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Hair bound - 8/2/2004 3:05:25 PM   
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[image]I saw this picture of someones hair bound with rope and thought it was beautiful i was wondering if anyone knew where i can find info on how and where i can get it done [/image]




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RE: Hair bound - 8/2/2004 6:56:58 PM   
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Midear One-

It's called 'docking' I think, and the knot is called 'french hitching' and is simple as can be. Your local library or bookstore may have a copy of ' the Rigger's Aprentice' by Brion Toss [isbn: 0-87742-165-X] Chapter eight covers it and a few variations and is well written.

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RE: Hair bound - 8/2/2004 8:59:50 PM   
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Very Pretty, and I do believe my hair is now long enough to accommodate something like that.

Hmmmm....

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RE: Hair bound - 8/2/2004 9:05:24 PM   
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It is long enough, and I have some great red string...

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RE: Hair bound - 8/2/2004 9:37:10 PM   
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It is long enough, and I have some great red string...


If you do it Lawrence and MizSuz will you please post a pic for us?

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RE: Hair bound - 8/2/2004 10:56:45 PM   
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That is pretty, and I've actually seen it before. Have you done it, Lawrence? How long would it stay bound like that?

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RE: Hair bound - 8/3/2004 7:02:23 AM   
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Milady Beckett-

I have done it a few times, mostly for public events, and on one girl in particular,just becuase her hair was very long and prone to wild, and would get in the way while working.

It will hold up for a full, active day or perhaps longer, and if one is on the bottom, or doing something active, it adds the benefit of protecting the hair from snagging, pulling etc., in brush or during a scene.

And- it's pretty and distinctive, and while one in the scene sees it and thinks 'ooh-bondage', most of the world just thinks 'oh-pretty'.

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RE: Hair bound - 8/3/2004 8:25:35 AM   
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Hello - We are a married Dominant couple and hair bondage is one of our very, very favorite sessions. Here's an article with appropriate url's which might help......

Hair Bondage Tips 

from www.POWERotics.com

 Incorporating the hair in your bondage is appealing to many and for many different reasons. It dramatically increases the feeling of being restrained, it's incredibly intimate and personal, it can be painful, humiliating and it often is a very effective way to keep the head still and in position for other things, such as "forced" oral sex. 

Binding the hair may not always be easy. The hair easily slips out of every knot you tie, unless you know how to do it right. And not every technique can applied with every type of hair. Long hair is a lot easier to use of course. Short and extremely short hair may be a problem. In other words, you may to to experiment with different techniques a bit before you find the one most suitable for your own situation. 

[Pro Tip] If you find the hair still slips out of the rope, try using hair spray first. This will make the hair less slippery and stick to the rope and to itself. 

Be considerate with your submissive. If a strand of hair has been tied for any length of time, it may be hard to get it back into the normal style for a day or two - especially if it's usually worn loose. Hence don't do this in the event your sub has to go to work or to an important job interview the next morning. 
No matter what you see on pictures and in videos, there is a certain risk. Any brisk or unexpected movement may cause someone to pull out their own hair, especially if the strand used is not thick enough. Especially if you and your submissive are inexperienced, make sure you use thick strand or an entire ponytail and never "hang" anyone inexperienced from the hair. This includes forcing someone to stand on their toes tied this way - if they fall, lose their balance or faint they may scalp themself. 
Okay, now that we've settled that, let's concentrate on some of the different techniques. We'll describe several techniques here that everybody can do, without special knot tying techniques or needing special attributes. 

Technique 1 - Japanese Braiding 

Japanese bondage masters prefer special rice rope for this, but hemp will do just as well because it's a bit rough. This is a typical long hair technique and the main advantage is that it can be kept in for hours or days if you like and that - once tied correctly - you can use it for a variety of different playforms. If you're planning to use it in different forms (this goes for all forms of hair bondage) observe the pulling direction. For example, if the direction of the bondage is downward, never use it for an upward position later without changing it, since that will cause the full force to be applied on only a part of the strand which may cause your submissive to pull parts of their hair out themselves. The safest way is to put the hair in a loose ponytail at the back center of the head first. 

Now what you do is you take three or four thin ropes and use them together as one rope. Lay the middle of your rope bundle behind the ponytail and wrap both ends around the tail (as TIGHT as you can) two or three times, about one third of the length of the ponytail from the head. Next divide both the rope bundle and the hair in three strands and braid them again TIGHTLY (really try doing this as tight as you can) and go down as far as you can. When done, separate the rope from the hair and tie the rope strings together with a series of reef knots (also called square knots), tight again. You can now either use the remainder of the rope bundle (if long enough) to tie it to something else or tie another rope to the end of the braided bundle to use in the rest of your bondage. 

