweat.  She unties you.  She's done, she feels kind of... silly now.


I see no reason for a Domme to feel silly for enjoying herself.  Hmmm.  About the scenario you've described, speaking for myself, were this to happen sometimes, it would be hot because:  (1) I enjoy seeing my Domme pleasure herself and orgasm, (2) if I'm my Domme's visual treat, that's a nice, ego-stroking compliment, and (3) helping my Domme get off, even if all I'm doing is providing eye candy, is something I like to do..  However, were this to occur every time (or dare I say extremely frequently), it would wear thin.  I'm all for providing visual stimulus for my partner and for watching and enjoying her enjoy herself.  Just because she has candy doesn't mean I always need and/or get candy.  I *do* like candy though!  (Here, I'm talking about sexual release "candy" and not just the visual stuff.)  So yes, take, give, give and take, she gets a turn, I get a turn... we both get simultaneous turns... it's all good.  The relationship dynamics that we kinksters tend to enjoy are intrinsically unbalanced.  This doesn't mean that the pendulum never swings back and forth.  Indeed, sometimes it's nice when the pendulum meets in the middle from time-to-time.

Elan.

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 9:11:24 PM   
ElanSubdued


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quote:

Now this is worth watching... lol (sitting back in the cheering section)


Ah, but who are you cheering for?

Elan.

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 9:14:01 PM   
Lockit


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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

Lockit,

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Now this is worth watching... lol (sitting back in the cheering section)


Ah, but who are you cheering for?

Elan.



That depends on what is happening and what I think might happen... but placing bets... I'm going for the dominant winning every time.  Would you have it any other way? hehe

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 9:20:22 PM   
ElanSubdued


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I know what he's up to.  Looking for a little sparring on a dull Sunday night.  Well, I'm not giving it to him.  I said I was into mutual satisfaction, what I didn't say was that Elan was the exception to the rule.


To borrow a recent line from Pyrrsefanie:  "well played sir... well played indeed".  And actually, it's not a dull Sunday night.  I'm very busy doing laundry, cleaning house, and getting things in order for the start of my week tomorrow.  No mutual satisfaction for Elan.  Pfft!

(Side note:  that was an extremely respectful, submissive, obsequious "pfft" I'll have you know. :-)

Elan.

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 9:29:14 PM   
ElanSubdued


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That depends on what is happening and what I think might happen... but placing bets... I'm going for the dominant winning every time.  Would you have it any other way? hehe


I don't consider it a loss when the Dominant wins.  Just sayin'.  (I guess this answers your question doesn't it? :-)  Ah, but that Venatrix chick.  She baited and attacked me for no reason.  You saw it!  You did!  I did *nothing* to invite her scorn.

*flutters eyes ever so innocently*

Elan.

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 9:38:21 PM   
ElanSubdued


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Elan:
Ah, but that Venatrix chick...


This is, of course, written with humility, admiration, and affection. :-)

Elan.

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 9:46:53 PM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

Venatrix,

quote:

Elan:
Ah, but that Venatrix chick...


This is, of course, written with humility, admiration, and affection. :-)

Elan.



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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 9:58:09 PM   
zakkan


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Status: offline 		If this was a cartoon, then there will be that huge drop of sweat on the sub's head, like cartoon characters have when something lame happens.

Seriously, after a few more such experiences, the sub will cease to struggle and just enjoy the show.


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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 10:02:44 PM   
ElanSubdued


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If I give you a spade...


You want to give me a spade?  How incredibly thoughtful of you!

Elan.

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