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RE: couple of questions... - 12/6/2005 5:04:19 PM

HouseofBear

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Actually, I do not even use domina. I utilize fem dom or female dominant.

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RE: couple of questions... - 12/6/2005 7:20:50 PM

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Actually, I do not even use domina. I utilize fem dom or female dominant.

I do the same, read enough of my post's and you won't see me using the word that doesn't exist....it does make me laugh though whenever I hear someone refer to themselves as one. Not the newbies but the ones claiming to be experienced.

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RE: couple of questions... - 12/7/2005 8:36:24 AM

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Sub4hire:

In reading your comments, I can't help but note the quote in your .sig - "The dumbest people I know are those who know it all."

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RE: couple of questions... - 12/7/2005 9:21:08 AM

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Domina, Mistress, Domme, Goddess, Queen, Master, Sir, slave, sub, whatever to me are all just honourifics and not specific terms to describe anything but a title one seeks to be known by... heck if people can buy royal titles in England for 50,000 pounds, then over here in the colonies I can call myself Mistress and joe bloggs down the road can call himself subjeremy ;)

But when describing dominants in a discourse on bdsm I always use the term 'dom', and if I need to be more specific in terms of gender then I preface the term with male or female.. .as I do if talking about a particular gender of sub, rather than subs in general.

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RE: couple of questions... - 12/15/2005 1:31:31 PM

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greetings sub4mistress sir
happy holidays
as a newbe; where ever i go ;i like to know who is a top and who is a botom; i hate to make a mistake there....
and, the top ten worth the risk of more trouble in my life are :
1 get stepped on by a husband whos unaware im her slave
2. worth risking my neck being stepped on ,to stay quiet, as they all pile on me ;the worst that could happen i choke or embarrassingly expire in bed so to speak....
3 worth eating food she stepped on the floor without permission and apologize for assuming it was mine
4 buying the best leather jacket for her ,to see me in....
5 worth stripping nude in public for a publicity pic ,so every dom has no doubt who i am ,or what i do
6 worth claiming my songs were plagiarized even tho they are number one and no one wants to hear it ,so she can collect ,or negotiate hollywood$$$$$$$$$$$$
7. worth dying my mistresses' shoes, another color, with little, or no experience and say i'm good ,at it ,out of pure desire.
8 worth sticking myself, in a public installation, to turn her on, so she's in controll .
9 worth trying the bed camoflage installation;going , inside her bed; especially trying to pull it off ,when very big important company comes over and, just thinks its a bed....
10 worth working my azzzzz, off ,on a chore, to surprize her like: pave the whole driveway ,without her asking (once in a great while), altho this is'nt the usual advisable policy, to ever go and do something,that i'm ,not asked to do ,or told to do,by her.....
i know; boring but true ....i'm a good dubee newbee

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RE: couple of questions... - 12/15/2005 3:07:40 PM

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first of all.. if you were a newbie, what kinds of things would you like to know right off the bat?
second... what are the top 10 things you get into trouble for?

Remember thes are supposed to be fun questions.. hehe!
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fun huh? i'll try

know right off the bat? mommie? why is your butt as red as the ketchup after you and daddy go in the playroom where i can't go?
mommie? why do you make all those weird sounds in there with daddy?

he he

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top 10 things?
oh my
my ATTITUDE! for starters
i am 99% vanilla and it is SO difficult to find a-slave'mindset...i am an outspoken son of a dog and i don't know when to shut up. see where "I" come from..shut up and stand up are the same...both mean it's time to rumble!

otherwise?????

that's about it.
i am not........your normal ..... do-me boy. i have no fantasies in life
i am not romantically involved with anyone
i do not do sex
so i am not into your "normal" s/m stuff..
so basically just doing my house chores and shoveling snow since sunday...and here it is thu...i can't GET in trouble for doing what i am SUPPOSED TO DO!

i am too nice as a slave........i never ever start shit just to get in trouble..,.it comes to me naturally.
i am blue collar and Mistress is white collar.

take care

oh..........the 1st Q?
as a newbie i asked the same questions i ask NOW........the ones that ain't-in-the-book.......

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RE: couple of questions... - 12/17/2005 12:48:27 AM

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Here's a quick way to get in trouble...

The top ten things a sub/slave should never say to their Master/Mistress

10 - How was I suppose to know I wasn't suppose to put your leather pants in the washer?

9 - yeah right...... SPANK THIS!!!

8 - Tommorow night I get to tie you up right?

7 - God ... You doms think the whole world should bow before you.

6 - And just what do you think your going to do with that paddle?

5 - Sorry, I got a date tonight... Some other time perhaps?

4 - Spanking? I - THINK - NOT

3 - Who died and left you in charge?

2 - Do your own damn laundry!!

And the number one thing you'll never hear a sub say...

1 - What do I look like ... your maid???

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RE: couple of questions... - 12/17/2005 7:30:57 AM

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A riding crop and a blindfold doesn't make it BDSM. There is a big difference between being kinky and being in the scene. It's not a sexual thing to me, it's a very spiritual thing.
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Dearest DB;

no i am not trying to hammer it into the ground...
i just wished to say i kind of envy people that have some sort of inner connection to all this.
i myself have no spiritual thing nor do i get into this sexually.
i merely..submit,,for Mistress as a-hired-hand...domestics service only.
i am not a pain puppy or anything else...

take care
happy holidays

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RE: couple of questions... - 12/17/2005 1:52:24 PM

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We totally agree with what you are saying. We answer any and all questions honestly and to the best of our ability. We give and demand honesty at all times. There needs to be mutual interests and finding them out right away allows for less waste of time on either part.

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RE: couple of questions... - 12/17/2005 10:43:24 PM

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MTslave... OMG's those are GREAT!!! hehe
I have actually done some of those and got punished for them.. hehe
<grins n giggles>
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RE: couple of questions... - 12/18/2005 5:24:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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It amazes me when someone claims to be a domme...and doesn't even know it doesn't exist. What great experience they possess.

LMAO

domme does exist... it means "dominant female". If someone tells me they are a "domme" and I instantly know that they are telling me they are a dominant female, that makes it a real word.

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