Technique 2 - The Knot Tube 

This technique again is only suitable for long hair. Best use hemp rope again, about the thickness of a pencil. Seperate a strand of hair (or use an entire ponytail) and work from the middle of the rope. Wrap it around the strand, close to the head once and make a half reef knot. Now lay the strand of hair over the knot and make another half reef knot. Wrap the rope around the strand again and repeat the procedure. Repeat this over and over again. Mind you, this takes quite a while to complete and an equally long time or more to untie again so this is not something to do in the event you only have a little time. Make sure to make your wraps and knots TIGHT and be aware that a small strand or slick hair may easily slip out, despite the number of knots. Using hair spray may be a good idea in such cases. 

[Pro Tip] If you want to be extra "cruel" make the strand of hair wet before tying it this way. Especially if the hair remains tied like this for a couple of hours and dries this will cause a great "semi-permanent wave" that may last one or two days, causing a similar effect bruises after a whipping or a caning has. In other words, they'll have something visible to remind them of the bondage for a longer period of time. 


Technique 3 - The Ring 

The final technique we'd like to discuss here is the use of a ring. This technique is probably your best best if your submissive's hair is not really long and also is the simplest one if you're not an experienced bondage master. 

You can use any type of ring. Take a strand of hair, lead it through the ring and fold it around it. Make sure the part between the head and the ring is one-third of the hair and the part that's folded back is two-thirds. Now either use thin packing rope or fishing line and wrap this around the folded strand, starting from the ring and working towards the head. When finished, fold the remaining one-third upward and repeat the wrapping, this time upwards towards the ring and finally tie the rope. Make sure your wrapping is a tight as possible. When done correctly it is next to impossible that the hair will slip out of the rope and the ring of course can be used as a connection point for any other bondage. The possibilities are endless: from tying the submissive's hands behind their head to fastening the ring to something else, like a wall hook or whatever other object. The ring of course also allows for the use of quick snap hooks, so this technique is very suitable for use in combination with other things, like leather of steel handcuffs, tackles and similar gear. This too can be left in almost endlessly, provided the strand used is not too thin (if it is it's likely the tension eventually will become too much.


[Pro Tip] Tie one of these rings in the hair, one on each side of the head, and the possibilities are endless, especially for humiliating positions like cuffing the hands to the sides of the head (and giving someone all sorts of tasks to perform, like serving dinner or pouring a drink - which will not only be difficult and thus humiliating, but will also automatically force them to pull their own hair which also makes a great form of "self punishment") or to restrain someone's head in a position for forced oral sex. 

http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/BDSMinfo/hair_bondage.htm

**** Also - http://www.rainbowrope.com/howto/hair_bondage.html
http://www.fetishexchange.org/hairbond01.shtml



 

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RE: Hair bound - 8/8/2004 3:21:43 AM   
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Lawrence, or DivanDaddy, or Dread, or someone else.....

Help? My hair goes straight on down to my bottom, but it never holds. It is on the thinner-bodied side, but still stubbornly slick, and even the tightest french braid unravels in an hour or so..... Tried one of the wrap around kind of things (similar to the picture), but it kept slipping. I don't like spray or gel because it makes the hair all frizzy afterwards. O what to do, what to do?

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RE: Hair bound - 8/8/2004 6:26:58 AM   
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Here is also a pic taken of my wife in a combination of hair and "normal" bondage, enjoy :
http://www.truthordare.za.net/syn/h.jpg

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RE: Hair bound - 8/8/2004 7:18:30 AM   
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hmmm.... I really like the way the pic looks, but am betting all I have that My dear topcat can do something even more amazing.

Would you by chance have some black to place thru my red hair, I am available next weekend if you wanna drop by

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RE: Hair bound - 8/9/2004 3:12:21 PM   
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Thank you ModeratorThree we also use black, red, purple, green, and yellow rope now, that pic was our first ever attempt at hair bondage, come a long way, and sadly I am in South Africa and its a tad far to go for a w/e !

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RE: Hair bound - 8/9/2004 5:39:04 PM   
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Midear Basia-

Start with damp hair, and a plain ol' ponytail rubber. Make up a ponytail squre in th middle of the back of your head, all the hair pulled into it, make the rubber really tight, but don't sock it tightly to your head- give it a little slack so the tail hangs freely down. Take a ten-twelve inch piece of softly layed hemp or twisted poly proplene (not the stiff yellow stuff, the filiment stuff that looks like hemp, about 5/16 inch or 6mm and losely wrap the hair around it afew times so it forms a core to bulk up the hair a bit- it has to be soft layed- that is soft and sqishy, not hard. Hold it in palce with a rubber or two temporaly

I don't think one could do this themself, but it is a tradtional priviledge of younger sisters to help the elder with their grooming , right?<g>.

