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Bisexuality - 9/25/2008 8:22:06 PM   
nobhobbery


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Status: offline 		Is bisexuality a turn-off for female dommes? why?
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RE: Bisexuality - 9/25/2008 9:07:27 PM   
TNstepsout


Posts: 1558
Joined: 8/3/2005
Status: offline 		It's not a turn off for me. In fact I think man on man is hot so it opens up possibilities for scenes and activities. 

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/25/2008 9:09:01 PM   
OttersSwim


Posts: 2860
Joined: 9/1/2008
Status: offline 		My Lady encourages and enjoys it as well, though I have yet to experience it for Her pleasure.  

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/25/2008 9:12:38 PM   
RavenDiana


Posts: 8
Joined: 1/8/2005
Status: offline 		I also think BiSexuality in boys is Hot.

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/25/2008 11:37:52 PM   
onthenosetone


Posts: 118
Joined: 7/22/2006
Status: offline 		My Ma'am likes it

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 12:17:47 AM   
Usako


Posts: 697
Joined: 7/29/2006
From: NYC
Status: offline 		I'm going to be bold and assume that perhaps more dominant woman like bisexual subs/slave than dislike.

I could be wrong but from what I've see, it seems to be the case!

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 2:20:02 AM   
malloves69


Posts: 913
Joined: 9/15/2006
Status: offline 		my mistress loves seeing 2 men together and yes we have done the bi scene thing too  2 times ..1 guy was white ..the next time the guy was black ..both had nice cocks i must say it seemed so natural doing it with her there calling the shots and directing the action ..once the clothes hit the floor so did the inhibitions of mine that i had  would i do it again for her ? sure ..but without her there i have little interest in that kind of play ....a womans body is much more sexier i think  the things us sub males do for our mistresses  mal

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 4:26:32 AM   
MsStarlett


Posts: 1879
Joined: 12/23/2007
Status: offline 		I have no objections to bi men.  But I do not enjoy orchestrating boy on boy action.  Let's face it, I'm an attention whore.  Whenever there are two naked men in the room, they better BOTH be fixated on ME - not each other. 

Homophobics are totally no fun.  They are always worried that some other guy might be 'checking out their junk' or that they might get touched by a man in close quarters.

Bi girls are da Bomb!  My boys that have had the supreme pleasure of sharing my bed with another woman involved were deliriously happy.


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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 5:14:52 AM   
MeanMommieDommie


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Status: offline 		I like male-on-male action. In fact, if I were to buy porn it would be gay porn--more of what I like to see!

However, I'm not into "forced" bi, and it amazes me how many male submissives list it as an interest. ("Oh please, don't throw me into the manmeat briar patch!") And personally...I'd very much prefer a relationship with a heterosexual sub.

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 5:20:46 AM   
Lashra


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Joined: 2/9/2006
Status: offline 		Not for me, I am bisexual as well so why would it turn me off in my property? It would not. I think guy on guy is hot quite frankly.

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 6:09:39 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		I've had the pleasure of having bisexual male subs. I have to admit, that's always been a special thrill of Mine.  Directing that hot, sensual, thrilling m/m action for My enjoyment.

Ahhhhh..... The good old days.


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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 6:25:32 AM   
subronnc


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Joined: 5/20/2004
Status: offline 		Male subs that list it as something they want to be "forced" into by a Mistress are probably curious, if not already bi, and are looking for Someone that won't judge them the way they think the rest of society (and possibly even the gay community) will.

By going to a Mistress, they are either attracted to women, or trying to prove to themselves that they are.

Personally, i'd put myself in the "things a sub would do for a Mistress" category, but not something i'd actively seek/want.  Otherwise, i'd look for a Master, not a Mistress, even though sex is *not* something i look for/require in a BDSM relationship.

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 6:50:57 AM   
RumpusParable


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Joined: 7/7/2005
From: NYC now!
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quote:

ORIGINAL: nobhobbery

Is bisexuality a turn-off for female dommes? why?


While it may sound flippant, I'm being completely frank:

Viewing females -in this case dommes- as such a generalized/singular thing as being able to ask "Is ________ a turn of for dommes?" is more ofa turn off than whatever trait you're asking about.

"Do girls/women like _____?"  "I love women"  "Do dominas dislike _____?"

All treat us like a thing rather than as individual people with individual tastes, each one of us an individual.

Sharing a similar genital construction does not a shared viewpoint make.

Now, as to whether *I* as a non-woman female dominant find bisexuality a turn-off:

No.

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 7:16:24 AM   
UmbraDomina


Posts: 491
Joined: 7/22/2008
From: SE Michigan
Status: offline 		I am going to play devils advocate here........

one reason dominant females might not care to be in a relationship with a bi male would be they know the male would always be lacking something or seeking something they could not give them. ( not my personal opinion, just offering a explaination)
If a dominant woman was not turned on by watching or directing two bi men, there for keeping his relationship under her control, she might not seek out someone who was bi, becouse she might always think his life or desires would be unfufilled.


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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 8:18:48 AM   
faerytattoodgirl


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Status: offline 		bi men - hell no
bi women - hell YES



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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 8:29:46 AM   
thetammyjo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nobhobbery

Is bisexuality a turn-off for female dommes? why?


Not for me.

In fact in our household a new person would need to be bisexual to fit in well with what we are looking for.

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 8:59:06 AM   
rubberpet


Posts: 1743
Joined: 4/6/2006
From: The Land of Voodoo
Status: offline 		It is a major turn-off for Mistress.  I am straight and have no desire to be with a man.  Mistress doesn't want to see me with a man, either.  It just isn't our thing.  There's only one cock I'm happy to suck and get ass raped by and it's attached to Mistress's harness!  I know some dommes prefer or require it, but for some, it's not their thing.  Different strokes for different folks.  Everyone is different.

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 3:00:26 PM   
tweedydaddy


Posts: 673
Joined: 9/1/2008
Status: offline 		It's even hotter if you make them do it.

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 5:03:03 PM   
glanstat


Posts: 76
Joined: 3/22/2006
Status: offline 		I was part of a scene once where I was told to 69 with another guy.  Four gals watching seemed to enjoy themselves.  I won the contest of who could cum first.  It was my first and only time but was fun, would do it again in the right situation.

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RE: Bisexuality - 9/26/2008 5:45:34 PM   
LadyLupineNYC


Posts: 618
Joined: 12/14/2006
From: NYC
Status: offline 		Before he started serving me, my boy had no interest in men, in fact, he mentioned it was just about the only type of porn he didn’t watch; just wasn’t his thing.  As I personally have an interest in forced bi (yes, forced, not ‘forced’) so too my boy looks forward to engaging in this type of scene.  He has no independent interest in men, is not sure how he will react when the day (or night) occurs, and, I suspect, is more scared than he let’s own to me.  The point I, from his perspective (this might not be the same for everyone) it is one of the ‘ultimate’ ways in which he can scarifies his own interests, desires, and wants in honor of my interests, desires, and wants.  As he once put it early in our relationship, ‘some things are not hot to me, but if your force me to do it, then it is hot…’   I have found that when submissives/ slaves write to talking about they can’t wait for me to ‘force’ them to suck cock, etc…I find that not so interesting and, often, a turn off as it has lost it’s sexual dominance and physiological aspects.   



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