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looking4myqueenb -> RE: Is She or isn't She...a Domme (9/24/2008 8:30:57 AM)

Darkcast, I may well go with your advice. I like her either way. Maybe if she really likes me she'll show it by giving me a good flogging![:)]
Chamberqueen, your analysis could be spot in too.




SassyBird -> RE: Is She or isn't She...a Domme (9/24/2008 8:43:41 AM)

Since you met on a vanilla dating site it could be possible she didn't "dare" to admit that she was into bdsm? With all the prejudice and misunderstandings there is about this lifestyle I think its more than possible thats the case.

All you really can do is ask.

Good luck!




Darkcast -> RE: Is She or isn't She...a Domme (9/24/2008 3:32:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SassyBird

Since you met on a vanilla dating site it could be possible she didn't "dare" to admit that she was into bdsm? With all the prejudice and misunderstandings there is about this lifestyle I think its more than possible thats the case.

All you really can do is ask.

Good luck!


Yeah that too.  I just say you should go with the flow and see what happens.  Then sometime later down the road you can bring it up.  This is mainly because if you bring it up now it may seem like I said creepy in general since it's like the immediate second date/meeting/whatever.




looking4myqueenb -> RE: Is She or isn't She...a Domme (9/25/2008 9:00:56 AM)

Well, last night I saw her for the second time. We never got near any kinky talk. Turns out she's just one month out of a 5 year relationship. She invited me to do an assortment of things with her but, since she was still in relationship recovery, just wanted me to be her "friend"...i.e. the rebound/caretaker chump. Does collarchat have an  Ask a Chump catagory? I'm thinking of starting one...and being the moderator.




Darkcast -> RE: Is She or isn't She...a Domme (9/26/2008 10:40:51 AM)

Well that kinda sucks.  Sadly I have no advice for you their.




tweedydaddy -> RE: Is She or isn't She...a Domme (9/26/2008 3:02:42 PM)

You assume that she was into S and M because of one fantasy?
I used to imagine I lived in the hundred acre wood, it did not make me Winnie the Pooh.  LadyLove




slim1112 -> RE: Is She or isn't She...a Domme (9/26/2008 5:48:30 PM)

if a female told me a fantasy like that, i would probably assume she was into the lifestyle as well...the odds of someone being into S and M after posting a myspace story about a fantasy of that nature....




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