Take a twice Measured bit (two times the width of your outsrected arms )of middleing small braided line (5/32 dia. is just right) and 'gut' it, that is, work out the center 'filler' strands that are surrounded by the braided cover. This should ideally contrast with your hair, and ideally, set off your eyes nicely (I am guessing that for you, Basia, the green 'parachute'/'utility' cord slod in many camping supplys would be perfect. And for you, my most dear M Trey, they sell a light line I think is called 'Pulse' by Yale cordage at west Marine:


http://www.westmarine.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10001&langId=-1&catalogId=10001&productId=46765

That I think comes in blue with a black fleck- and I am thinking the red/black fleck for my Madame would be just the thing...)

Anyway, middle the line (fold it in half and start from the middle) and wrap it tightly twice around, just above the first rubber, then take one side, make a knot around to the left, take the otherside, make a knot around to the right- plain old half hitches ( I am stumpped on how to describe it in 'civilain' terms- it is the simplest knot, and it won't hold anything unless you pile a few of them up) and keep doing it, one from the left around, onefrom the right around, snugging them so the little twist the knot makes comes up to the last one from the same side, tugging them tight - but not super tight. they will sipral around towards and past each other, and end up looking like a thin line twisting down around a base of tightly wrapped line. Very pretty, bondage fetish or no...

When you get to the end of the inner, bulking line, justmake two knots tightly in the same turn on both pices to lock the line in place, and trim the ends if they are too long.

For MizSuz and M. Trey, I'd skip the bulking line down the middle, as their hair would likely hold better, But it's a critical step for really silky hair.

I think I am heading to the bar to find a girl to let me do this so I can take a few pics, which will be way better than the thoushand words or so here...

Stay Warm,
Lawrence

PS- don't do it for more than a foot or so- it hakes for a stiff bit of hair, and looks silly...


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RE: Hair bound - 8/9/2004 5:42:53 PM   
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My dear M. Trey-

Of course I have black, but see the above for my first chioce for you..

And Tennesee is I am afraid not good for this weekend.

Maybe soon?

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RE: Hair bound - 8/12/2004 10:32:02 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: topcat
I am thinking the red/black fleck for my Madame would be just the thing...)


your "Madame"?

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RE: Hair bound - 8/13/2004 5:57:05 AM   
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my Darling-

MizSuz is Madame to me, and the only person I could refer to thus. After all she has done for me, and been to me, It's a small gesture to use her favored, and reserved, form of address.

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RE: Hair bound - 8/14/2004 12:19:00 AM   
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I don't think one could do this themself, but it is a tradtional priviledge of younger sisters to help the elder with their grooming , right?<g>.


ROFL..... Ahem. I don't know about other sisters, but, eh, certainly not the case with this little devil here in question..... She is the Sovereign Queen of the family, and knows it!

Thanks for the suggestions! I'll wait until i'm back in scenic NJ and then go ask a housemate for a hand. Because having my hair bound securely will make cleaning and cooking SO much easier, of course, of course..... <rapid innocent blinking>

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RE: Hair bound - 8/14/2004 12:35:24 AM   
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Midear Baisa-

Ah yes- it is so had to beat ones littler ones, isn't it? it's so unfair, that they learn everything you knew about being cute, and had so much longer to practice it...

As to waiting till NJ- I am only hours away- I'd be pleased to apply such a treatment in person. And I promise- If you don't mention that it's got certain exciting connotations, I won't either. just ignore the nashing of my teeth.

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RE: Hair bound - 8/14/2004 12:50:25 AM   
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Ah yes- it is so had to beat ones littler ones, isn't it? it's so unfair, that they learn everything you knew about being cute, and had so much longer to practice it...


Ha ha.... So True!! Not only that, but this adorable sweetheart managed to beat me up for the first time when i was a strapping lass of 9, and she still an angelic toddler of 3! Gotta love her.

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As to waiting till NJ- I am only hours away- I'd be pleased to apply such a treatment in person.


Oooo..... Thank you for the offer...... I'd be very honoured.

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RE: Hair bound - 8/14/2004 12:19:47 PM   
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Oooo..... Thank you for the offer...... I'd be very honoured.


Pics please when you do it.

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