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trueshadow -> RE: Why do submissive men disappear? (1/4/2010 4:56:13 PM)
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As a submissive man, perhaps I'll add my two cents (adjusted for inflation). I honor my commitments, but it is sometimes evident that the budding relationship won't work out. Sometimes, the Domme will start making bizarre orders, or shows her true colors when she asks for money and is vague as to when I might meet her. On the other hand, it might be difficult to break off an existing relationship, so men and women just drop out. The last relationship I had the woman was a taker and wouldn't even touch me. I stopped going over to her house and cooking her meals and cleaning her terribly messy house. Yes, she did let me work naked, which was swell, but after a while I felt like an unpaid worker. I'm not interested in money, obviously, but I do need to get something out of a relationship that she claimed she wanted as well.
And then there was the Domme who kept saying she wanted to met but would never set a time or place, or take me up on offers to meet her on neutral territory.
I guess the bottom line is there has to be compatibility, and a meeting of the minds. I agree that it is rude just to disappear, but I don't want to waste time on someone who is just using me.
(I remember the couple who was looking for a male slave to work in their factory, no sex, no touching, no nothing. This was for free, I guess for the priviledge of knowing I was making them happy not having to pay a factory worker. Obviously, I declined.)
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