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Why keep watching? - 9/24/2008 7:39:34 PM   
Artasia


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Status: offline 		Is it common for a Dom to still view a subs acct after they have stated they don't want you? If I am that bad I don't understand why after 3 months he is still watching my account.
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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/24/2008 7:40:13 PM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Morbid curiosity.


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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/24/2008 7:41:36 PM   
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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/24/2008 7:55:39 PM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		about as common as ex's, co-workers, friends and family members setting up accounts and pretending to be someone or something that they are not to get to learn more about you, such as in the case of your 'not interested in you' dominant, perhaps?

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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/24/2008 8:06:39 PM   
Artasia


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Status: offline 		I don't know. We talked online for a bit, exchanged photos an then met in person. He told me I was ugly an I would make him look bad having a girl like me on him arm in public.


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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/24/2008 8:12:58 PM   
Thadius


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Status: offline 		Maybe he wants you in private... how does that old saying go about mopeds?

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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/25/2008 5:16:25 AM   
pahunkboy


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he is watching to see if you add more pics...and a journal entry.    

Now I then I write in my journal.

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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/25/2008 5:17:37 AM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		What a jerk.  In that case he is keeping an eye on your profile to see if you are with anyone yet.  That kind doesnt want you until someone else does.  Then there is sudden interest so he can dip it in for a short moment.
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ORIGINAL: Artasia

I don't know. We talked online for a bit, exchanged photos an then met in person. He told me I was ugly an I would make him look bad having a girl like me on him arm in public.



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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/25/2008 5:32:21 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


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Status: offline 		Ditto what Missokyst said.  I'll also add maybe simple curiosity.  Voyeurism.

btw... How the FUCK does someone have the nerve to tell you that you are too ugly to be with?  What the hell? 

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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/25/2008 5:33:19 AM   
MsCfromMelbourne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Artasia

I don't know. We talked online for a bit, exchanged photos an then met in person. He told me I was ugly an I would make him look bad having a girl like me on him arm in public.




With an ugly personality like his, I bet he is not with anyone yet. 

If his curiosity is bothering you, can't you block him? 

It would really annoy me being regularly reminded of that pig every time I checked who was viewing me.




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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/25/2008 5:37:48 AM   
girlivy


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Status: offline 		Because he hasn't a life of his own? Try sending him a buck so he can buy one. Kinda creepy behavior in my NSHO...

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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/25/2008 5:42:07 AM   
tsatske


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Status: offline 		Here is something true -
Many men feel that the looks of the woman at their side reflects upon them, their social status, ect.

Likewise, many women feel that the behavoir of the man at their side reflect upon them, in the same way.
(Ever watch a woman just cringe when her SO makes a jackass of himself at the company party?

Being with a man like that would definatly make you look bad in public.

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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/25/2008 7:00:43 AM   
NuevaVida


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch
btw... How the FUCK does someone have the nerve to tell you that you are too ugly to be with?  What the hell? 


It actually happens more than people might realize.  In fact, there's a thread going on just down the CM road that suggests ugly women should be lesbians.

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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/25/2008 8:02:50 AM   
happypervert


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Status: offline 		Maybe he's checking to see if you've got a better looking picture now so he can take you out in public.

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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/25/2008 8:22:10 AM   
Termyn8or


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Status: offline 		Define ugly. One eyebrow, zits, what ? That witchy look ?

If the guy said that he isn't worth the time of day. I agree with being upfront, but a bit of tact can be used in their choice of words. I hope, Ar, that you did not react, and that you simply took it in stride. With a half a brain he could have said "I can see that you're not my type", something like that.

I would try to take it as a complement actually, and if there is ever any mail contact I would adopt a quite smug attitude. Thing is, psychologically what does this tell us ? If he is still looking at you, he is probably looking for new journal entries or anything pertaining to him. Kinda make himself feel all important and fuzzy like that. This is not a very becoming desire in someone, but they are out there. The world must revolve around them.

Back here later.

T

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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/25/2008 2:02:53 PM   
corysub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Artasia

Is it common for a Dom to still view a subs acct after they have stated they don't want you? If I am that bad I don't understand why after 3 months he is still watching my account.


I would just ignore him Artasia. I know some men who get great pleasure in watching their girl  sink emotionally after they set them free.  Sadists like to inflict pain...but in this scene the pain should be consensual.  If you are upset over this guy you should not show it to him.  Deny him his morbid pleasure.  Although very extreme, you can also consider just changing your name on CM and other venues and disappear from his view totally.  But that is a very personal decision.  Good luck hon...


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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/25/2008 5:17:15 PM   
Artasia


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Status: offline 		Thank you everyone for being so sweet.

I have not spoken to him since. He had offered to "let me clean his house an service him at his home" but I told him I didn't think I was the girl for him, an quit returning his calls an emails. I figured if I was to ugly to be seen in public with him, I'm too ugly to give him a blowjob or to do his dishes. 

I didn't show any pain to him, I cried with my roommates, who wanted his head on a platter.

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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/25/2008 6:18:42 PM   
fearghus


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Status: offline 		I guess my biggest question is "why do you care?" ... and if it bothers you that much, just block the fucker!

Thinking about the reasons why too hard is only giving this whole thing WAY much more emotional energy than it is worth!

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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/25/2008 6:25:30 PM   
TabrisMaceth


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Status: offline 		...I'm 99% sure that dude's planning revenge. If I were that petty...which I'm not... (eyes get shifty) I would totally stalk someone's account just to spook him a little. Not that I've ever done that.
...Yes, that's right...never...

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RE: Why keep watching? - 9/26/2008 3:00:27 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		Another possiblility is that he's too stupid to remember your screen name and he checks them all as they flash by. 

I'm with feargus, though.....don't understand why so many take ignorant comments made on the internet to heart like that.  There are so many multitudes of drive-by insult snipers online, why even give them a nano-second of thought?

Hell, even the people I know and like I only give half a thought to

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