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ltrsk -> Things to do with time constraints (9/23/2008 6:37:10 PM)

I wouldn't be surprised if this has been posted before, but I wouldn't know what to search for. If anyone knows an existing topic, please post it.

I am in an online relationship with my mistress, and we have less time than we would like. Can anyone suggest things for my mistress that wouldn't require us to be together for very long?

Thanks everyone in advance - I don't want to read the replies myself so this is my first and only post. If something needs clarifying, my mistress will tell me. Thank you!




LadyLupineNYC -> RE: Things to do with time constraints (9/23/2008 6:42:11 PM)

Just about everything save more extreme play, mummification, deep psychological play can be done in an hour or less, it’s just that it tend to be less fulfilling.  If the play is ‘light’ and fun (i.e. not really focusing on the whole ‘yes, Mistress; no Mistress’ stuff it can be easier.  I have done just about everything, including a nice quick hogtie with several variations before my boy had to leave to get a plane back to KS.  So the only real issue is- what are the scenes you two are actually looking to do?   




LadyPact -> RE: Things to do with time constraints (9/23/2008 7:00:55 PM)

While I enjoy the opportunity for longer scenes, I know this isn't always realistic if I want to get the play in and still meet all of My other commitments.  I'd rather have the two or three hours, sometimes play can only happen when one has thirty minutes.

Understand, I'm a sadist.  I can still crunch in a five to ten minute warm up, get to the serious pain, and still have time for aftercare for a little while in a thirty minute period.  That's the real time version.  In half an hour of cyber, I can instruct someone to do a thing or two that will trip My trigger that don't take nearly as long. 

Has the possiblitiy been approached that there might be some things you can do that don't involve actual time together?  Some of My favorites have included having My boy tie a ribbon on his cock to think of Me all day or have an online ritual for him to complete for Me in the mornings to show his submission.  I'm the type that always wants My boys thinking of Me, even if they aren't in My physical preference.

My other advice to you is to use the time that you do have wisely.  It doesn't always have to be play oriented.  Even the online stuff fills a need.




slim1112 -> RE: Things to do with time constraints (9/25/2008 10:19:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

having My boy tie a ribbon on his cock to think of Me all day or have an online ritual for him to complete for Me in the mornings to show his submission.  I'm the type that always wants My boys thinking of Me, even if they aren't in My physical preference.



this type of play does permeate your mind...i can say for sure that if i was instructed to tie a ribbon on myself i would really enjoy it...




MsStarlett -> RE: Things to do with time constraints (9/26/2008 4:29:21 AM)

*smile*  That was the very first thing I did with my best boy.  I had him drop his pants and I tied a red ribbon on his cock then took him to the mall to walk around.  *ahhh*  Thanks for the memory.




thishereboi -> RE: Things to do with time constraints (9/26/2008 4:56:04 AM)

I'm not sure what your asking here. Are you looking for time saving hints for your Mistress? Maybe have her rework her schedule to allow more time for internet play. Get a submissive in to clean for her and save her time there.

I am also confused by your last line.

"Thanks everyone in advance - I don't want to read the replies myself so this is my first and only post. If something needs clarifying, my mistress will tell me. Thank you!"

I am not sure why you are asking a question, if you have no plans on reading the answers. Does this mean your mistress will be logging on and reading this?




MsStarlett -> RE: Things to do with time constraints (9/26/2008 5:01:45 AM)

Maybe it's just another tactic for wanking fodder.  *cynical grins*




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