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Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 9/22/2008 7:21:01 PM

ChastityKolesi

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I love the idea of being humilited as a cuckold slave..The idea of my mistress having a boy friend drives me really crazy..This situation figures out my place exactly...I am not gay or bisex but I can serve both (not sexually to males) ,tribute them etc..

Do women need ''cuckold slaves'' when they are emotionally in love ?

I'm looking for over years but couldn't have found a dominant lady in my area (Turkey/istanbul)who loves these...

What can you advice me ?

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 9/22/2008 7:23:57 PM

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Move...

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 9/22/2008 7:26:58 PM

ChastityKolesi

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I really think of moving ...Especially to Germany ,japan or to U.S

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 9/23/2008 3:28:00 AM

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Yeah, I'd move... just because those countrys sound interesting.

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 9/23/2008 2:54:09 PM

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Wow, I'd really like to be able to offer you some useful advice here other than "move". I don't know where or how you have been searching for this, but I'm guessing this is more of a cultural thing. Knowing very little about your part of the world, I couldn't speculate.

I will point out that I live in the USA and there isn't a lot of women here who are into cuckoldry. Just like most aspects of kinky sex, it is overwhelmingly male. Before anyone jumps up to disagree, I can only say I'm basing this on the ratio of personal ads of women vs men.

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 9/23/2008 3:20:37 PM

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Certain cultures do not have as free a society as others, especially in regards to sex. As a woman on a site like this, I can tell you, there are a lot of men from certain countries that have far more a difficult time in finding a kinky partner. It isn't simply a matter of more men out there seeking than women. In my response of a simple... move... there is a bit of attitude, oh yes. I get tired of out of the country men, dominant and submissive, but mostly cam lovin species who want to be enslaved to a USA dominant woman. So my choice was to give a one word response rather than show more of my attitude. I did want to give more, but you know, that is a little hard when I don't know what this man faces in his country. All I know is a lot of men from his area contact me.

So, in my mind, I see that as... they view American women as sluts and treat them as they would not someone in their own country or things are difficult in finding freedoms one might find in another country.

As for cuckolding, there are many, even at this site that are very much into it. In a place where there might be some hindrence to being out there... able to meet up with others... if it is really important to you, move. If a move is impossible... I am sorry. Finding a partner on one facet of one's life or sexuality... isn't what I would consider reasonable though.

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 1/31/2009 10:36:48 PM

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as a person living in Istanbul - Turkey I think you are totally wrong...
In my opinion all women are more powerfull than men.I think you see women in Turkey are not dominant and not openminded for kinky sex. However , this is totally wrong.. Our country is men-oriented country. (actually the world is men-oriented)
So not seeing a woman on the street dominating Her sub is so normal.
However , when you observe some of the lifestyles in the FAMILIES (behind the doors) , you can see the Turkish Women ARE dominants (and so bitchy)

IMO , you want to get all your fantazies in short term. And you want to experience all of the things you are seeing on the websites.. But it wont be easy in other countries as well..
All in all you have to be calm and try harder... If you want to get something you have to give more from yourself... and not blaming the others and the system..
you have to built your own system...

suggestion:
find a partner who can listen what you are saying and who can understand you , try to explain yourself to her , explain your desires...Be aware , these wont be easy ! and these can take tooo long time..
I know you would feel unhappy and want to get all in one time. quickly.. BUT sorry dude.. You can not get always what you want.... but you can try :)

cheers.
coca

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 2/1/2009 12:06:09 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: coca
So not seeing a woman on the street dominating Her sub is so normal.
However , when you observe some of the lifestyles in the FAMILIES (behind the doors) , you can see the Turkish Women ARE dominants (and so bitchy)

Despite what some might think, walking slaves around down the street is NOT a common practice in the states. GASP! Oh, and just because women are dominant does not mean they want to BE a dominant (ie, in the BDSM or d/s sense).

I don't know shit about Turkey or Istanbul. There might some amazing hidden kink life there, who knows. I do know that there are plenty of women into wanting a cuckhold. I'm on the "you should move" bandwagon. To where, who knows. Perhaps there are cities in that part of the world with a higher kink population than where you are. Or just try the easy spots like the US or whatever.

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 2/1/2009 4:13:26 AM

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quote:

bull4cuckolds wrote:
Before anyone jumps up to disagree, I can only say I'm basing this on the ratio of personal ads of women vs men.

That's not a good thing to base anything on. If you look at the (vanilla) personal ads section of any newspaper, you'll find that the overwhelming majority of the ads are placed by men under abuot 45 and women over about 45. But you wouldn't conclude that only younger men and older women want ordinary relationships.

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 2/1/2009 6:55:36 AM

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I have no idea what the domina situation is like in your part of the world. I can only assume that people are basically the same everywhere. There are lots of ways to find a Mistress. Using this site is a good one, but there are so many more.

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 2/1/2009 7:44:11 AM

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Gimme 2 cents...As a Dominant woman in the U.S. it is simply too difficult to find a quality lay that wants to be on the OPPOSITE side of a cuckolding situation. Especially one that is looking for something L/T...
MD

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 3/28/2009 3:37:36 PM

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Still searching for a cuckoldress in istanbul ...

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 3/28/2009 4:08:43 PM

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Can you tell us WHAT you are doing to find her. Maybe we could advise you if you would tell us what you are doing. Be prepared. Being a cuckold is intense and very gut wrenching. But it is also an incredible thrill.

