Teachme2bnaughty
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Joined: 9/22/2008 Status: offline
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Hello All, I'm new here. Where to start.... I'm 28, live in dowtown Toronto. I'm interested in learning more about being a submissive, and possibly considering trying to be a switch later on. My first experience with BDSM was almost 10 years ago. A girlfriend at the time took me to one of the local fetish clubs. This was the first time I had seen anything remotely bondage oriented and from my understanding it was pretty mid level in the sense that it was a public club so no nudity was allowed, and they had people hired to make sure that no marks were left. Since then I've been in a few straight and lesbian relationships. I met my current primary partner when I was in an open relationship. I continue to play outside the relationship, he does not. While my current partner will play rough he is not into BDSM experimentation. I also believe that to really get the dynamic of BDSM right that a purely sexual based relationship would work better as the outside dynamics of other aspects of the relationship will not challenge the power dynamic. It has been quite a while since I have been with only a woman, so needless to say there's an itch I'd love to get the chance to scratch. I'm not into the teaching role though so I would prefer a woman who has more experience with women than me (or at least isn't expecting me to give out pointers). Thats' all for now, looking forward to getting to know this community.
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