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tweedydaddy -> RE: still looking? expand your search... (9/30/2008 3:01:09 PM)
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Let me amuse you all for a moment, by explaining what I see when I look at a profile, and the impressions thus gained. I am not, in any way being unkind.
Profiles where there are loads of friends shown, but who are mostly on another continent from the profiled, give me the impression that they do lots of either cybering or chatting, but not much local action. I avoid.
Profiles that have an endless rant about ex partners, the opposite sex, or that claim all men or women, or both are heartless savage bastards, I avoid.
Profiles that don't feature a picture, I avoid.
Profiles that feature a near naked subject, in a pose of abject degredation, I avoid, this smacks of desperation.
I was astonished at the rant a woman had on her profile about being pestered by time wasters when her bare arse was on the page, if you are ready to show your ass in public like that, what do you expect?????????
Profiles that ramble on about blood, knives, masks and log cabins, I avoid.
Profiles that contain words like speedy, quick, no time wasters, I avoid.
Profiles that contain a picture that is obviously not the Profiled, I avoid.
Profiles for a single girl that have pictures of three different girls, I avoid.
Profiles that mention wanting to meet somewhere in the dark ,I avoid.
Profiles that feature pictures of soft toys, I avoid
Profiles that feature red eyed women with filed teeth, I avoid
Profiles that feature people who can't be civil enough to smile, I avoid.
Profiles that feature no personal statement or interests, I avoid.
Profiles of girls that cannot be seen by cameras and who claim allergy to garlic and sunlight, with an interest in blood play, I avoid.
Profiles with the picture showing the profiled holding up a plaque with numbers on and seen from different angles surrounded by cops, I avoid.
You get the point.
Try not to be just about sex, allow that interesting you to show, you are more than just genitalia.
Don't give the impression that you are in a rush, going on about timewasters would put me off even if I was slavering for it.
Show your other interests, passions and focus on showing what you like rather than what you can't stand.
When you do your pictures, smile! For God's sake smile!
Take some time and try to see your profile from the point of view of the person you are tryng to attract, they want to find you attractive, why else would they be here? Meet them half way and try and find out what people would like about you and focus on that. You could be the ugliest woman in the world and you could reel me in by reciting just one line from Omar Khayam, or LadyLove by singing to her, you never know what people like till you ask them.
My profile reflects me, we are the Addams family of the BDSM world. Odd, funny, eccentric, whimsical, we take nothing seriously, including all this and ourselves. Look at yours and just take a moment to ask if it really reflects you, or the fetish you, either of which are probably great, but does your profile say that?
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