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younger men/ older women - 3/29/2009 10:19:29 AM

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No, but you could speculate that older women are more motivated than younger women to LOOK FOR relationships (because younger women have youth and beauty on their side and are already in relationships or have men pursuing the at a greater frequency. Also, most divorced women with children remarry within 5 years so they could want (or need) relationships more than younger women due to their greater emotional and financial needs (for example, they need a father figure or want a stable home for the kids; alimony will run out and they want to line up a life partner to share the expensive mortgage). Younger women may want relationships but are not spending as much time looking for them via personal ads because men their age pursue them and/or they are focused on education or career and don't feel a rush to have a family yet since they have time on their side.

You could likewise speculate that younger men are more motivated to LOOK FOR relationships than older men because they are more likely to be single (with men over 45 are most likely married and thus unable to post traditional personals ads). They also might have a higher sex drive, or not being married and gotten used to less sex from their partners, seeking more casual dating or sex partners that may not necessarily be life-long partners. I also think men over 45 who are single don't advertise in personals for the reason younger women don't - they don't have to. If an older man is single, the single age-appropriate women around him may be more aggressively pursuing him so older single men are busy enough interacting/dating the people in their immediate social circle and don't need to place personals ads to get more potential partners.

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ORIGINAL: beeble
If you look at the (vanilla) personal ads section of any newspaper, you'll find that the overwhelming majority of the ads are placed by men under abuot 45 and women over about 45. But you wouldn't conclude that only younger men and older women want ordinary relationships.

beeble.

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 3/31/2009 2:09:02 AM

ChastityKolesi

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ORIGINAL: slavekal

Can you tell us WHAT you are doing to find her. Maybe we could advise you if you would tell us what you are doing. Be prepared. Being a cuckold is intense and very gut wrenching. But it is also an incredible thrill.

What I have done so far..?

You know no one has a writing says ''Hey come here slave I'm a financial cuckoldress and I will humiliate you'' on her head (or you cant understand it while you are looking at her eyes:) ..So I don't have a chance to understand if she is interested in bdsm (esp. cuckold humiliation ) The best way is to ''communicate'' so I am doing the basic mode of connecting and gaining information from someone...Being kind and trying not to irritate ..if I find the ''right radio channel/frekans/frequency'' I am trying to explain what bdsm or cuckold humuliation is ..But you all know its hard ,very hard ,to explain something that she is not interested in..I am just trying..

---Have you tried any other bdsm/fetish sites for finding ?

Of course...Tried,trying and will try:)

--And you haven't met any financial cuckoldresses ?

I met...But I am looking for a ''local'' one whom I can take her shopping ,doing her household etc...

---I think its about the cultural characteristics in your Country ...

Cultural content(idea/thought) affects the behaviour but not mainly if so there wouldn't be any mistresses,swingers,gays,lesbians here...

---There are many mature women looking for a relationship with a young boy

I am not interested in a ''vanilla sex'' relationship..As you see I am specifically talking about ''being a cuckold for a young brat dominant girl''

---What do you want exactly ..??

I want Paris Hilton to become the chief of Manchester united or Barcelona

---Excuse me ??

Sorry,just kidding ...What I want is;To serve couples..To take my Mistress shopping,doing her household,tributing her and her lover for their entertainment (its not important to meet with her boy friend..But to know she has one is enough for me)
---Why ?

Because ,having a boy friend may mean she isn't in emotional or sexual need.And this idea leads me take more pleasure..

I have a great video clip for you..Watch it its absolutely about cuckold humiliation and its really great..

http://www.cucciolopage.com/shop/video289/video289.php

Thanks,but I already watched it...And I agree its really amazing..

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 3/31/2009 4:22:25 AM

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There are ways to get to where you want to be. It takes time and strategy, though. I have known several women who were cuckoldresses. I am with one now. I know that it can be done. Use the internet sites, go to parties, meet women wherever you can. When you are with a "vanilla" woman, there are many ways to steer conversations to the subjects of female domination and cuckolding.

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 3/31/2009 4:40:38 PM

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If you do a search on cuckolds, there are many to be had. I agree with what was said earlier, finding a bull would be much harder than finding a cuck. Saw the pics before, and wonder if the ones showing the woman standing on the guy are real. I can't imagine anyone being able to have a woman stand on them with spiked heels, or on the mouth with any kind of shoes, except maybe slippers.

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 4/3/2009 10:42:32 AM

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ive been a cuckhold to a Mistress it can be very yhumiliateing espically when the other Male is given full power over the sub male ...

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 4/3/2009 5:53:18 PM

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Saw the pics before, and wonder if the ones showing the woman standing on the guy are real. I can't imagine anyone being able to have a woman stand on them with spiked heels, or on the mouth with any kind of shoes, except maybe slippers.

It looks like in most of them, she was standing on one foot, so the one on him had no weight on it. There were a couple with both feet on him, but if you look at the angle of her legs, you can see she is leaning against the wall, so her weight is on the ball area of her feet, where the soles are flat, not back on her heels. In the ones with her feet on his mouth/face, she's sitting down, standing on one foot with the other there, or has her weight on the heels which are on the bed next to his face, with the flat part of the shoes on his face.

If I walk across a lawn after it has been watered in heels, I have to be careful to keep my weight forward on the balls of my feet, so I don't poke holes in it - same basic idea.

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RE: Advices for Cuckold humiliation,tributing.. - 4/4/2009 2:27:55 AM

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do you fem the cuck or dose the Dom / Bull make them/

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