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kcrow -> Hello, all. (12/1/2005 9:22:26 PM)
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Ah, the usual intimidation of a blank screen and wondering where to begin... Nowhere near as much fun as other possibilities where intimidation could play a role. ;) If you like labels, I'm a polyamorous, bisexual submissive. If you understand how much labels can steer you away from the realities of who a person is and what she wants, I can try to elaborate.
I identify as polyamorous because I do have several people in my life that I love in various ways. I was browsing through the posts on here earlier and came across the term polysexual. I like the idea, though I think my taking on that label might just confuse things worse. I don't consider myself a swinger, but all of my relationships at this point are open. I enjoy the sexual and the sensual, but I stay within the negotiated limits agreed upon by myself and my other partners.
I identify as bisexual because I find both men and women attractive. At the same time, I have a lot more experience with men than with women. I just find men easier to get along with overall, both in and out of bed and the dungeon. ;)
I identify as submissive because I very much enjoy letting another person take charge and do unto me. I find being bound a freeing and fascinating experience, and I deeply enjoy pleasing another. Words of praise raise me up to the skies. And a glance of disappointment, let alone a word, can humble me to the depths.
So far I have only had one partner who was willing to be Dominant with me. He's very busy these days, and so I have been looking on Collarme.com, alt.com, and bondage.com for someone else willing to help me explore my desires.
So far, this place has been a wealth of welcome and information. I'm very glad my search on Google brought me here, and I'm looking forward to the possibilities in learning and growing that are offered here.
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