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slaves our profile please - 12/2/2005 9:06:36 PM   
Slaveless1


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Status: offline 		This might be a crazy idea or maybe I am just tired and wanted some meaningful discussion from you. You pick! (this time) lol

Take a look at our profile and tell us why we do not recieve many repsonses from perspective matches.

We would greatly appreciate any ideas to improve our profile. I know we have not been here long but , wow plagued by the no response bug is fustrating for one that seeks.



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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/2/2005 9:21:21 PM   
perverseangelic


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Joined: 2/2/2004
From: Davis, Ca
Status: offline 		The one thing that bugs me is that you require a picture but will only provide yours after one has been sent. I understand the need for discression, but I guess that rubs me the wrong way.

Not that it matters, I'm not in your search demographic :)

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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/2/2005 9:31:48 PM   
ginawithaB


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Joined: 9/2/2005
Status: offline 		Personally, I cannot see anything wrong with your profile...it's actually quite nice. I do, think though, a few things.

1. You gotta give it more time, lots more time...
2. You didn't mention whether you were doing active searches. If you are not, I would encourage you to do so. I say this b/c, IMHO, I consider a couple, esp a dom/domme couple to be a hard sell to begin with. I think most subs/slaves are looking for the one-on-one thing and if there is a 3rd involved, in a 24/7 situation, it's usually a sub-sister or brother.
3. There is a good number of subs on here who really are either not slaves and not looking for 24/7, much less 24/7 with a couple, some subs are only looking for cyber and some only play partners...also, relocation might be an issue for many.

and #4, and this is only my issue: You put down Opera as a hard limit!! Now, I'm no huge Opera buff, per se...but I can belt out a decent aria and I do like to attend...so that would be a serious issue for me!

Well, it's kinda late for me so I hope I'm not babbling and that at least some of this makes sense and is useful. Take care,

gina

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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/2/2005 11:03:17 PM   
orfunboi


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Status: offline 		It looks fine to me...be patient, some one once told me that if it's worth having, it's worth waiting for. Can't remember who said it, but i would like to slap them some days. Oh well. Good luck in your search.

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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/2/2005 11:27:02 PM   
veronicaofML


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From: from iowa..now in wisconsin
Status: offline 		i have no idea.......seems to me...ya oughta be swamped under.......

sorry

i am clueless in wisconsin


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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/3/2005 5:32:02 AM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		Dump the yellow background. Yellow is a horrible color. Ok, I personally don't like yellow so don't listen to me.

I would have used some different wording in some places and I saw one lone e that needs to be deleted. Other then that looks good to me.

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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/3/2005 5:57:13 AM   
fastlane


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Joined: 5/26/2005
Status: offline 		The profile is allright, although I agree with Pita on the yellow background. Gives it a pissy look.

The problem is really quite simple. Supply and Demand.

There are just not enough slaves to go around!

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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/22/2005 6:32:45 PM   
hairslave


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Status: offline 		Speaking of Profiles,... i am a poor speller and with that in mind took great effort off line to lay out my profile and use spell check to be sure all is right. Then i came on line and placed it. i just recived an email from a woman who was upset with all my miss spelled words. i have no kink freindly people to help with it. If anyone with gift to spell, would look at my profile and, inform me of what is wrong i would be very greatful. Any pointers that you feel would help me improve my profile would be greatly apreciated as well. This is all new and i don't want to irritate the people i'm hear to meet. planing to add picture as soon as i get an up dated one.Thanks.

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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/25/2005 10:16:12 AM   
ehlovindom


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Slaveless1

This might be a crazy idea or maybe I am just tired and wanted some meaningful discussion from you. You pick! (this time) lol

Take a look at our profile and tell us why we do not recieve many repsonses from perspective matches.

We would greatly appreciate any ideas to improve our profile. I know we have not been here long but , wow plagued by the no response bug is fustrating for one that seeks.




