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Question of age - 9/28/2008 7:43:01 AM   
Klaio


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Status: offline 		This is something I've always wondered.  what happens to full-time sub/slaves when they reach the ages of 60-70?  do they retire from sexual play and live-on as a maid?  do they get released?  or do they continue as always?

Does slave for life really mean slave for life?

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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 7:52:59 AM   
DarkSteven


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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 8:03:42 AM   
vixenkneels


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Status: offline 		Why is it the question of age comes mainly from the young?  I'm almost 62 years old; I'm more sexual now than I was at age 30.  For most of us life doesn't end age age 60 or 70; for some it may just begin, or we may just enter a new phase of living.  By suggesting a sub/slave is released just because of age says to me you have little concept of the true meaning of Dominance/submission...it's NOT all sexual.  The mental aspect of D/s, M/s is the biggest factor and when it's present in a relationship the subject of age becomes moot.

One would certainly hope the life of a slave IS for "life"...but we all know nothing in this world is for "life" in most cases.  The only certainty in "life" is death.


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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 8:11:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		Does a husband dump his wife at age 60 or 70? 


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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 8:21:18 AM   
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Why is it the question of age comes mainly from the young? 


I agree with vixen.  For some reason only the very young ones seem to be so concerned about the older crowd...in this case he's all of 18. 

OP....as vixen says.....enjoyment of life does not end at a certain age.  I know it's hard to imagine...but sex can be better at 60 (or 70) than it was at 20 for both men and women, if that's your main concern.  And if you're worried that your Domme of 40 years will toss you out, remember that she'll have aged 40 years too.  She'll have wrinkles, arthritis, sags, bags, and other assorted physical symptoms of being 60+. 

Edited to add:  Do you think it would be too much an "EWWWWWWW" factor if i told him his mom and dad didn't just sleep in their bed.

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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 8:26:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

We send them to The Old Slaves Home.


walmart?


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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 8:28:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

We send them to The Old Slaves Home.


walmart?



Hehehee ^_^


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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 8:50:55 AM   
Shawn1066


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ORIGINAL: Klaio

This is something I've always wondered.  what happens to full-time sub/slaves when they reach the ages of 60-70?  do they retire from sexual play and live-on as a maid?  do they get released?  or do they continue as always?

Does slave for life really mean slave for life?


My Owner will send me straight to the glue factory.

Seriously, though, I don't assume age will change anything in the grand scheme of things.

DV's Fox

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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 4:36:03 PM   
mbes


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ORIGINAL: peppermint
Edited to add: Do you think it would be too much an "EWWWWWWW" factor if i told him his mom and dad didn't just sleep in their bed.

LOL! Tell him anyway, it does wonders for the ego to realize none of us are really doing anything new!

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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 4:43:26 PM   
MadRabbit


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Status: offline 		I put her down and invite all the other Masters over for a BBQ feast before purchasing a new one.

Slow cookers are the best way. Really the only way to deal with that tough, old meat.

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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 5:34:51 PM   
Lockit


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I put her down and invite all the other Masters over for a BBQ feast before purchasing a new one.

Slow cookers are the best way. Really the only way to deal with that tough, old meat.


ROFL Nothing wrong with a long slow heating process... as long as it is spicy!

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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 6:35:22 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		oh my goddess, oh my goddess -  i am now 9 years away from "60"!!!!!

I didn't realise that i had a "use by" date, and am getting ready to expire!

No more sex, no more tingly loins, no more pulsating passion pits, no more twinkle in my Sirs eye, no more screaming orgasms!  Life isn't going to be worth living.

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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 6:39:28 PM   
tornaway


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Soylent Green is old slaves !

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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 6:41:49 PM   
trappedinamuseum


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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

oh my goddess, oh my goddess -  i am now 9 years away from "60"!!!!!

I didn't realise that i had a "use by" date, and am getting ready to expire!

No more sex, no more tingly loins, no more pulsating passion pits, no more twinkle in my Sirs eye, no more screaming orgasms!  Life isn't going to be worth living.


*sigh*  kiwi, you should just end it now.  Better to go out before you expire.




And a curse upon whomever put the pictures of my parents (who are nearing 60 and 70) doing more than just sleeping in a bed.


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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 6:43:50 PM   
VampiresLair


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ORIGINAL: Klaio
Does slave for life really mean slave for life?


For us it will. I am marrying my wonderful slave becasue I plan on keeping him permanently.
Why limit a slave's duties to sex and maid chores? What happens to conversation, companionship, love and things like that? When we get older our needs change, as do those of our interests.  When I am 60 and Fox is 50, I doubt the same vigorous S&M play we enjoy now will be nearly as intriguing. However, I cant see myself taking his collar off just becasue he cant take a whip I cant throw anyway at that age. We plan to mentor later in life, as well as keep as active together as humanly possible.

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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 6:59:50 PM   
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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 7:01:19 PM   
VampiresLair


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Status: offline 		We might, but if we dont I'm not going to give him up.
Though the running joke is I am going to have to trade him in for a younger model soon, since he is almost 22

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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 7:26:08 PM   
ExKat


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Status: offline 		quote]ORIGINAL: peppermint

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Why is it the question of age comes mainly from the young? 


I agree with vixen.  For some reason only the very young ones seem to be so concerned about the older crowd...in this case he's all of 18. 


To be fair, it's always the old who ask "How can an 18-year-old be a Master?"

I would be pretty depressed to learn that kink has an expiration date, though. Glad the flame burns on!

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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 7:50:39 PM   
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RE: Question of age - 9/28/2008 8:42:54 PM   
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