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Finding the perfect Master for me. - 9/26/2008 8:01:23 PM

gaymaleslave4sir

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Masters,

How do you recommend to me that i find a Master? What is the best way? How do i do it safely? How do i know the Master is perfect for me? Any advice will be greatly appreciated.

slavecarlos

Thank You Masters!!!!!!!

P.s. i live in an area with no resources i would have to relocate to be with a Master, which is a little scary to me.

Again thank You Masters!!!

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RE: Finding the perfect Master for me. - 9/26/2008 8:11:13 PM

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Be patient. Get to know lots of people. Get out into your community. Go to events. Read. Figure out what are the important qualities you want in a Master and then look for someone like that.

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RE: Finding the perfect Master for me. - 9/26/2008 11:20:23 PM

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Oh honey, look you need to get some info in that profile... something about who YOU are... and that name... it just screams troll bait. It is exciting and wonderful to be new to this. But it is just like regular dating. If you want just a fling or fun your profile is perfect, but if you want an actual relationship.... well might want to give it some information about you.

good luck,
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RE: Finding the perfect Master for me. - 9/27/2008 7:05:14 AM

DarkSteven

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you mention in two places that you are Hispanic. But you give very little info about yourself otherwise.

What skills could you provide your Master? Can you balance books, do carpentry? What is your FT job?

Unfortunately, since you live somewhere with no resources, you'll have to suffer through all the fakes online.

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RE: Finding the perfect Master for me. - 9/27/2008 9:26:22 AM

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*scratches head* - i'm confused

in one section - you're talking about relocating giving the real impression you already have a master

here - you're looking for your "perfect" master

i would follow the advice of the previous posters

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RE: Finding the perfect Master for me. - 9/27/2008 9:52:49 AM

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You might need to realise that no man is perfect - master or no. There will always be something that grates against your skin, there will always be something about them that you don't like, or don't agree with. The thing is wheither or not you can live with the good, the bad - and the ugly.

Masters are as human as the rest of us- they fart, eat with their mouths open and sometimes even forget to be "Masterly".
You are going to have to do what the rest of us have and are doing - sort through all the frogs to get to the prize - someone you can respect and serve, while tolerating their faults. And as for how you will know this? - you are going to have to meet them and spend a bit of time with them. Difficult if you don't live near them.

Life is hard, and then you die. Thats just the way it is. Sorry.

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RE: Finding the perfect Master for me. - 9/27/2008 1:45:32 PM

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I'll answer the OP's question the same way I would if someone from the vanilla world asked how they would find someone "perfect for them"......

You don't look for the "perfect" relationship. You look for someone with a set of problems you can live with.

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RE: Finding the perfect Master for me. - 9/27/2008 5:00:16 PM

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Go into a bar and try to thread a needle, before long someone will come along and offer to do it for you, that's him.

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RE: Finding the perfect Master for me. - 9/28/2008 11:39:18 AM

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Perhaps spending your time working on yourself might be the best way. Start to attend meetings, go to demos, volunteer at events and clubs, go the munches and gatherings and be of service to the group. Doing service to the groups is a good way to advertise yourself.

EVEN without local groups, find an event and travel to it for a weekend. Look into the MAsT meetings and attend the conferences.

Make a list of skills you currently have, then find ways to improve them and list new skills a master might benefit from and learn them.

Improve your job marketability so you can relocate easier.

To find a good (not perfect) master, work at being a good slave so you have something to attract them with.

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RE: Finding the perfect Master for me. - 9/28/2008 2:14:27 PM

sailorfrank

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Very good advice stated!

As for me improve yourself until you find a Master read and learn all that is required of a "perfect" slave. Then you may find the "perfect" Master? Most important even thru your wants...take your time to find the right one. There are a hell of a lot of fake Masters out there! So beware of those that contact you.

But keep looking and you WILL find the one for you!

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RE: Finding the perfect Master for me. - 9/28/2008 3:40:44 PM

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