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RedheadedWoman -> What should i do? (9/22/2008 12:48:36 PM)

So this guy wrote to me a ton of stuff about his past including being arrested for stealing money from one of his slaves and seeing 5 women at the same time and like all sorts of drama. (i posted here about it a while ago and people gave me really good advice about ending it which I did.) But i know hes written to at least one other woman but he changed the sotry a whole lot (but not enough for me not to figure it out) probably because i got so freaked out by how scary i realized he was. He told me all sorts of nasty stuff about the woman who had him arrested like it was really her fault not his but he also told me that hes on probation and has to pay her back so that was probably all lies about her. So should i write to her and tell her about him or what?

i see him on collarme all the time and i bet hes writing to a lot of women and lying like crazy about his past. Except for hearing about all the weird stuff about his past i would probably have gone to meet him and i bet a lot of other women will as well because hes really smart and a really good writer and says a lot of romantic stuff that got me all melty and all.

i really dont know what to do because i hate to think of other women being fooled by him. It just seems wrong to let it happen you know?

rhw



CallaFirestormBW -> RE: What should i do? (9/22/2008 12:49:54 PM)

Didn't we just go through this exact same discussion with you just a couple of weeks back???

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2112617/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#2112617

CFB



LadyLupineNYC -> RE: What should i do? (9/22/2008 12:51:31 PM)

Most likely, yes, but you are not your sisters' keeper. Let's assume that the vast majority of woman on here are bright enough to see through him and that the few how are not will learn soon enough. Honestly, though, that has got to be the worst set of pick-up lines ever!



KatyLied -> RE: What should i do? (9/22/2008 12:53:13 PM)

quote:


i really dont know what to do


Do nothing.



DesFIP -> RE: What should i do? (9/22/2008 12:54:29 PM)

If he's that obviously so flaky that you saw the glaring red flags, then don't you think anybody else will too?

The problem with writing to say "don't meet dom x" is that it's likely to convince her he just dumped you and she should meet him. Beyond that, you still don't know if he's real or some 14 year old laughing himself silly.



JohnWarren -> RE: What should i do? (9/22/2008 12:56:12 PM)

Write a book for Silhouette Books?

What in the heck can you do anyway?  Attacking him would only encourage him to change his screen name.

There's another drama.  Just change the channel.



IR -> RE: What should i do? (9/22/2008 1:02:20 PM)

I think you just did what you where supposed to do and that is remind us all that there are predators out there to be aware off. Other than that there is nothing you can do but hope he runs into someone like himself.
 



porcelaine -> RE: What should i do? (9/22/2008 1:04:16 PM)

The advice you've been given is solid. Your intentions may be well meaning but you'll come off as a woman scorned instead. Furthermore, if he was half as sinister as he's portrayed himself, it is probable that he would have multiple names, not merely the one he used with you. Chalk it up to a lesson learned and move on. Good luck.

porcelaine




PrincessJ77 -> RE: What should i do? (9/22/2008 2:10:21 PM)

Damn I hate summer reruns.  Isn't the new TV season starting soon?



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