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ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

I think that in some ways stating what the writer is looking for is a way of stating what they have to offer, while undertsanding that both parties are looking for fuffillment. "I enjoy providing domestic service." Could be read as selfish as opposed to "I will do any household chore you ask of me." But I'd honestly respond more positivly to the first statement.

Personal preference in writing style, maybe?


(Good question, OP>)

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But people can't read the first line of a profile. But that's an entirely different thread, eh?

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Was the amount of Dominate Men, that were in search to "help" sub/slaves females seek out their most inner desires. But yet on the sub/slave flip side of the coin i seen not any sub/slave females seeking to "help" FULLFILL any Male Dominate's desires.

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But if you look at submissive female profiles you will see plenty that are looking for a dominant who will lead them on some journey of exploration so they will discover themselves and those innermost desires they aren't even aware of yet. That's the market those guys are targeting.

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ORIGINAL: gothslavetrainer

my opinion about profiles are 2 fold. one a woman should have the decency to reply to a respectfull letter instead of hiding behind the exuse they recieve so many replies.
another is i read in laughter the amount of young dominents or so called dommes at 18 years and 24 years old (age is only example),,,,,,,, slaves at 18 and 24 years old for example what a joke. i wish there was a section they had to fill out for them to explain what they interpritate their true meaning of the word and how they gained this incredible experiance so young out of puberty.
my opinion of setting out profiles would be have another sub section for subs/slaves who are collared so i have no need to switch online to collar me and read the majority who have in big letters 'I AM COLLARED' PLEASE DO NOT WRITE OR CONTACT ME ! lets have a section for the lonely collared subs and slaves seperate so when they are bored they can talk among them selfs. this way masters etc who seek do not have to read their crap .
does any body else agree or do a toech a sore nerve ladies ?

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I would believe that for many in terms of potential submissives or slaves would really not have much need for posting what it is that they are willing to give as to me that would put the wrong spin on the relation from the get go.

Upon accepting a dominant force into your life, you are then subjecting yourself to their will and their desires, thereby what you are willing to give is whatever is asked of you.

To me that is why it makes far more sense for them to keep their posted desires and their hard limits then it leaves the array for giving wide open.

Besides even beyond the D/s relationship idealism, there is the simple fact that until you are with someone it is impossible to determine what your chemistry or passion would lead you into doing. What you would be willing to give to A you might never give to B, and what you give readilly to B you would of never even thought twice about with A.

It's simple physical and mental boundaries that cannot be predetermined before the fact and put out there as sort of a blanket statement.