pattern or not...all I want to know..no judgments on fake or not...

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YES there IS a suspicious pattern

65% (17)

NO there ISNT a pattern

34% (9)

Total Votes : 26

(last vote on : 9/30/2008 3:14:48 PM)
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SirSwampThing -> pattern or not...all I want to know..no judgments on fake or not... (9/30/2008 2:19:43 AM)
ok..... sub contacts Dom Communications channels are open, profiles are read, similarities observed, possibilities of mutual attraction established.. 23 days of chat, somewhat sporadic due to work etc, but fun.. sub alters profile regularly....Dom points out that some of the changes are either (joking or not) in bad taste or generally too negative (Dom wants to encourage sub to be more positive)...sub changes profile accordingly[:)]... sub alters profile regularly(lol).back to the negativity. Dom points this out and suggests sub seeks Doms approval of all changes before posting...(again...NOT in an ownership capacity but purely because Dom KNOWS that negativity in subbies profiles attracts weak `d`oms who prey on the insecure).. negativity remains.. Then more negative alterations...Dom reminds sub of his request... Communication becomes more sporadic... sub adds `new` Dom friend to her profile where none had ever been before.. Dom thinks....."ok, now I can see whats going on"...... points this out to sub, who is FULL of righteous indignation and terribly offended that Dom would suggest she is being dishonest... sub deletes her profile... Within hours, subs `new` friends profile has been deleted also! Dom and sub communicate for a while, Dom pointing out that sub has followed a well known pattern...and that he has suspicions.....sub is still angry, VERY. sub is adamant there is no pattern, she can see no pattern... I know its wrong to tar everyone with the same brush......but..... My poll is ENTIRELY regarding the timeline and pattern of events... Please answer accordingly...Thank you A/all...

Dnomyar -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 4:31:32 AM)
Both are fakes.

sirsholly -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 4:41:57 AM)
if i was chatting with a dom who consistantly commented on my profile/friends list his ass would meet the curb.

GreedyTop -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 4:43:21 AM)
personally, I don't get it? The title says real or fake, and the poll questions ask about patterns? Patterns (whether good or bad) don't necessarily indicate whether someone is "weal" or fake....

Dnomyar -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 4:51:08 AM)
I havent looked at Holly friends list. I guess I wrongly assumed that she did'nt have any friends since she talks with me.

SirSwampThing -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 4:52:14 AM)
excellent point GT.....I wasnt thinking properly in the beginning.......it is very ambiguous.......how do I change the title?

GreedyTop -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 5:00:41 AM)
:D I see you figured it out :) as far as patterns, it looks to me (based on the op) like the sub in question is perfectly happy in how she's doing things, so yeah.. patterns.

sirsholly -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 5:26:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar I havent looked at Holly friends list. I guess I wrongly assumed that she did'nt have any friends since she talks with me. you are cute and charming, Ray. I tried to resist you...I TRIED...but failed sobs quietly

Dnomyar -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 5:53:14 AM)
OP I think that you just may have to start a new post and let this one die.

DesFIP -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 5:58:16 AM)
Yes there is a pattern of you believing that you have the right to pass judgment on anyone who is submissive and that you have the right to tell any submissive what to do, and that because you call yourself a dominant you are therefore wiser than any submissive. A profile should reflect the person who is writing it. If she's feeling negative then filling it full of positive stuff that isn't her will attract people who aren't interested in her. If it's full of stuff she doesn't want to do, then she's got that in there for a reason. The reason being that she's tired of so called dominants believing they can magically make her into a pain slut, magically make her bi, magically make her someone who isn't her. It's a lot easier to see the mote in someone else's eye than the beam in your own. Suggestion, time for you to do some serious self examination.

wandersalone -> RE: pattern or not...all I want to know..no judgments on fake or not... (9/30/2008 6:01:04 AM)
To be honest I don't understand what you are asking...pattern of what? Maybe she got fed up with someone who promotes positivity criticizing her profile? There could be a million reasons why she deleted her profile. Welcome to the forums by the way. [:)]

SirSwampThing -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 6:11:14 AM)
Here they come, the subbi mafia, as expected......... I dont want replies!!!....its a poll......... I am asking for opinions on the timeline and events/pattern.... NOT specifically the persons involved.......and ANYONE who claims to have NEVER been caught out by a Dom/sub online pretending to be someone they arent is LYING or extremely new to the net...so....lets NOT have the little digs.....just vote.......I dont care how, its all a learning curve for each and everyone of us......

wandersalone -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 6:16:07 AM)
oh good grief...goes to find a horses head........

sirsholly -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 6:17:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirSwampThing Here they come, the subbi mafia, as expected......... ANYONE who claims to have NEVER been caught out by a Dom/sub online pretending to be someone they arent is LYING or extremely new to the net You are really endearing yourself to the subby mafia with that charming BS, hon. You are asking about a pattern...wanting comments about the subs behavior. Well here is a pattern for ya, Ace. You are coming across as a stalker by keeping such a close eye on her profile. I would have deleted my profile too, if it was the only way to get rid of your ass.

sirsholly -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 6:18:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wandersalone oh good grief...goes to find a horses head........ coffee on the keyboard. Thanks Wanders!!

marieToo -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 6:19:54 AM)
Vote on what? Whether someone is exhibiting a pattern? If that's the case, yes. I see a pattern. The pattern is a dom asking a sub to change things in her profile and/or change her way of thinking and the way she posts, her complying, then her reverting to what she wants rather than what he wants. I won't comment on whether either is at fault in my opinion, because I guess you're not looking for that.

PrincessJ77 -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 6:20:27 AM)
I voted, happy? I'm still confused, didn't understand the rambling post, but I voted anyway. Subbi mafia? Listen up Sir Snarky, don't mess with me before I've had 3 cups of coffee and can slack off at work and try to understand the post.

Aynne88 -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 6:22:17 AM)
You are in deep now OP. The godmother of the subbie mafia has spoken. Tonight you sleep with the fishes! They don't call her wanders alone for nuthin'. quote: ORIGINAL: wandersalone oh good grief...goes to find a horses head........

sirsholly -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 6:26:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aynne88 Tonight you sleep with the fishes! Tank you, Aynne...reely well said.

Aynne88 -> RE: real or fake??? (9/30/2008 6:27:53 AM)
Tanks holly.[;)] I just said it for the halibut you know. quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: Aynne88 Tonight you sleep with the fishes! Tank you, Aynne...reely well said.

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