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Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 11:47:44 AM

littleone35

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The other day i was talking to a vanilla friend who know and understands the lifestyle. I was telling her when Master and i play i have multiple orgasms. She said one right afer the other i said yes that is what it means. She said i can never do that i need 15 to 20 mins before i can have another.

My questions are all subs multi orgasimic with the right stimulation? Or is my friend just not getting the right stimulation to have multiplies?

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 11:51:08 AM

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Some people can orgasm. Some people cannot.
Some people can have multiple orgasms. Some people cannot.
Sometimes it's stimulation. Sometimes it's body function. Nothing is set in stone because all bodies are different. It's not a submissive thing, it's a sexual thing and therefore doesn't matter what orientation you are.

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 12:05:14 PM

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i was multi orgasmic before i ever experienced BDSM. i know other women who have only *ever* had one orgasm during any sort of sexual anything.

i dont think its a matter of stimulation or how good the sex (or other activities) is/are. i think its a matter of individual bodies and what they are capable of. some people can run a marathon, some cant. some people are done after one orgasm, others can go all night.

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 12:15:02 PM

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Its her...lol
Some woman dont orgasm at all and some orgasm but dont have multiples. As far as I know all the woman that I have been with have gotten multiples after some coaxing / training so its probably possible for her to experience it if shes pushed both mentally and phisically. Because BDSM is kind of on the extream side I would definatly say that it is way easier to get a woman to do multiples than in vanilla sex. The reason for this is that durring vanilla sex after the woman has her orgasm the action either comes compleatly to an end or is soon to end so to speak. In BDSM we guys tend to push you girls a little (lol, okay thats an understatement). This 'pushing' I think causes a womans body to adapt to the situation so to speak. I know a lot of things I do to my sub if I was to do to a vanilla girl would probably have her in bed rest for a few days at the very least.

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 12:22:48 PM

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Oh my goodness - how jealous am i?

like your friend i need atleast a 20 minute break inbetween.... interestingly i have only ever climaxed through clit stimulation too - and as for the G Spot - well i'm convinced i don't have one!

me thinks i am wired up all wrong - haha...

enjoy my dear and enjoy again and again.... sigh....

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 1:21:40 PM

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I'm not multi-orgasmic, but when Mistress gives me one, it's usually a knockout. I'm down for the count!

Besides, if one is that strong, I could survive multiple ones! She'd kill me!

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 1:25:54 PM

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Ditto on being jealous lol I have a problem gettting even one. And that is only while using a vibe. But I do think that I haven't found the right person for it to just click and I am able to relax and just let go. Or be able to learn to do so.

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 1:31:45 PM

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angel darling - i am so with you on that one - i think the issue centers in the mind.... i know with my previous Master i had huge problems believing that i deserved to be able to climax.... with a hell of a lot of patience (and frustration) from both we got there in the end.... ahhhhhhhh sigh..... (remembering)

Bon chance my dear!

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 1:44:31 PM

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I've never had an issue with multiples, I kind of took them for granted, actually...until my former Dom tried to train me to orgasm on command. it really, really messed with my timing and my ability to orgasm at all.

fortunately, I've managed to move past it and feel like myself again.

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 1:52:59 PM

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As a boy, that is really not an option, and so I am jealous of all you girls who can do that! Good on ya!

But I do have to say that I recently experience a climax after prostate stimulation and....WOW...that is like a nuke in the loins I gotta tell you! So much more intense than any climax I had experienced before...highly recommended for the boys I gotta tell ya...

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 2:15:44 PM

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I agree that every one is different. I used to not be able to cum more than once, and on the rare occassion I did, it had to be with a break in between. I thought it would be like forever. The first time I had them back-to-back-to-back with my Master, He was laughing at me because I had been convinced it couldn't happen. Maybe she hasn't had the right partner or maybe she really wants more than what he's giving her- or maybe it's just not in her. Who knows. But if it does happen for her, she's going to be in heaven. lol

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 2:47:22 PM

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I've slept with a Domme who was multi. I love making someone come, so that was VERY satisfying for both of us. ;)

Personally, it takes me a while to get there the first time and I need at least a couple minutes between them after that.

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 4:01:17 PM

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I've always thought it's a hormonal thing based on the ratio of all the hormones; estrogen, testosterone, androgen etc. I think women with a little more testosterone find it easier to orgasm. But I have no idea where I read that, so I can't give a link.

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 4:51:21 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

As a boy, that is really not an option, and so I am jealous of all you girls who can do that! Good on ya!

Actually that's a pretty prevelent misconception.

It IS possible for men to have multiple orgasms.

It's just helluvah hard!

And, of course, you don't ejaculate each time ;)

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 5:22:45 PM

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well, answer me this? do all slaves have to like pain to be a slave?

there's your answer.

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 7:46:51 PM

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I am VERY greatful for pet's talents!!! With pet its not uncommon for me to lose count of how many, to be unable to walk for a while, and to forget my own name....all I can say is Wow!!!

with a big grin on my face! Hmmm men and multiples, I'm not sure he could handle them but there's only one way to find out. *Thinks naughty thoughts*

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 7:50:52 PM

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Well, if it is possible for multiples for men, and if you combine that with prostate stimulation...SIGN ME UP!!!

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/25/2008 8:27:08 PM

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Good evening!
I think your friend just has not had the right technique or been inthe right mindset to have multiples, it does vary with each person. Not to mention how each of us is physcially wired or sensitive. I have always been muli and now with Daddy, it getsto be a bit burdensome. He loves having me orgasm and sometimes it gets to the point where I am begging to stop, my legs are cramping, my thighs shaking, tears flowing, and I cannot think straight..so what does Daddy do? grab another toy or vibe and keep going as I am crying. ::laughs:: Good luck!
Love,
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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/26/2008 12:32:50 AM

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I'm definitely a multiples sort of girl. It took some self-training on my part, but it happened. Whether or not I experience that with a partner and to what level depends on his skill and more importantly the mental and emotional connection. When I'm really pushed, I can go all night.

Well, not true, my orgasms can go all night, I usually can't! This chicka needs her sleep.

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RE: Multi Orgasmic - 9/26/2008 12:50:20 AM

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It's a bunch of different variables.

I wish I could diagram a decent equation here, it'd be fun. I might make one in OpenOffice Math and post it as a pic or something.

It's...

His awareness of her signals and knowledge of what to do with them; his stamina; and how much he cares to make her cum.

Her physical and psychological predisposition to orgasm, her self-knowledge, her stamina (no orgasms if you can't summon the energy or pass out, darlin'!)

Situational factors; distractions and the reactions to them, temperature, comfort (too much or too little, take your pic).

Mostly, though, it's force of habit. Call it training. I've done it; even though I'm male I CAN have multiple orgasms, or continuous ones. I've trained myself to come for a blowjob, not come for a blowjob, come during sex, or not. For me, it depends on the girl; sometimes I can get with things right away, sometimes I can't. Sometimes I just don't want to.

I can also state that being consistently passionate outside of the bedroom can make a girl start having orgasms if she was having trouble with them. As a man, engage in life; think about events, humor, continuously try to improve, show ambition (but not to an overwhelming extent), humor (but not all-consuming), thoughtfulness and passion, not towards her but towards life (but not excluding her), and that tends to get a girl much more ready for sex and orgasms than simply physical maneuvers.

That said, the G spot is usually about 2 inches inside the vag, on the side closer to the belly. Feel for something spongy. Try to imagine what it would feel like if it were you; as a man, I know that's difficult, but not impossible. Give it a shot. It really helps you pick up on the right signals.

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