The change to green background helps. Perhaps run a spell-check as well. As for your content, I am confused when you write
quote:

We do not punish just for the heck of it. We understand that there is a period of training and the time to get to know us too. Once the ground rules have been given, we would expect to have them be followed. I punish according the severity of the "crime".
Maybe it is the use of the word crime but then maybe you should elaborate on this. (Just MHO)

Perhaps you can also add whether you will provide ALL necessities for the slave. You do mention you will help pay expenses if they must relocate but after that, what about food, lodging, and more importantly, long term financial security. I am taking it for granted that you will provide food, lodging, clothing etc. but do you expect the slave to work outside the home as well? What about their long-term financial security? When they might be 50 or 60?

Lastly, you are seeking from a very small group of slaves who might be willing to serve a couple. Don't expect your message box to fill up too quickly. And why is it that you are sitting back and waiting? Aren't you actively searching? Again, just MHO.

Best of luck


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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/25/2005 10:20:39 AM   
ehlovindom


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quote:

ORIGINAL: hairslave

Speaking of Profiles,... i am a poor speller and with that in mind took great effort off line to lay out my profile and use spell check to be sure all is right. Then i came on line and placed it. i just recived an email from a woman who was upset with all my miss spelled words. i have no kink freindly people to help with it. If anyone with gift to spell, would look at my profile and, inform me of what is wrong i would be very greatful. Any pointers that you feel would help me improve my profile would be greatly apreciated as well. This is all new and i don't want to irritate the people i'm hear to meet. planing to add picture as soon as i get an up dated one.Thanks.


I emailed you a response but I am surprised that spell-check didn't catch all of them. Perhaps you need to adjust the settings. If you don't mind me saying, spell-check shouldn't be the only tool to use. So what is you are a bad speller. At least you are upfront and admit it. But instead of sitting around, why not grab a dictionary and look up some of the words. Check how they are spelled and what they mean. You may discover that you haven't used the correct word. It may be time consuming but won't that make you a better submissive/slave and isn't that one of the key qualities that will interest a prospective Domme? Just MHO.

Best of luck




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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/25/2005 1:33:37 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Joined: 11/3/2005
From: Kentucky
Status: offline 		Yah, I think you need to include a pic.

Also, as most others mentioned, not everyone wants to be involved in a poly...

This will take time. Heck, just looking for compatible one on one takes time. But I guess that depends how picky you are.

This is someone who will be (as to my understanding) living in your house. You really will want to slow down, take your time, find someone who is compatible and trustworthy!

As far as hairslave's q, I'm sure you should listen to whatever advice ehlovindom sent you. I have spoken to him before, and he is v articulate. I did try to critique, but honestly, it doesn't look like it's even been through a spell-check, and I got frustrated. One thing you may want to keep in mind is that a female dominant is called a domme. (unless I misread, and you are also looking for a male dominant?)

Good luck to everyone on their searches! Merry Christmas!

Christina

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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/25/2005 5:12:59 PM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		You have just joined, to think you would be inundated in less than a month and over the holidays may be a tad unrealistic---after all there are thousands of Doms and subs here--and the fact that you won't send a pic till you get one, IMHO smacks of physical discrimination versus someone with the characteristics that match--IMHO

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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/25/2005 5:54:04 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Slaveless1

Take a look at our profile and tell us why we do not recieve many repsonses from perspective matches.




Have you actually put any effort into contacting any one or sat back on your heels and waited for the slaves to pour in.




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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/25/2005 5:58:43 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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quote:

ORIGINAL: hairslave

i just recived an email from a woman who was upset with all my miss spelled words.




Any one who's so immature as to get upset or as I call it send rude and pissy emails to someone over misspelt words isn't any one you'd want anyway. Spell check only checks for the correct spelling and not the correct usage, and sometimes it even tells you words spelled correctly are in correct. you've used the right spelling in the wrong meaning, Your entire profile is full of words that you used incorrectly. must, most, wait weight, You should at least make an attempt to learn how to speak and type correctly. And apon reveiw of your profile I think the dictionary suggestion is a good one.


And if you mean her slave you spelled that wrong to hair is the stuff on your head. Unless you ment hair. her and hair don't even look much alike lol. And on a personal note I would of chose a name with more personality to stand out from all the other slave names

< Message edited by FelinePersuasion -- 12/25/2005 6:12:12 PM >

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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/25/2005 6:03:47 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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One thing you may want to keep in mind is that a female dominant is called a domme. (unless I misread, and you are also looking for a male dominant?)



Actually I think domme is a made up word I saw that around here somewhere in a vocabulary rant thread. I think, but don't quote me lol.

You can use anyword under the sun to say you're looking for a female Domina. Fem domme, Domme, Female Dominant. Dominant woman, Domina, and Dominatrix, just to use some of the ones I know, that also don't include Goddess, or any other personal title a Domina would want to be called.

I don't use the word Domme it sounds to much like dummy, and sounds silly which is no offense to any one who does use it.

< Message edited by FelinePersuasion -- 12/25/2005 6:14:13 PM >

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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/25/2005 7:56:37 PM   
hairslave


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Joined: 11/11/2005
Status: offline 		To all who responded to my plee for help, Thank you! Submissive Chic; and ehlouindom; were both very helpfull. XXblushesxx; No i'm only looking for Female Domanites. As Feline Persuasion; followed, some don't use Domme, i read a profile resently where a woman said she was a new Dominat Woman and didn't feel she could be called a Domme because she had no exprence. i can,t beleive you all took time out of your Christmas to help me. Again thank you all!

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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/28/2005 10:12:51 AM   
miticantenslaved


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Status: offline 		greetings, Slaveless1

in answer to Your query as to your profile, miti can only say it was the "Fishing (expert)". *nods sadly* this slave has fulfilled her last Large Mouth Bass Fantasy. *looks ashamed*

all joking aside...there could be many reasons You are not getting answers. when miti was unowned, she did not contact Dominants/Masters, as this is not her nature.

miti wishes You the best of luck in finding one in who You ignite the fire in her belly to serve...

~miti

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RE: slaves our profile please - 12/28/2005 10:43:13 AM   
nephandi


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From: Cold and magickal Norway in a town near Bergen!
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quote:

Any one who's so immature as to get upset or as I call it send rude and pissy emails to someone over misspelt words isn't any one you'd want anyway.


Bravo yhou just made myh favorite pepole on Collarme list Feline :D

Ok now to the profile. it was okey, but it was boring, and easy to overlook, just like whit a book whit a boring cover, the book may be grate but the cover make pepole pass it. You are looking for a slave that are willing to relocate, be part of a poly and basicaly give up ALOT of freedom, now they are out there, but they are not so many so you need your profile to stand out, a photo, even if it is just of flowers or you house or whatever brighten up the profile, and i would do somthing whit the collors..

Also it is not realy clear if you are both Dominant or if he is Dominant and she is a sub, it is a bit hard to understand exactly what you want to, do you desire somone that will quit their work and work in your house full time? as mentiond if so, wil you provide housing and food, what aboute clothing and spending money? and what if the relationnship brakes up.

Also how soon would you expect a relocation, would a relationship be aloved to flurish first or would the slave be required to move at once.

i am sorry if i ofend you i am sorry but i am just being honest, work on resantation and add some details and the profile will be fine.

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RE: slaves our profile please - 1/1/2006 6:24:53 PM   
hairslave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

quote:

ORIGINAL: hairslave








if you mean her slave you spelled that wrong to hair is the stuff on your head. Unless you ment hair. her and hair don't even look much alike lol. And on a personal note I would of chose a name with more personality to stand out from all the other slave names

Never adressed this and thought i'd come back and answer this for you.i did mean hairslave. i wanted something that both spoke of one of my intrests and was not like other profile names. If a woman finds having a guy who craves to adore and care for her hair (amung other things) borring then yes,... she would find me borring. Others who read on and ( now see my posts ), would see where i'm comming from. her slave would have been a good one i'm sure but,i thought it may be used already. Since we ( for good reasons) can't change our name, it is what it is. Again thank you for your time and advise. All were helpful. Sincerly

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RE: slaves our profile please - 1/8/2006 2:43:36 PM   
Slaveless1


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Status: offline 		Well of course, we have taken an active role in our search. This IS a two way street. I do not expect a mailbox full of offers. I do expect at least a response from the few we have chosen to write. We have been actively searching for about 5 months now. It will happen just a matter of when!

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