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WhiplashSmile2 -> Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 3:40:01 AM)

This happens to me time and time again, and this morning I find myself with the longing to feel somebody drawing or scribbling over my back, neck, arms and other places.  This is almost as bad as feeling horny, or when my Maso streak sets in and I'm feeling the need for pain.

Anyhoo, what I'm craving for this morning is nothing sexual or painful, but it's a very specific type of sensation.  Dare I say it, it gets so bad at times, it feels more like a need or burning desire.   It's simply a little more besides a mere want.

I know there's a great amount talked about in terms of S&M fixes and sexual fixes.  But how many people out there have cravings for other sensations at times.

My body is craving to be drawn and doodled upon. 

For these different types of sensations and craving, if you have them, do you often wonder if it's the result of having done the activity so many times that your body craves these specific types of sensations?



persephonee -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 3:59:40 AM)

Whip...
if youre asking for it...i can leave here in about 2 hours...let me find my thong and my sharpies....

i will wake up and suddenly get an intense craving for a sensation...and it doesnt go away until i get that sensation....currently, its a very sharp, fast, whippy cane strike to the backs of my thighs....ive had it for over a week because i didnt get it while playing over the weekend. This feeling will be the one i think of everytime i talk about playing, until it happens. Sometimes i tell them what it is and sometimes i just wait and see whether its going to happen.

Once i had this very vivid and hot daydream about being taken quickly to the floor and have my face pressed into the hardwood with a steeltoed boot. When i told someone about it...i got it...and lo and behold...thats only hot for me in my head...*g*
As i was down there, inventorying all the toys and randoms under the couch, drool slowly working its way from the corner of my mouth into a puddle directly under my left cheek, i thought..."this is the last time i get specific...."

But, no, youre not alone, youre just cuter than most about expressing it.

peace

perse



Dnomyar -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 4:13:30 AM)

You brought up a good point perse. It is only good in your head. Thats what some of the newbies have to face when they come here. While the thought may sound nice give it some more thought.



DesFIP -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 4:54:13 AM)

No, I don't think the memory of it causes the need. Other way around. You wouldn't have engaged in this kind of play if you didn't have a pre-existing need for it. Or at least you wouldn't have engaged in it more than a couple of times if it did nothing for you.



sistermargaret -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 6:39:05 AM)

Oh yes! Yes! Sometimes the craving will wake me up in the middle of the night it's so intense. Just in my wrists and ankles, but i want to feel the soft kiss of rope so badly it hurts.
sm
 
All it takes is absolute surrender



OttersSwim -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 6:49:51 AM)

Two weekends ago, I was introduced to that little wheel thing with the spikes - like they use to mark patterns in sewing - except this one was larger and more fiendish! 

It was so very intense!  I was blindfolded at the time and had no idea what it was.  Insane sensation...

And I have been thinking about it and craving it again since.  She went hard enough to leave a pattern on my back that lasted about an hour...I want one that lasts a week and I fear what that will involve...but I want it!



leakylee -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 7:48:02 AM)

have sharpies, will travel..

i totally get what you are saying. i have been nearly ready to crawl out of my skin for weeks wanting whipped. it is a specific sensation that, albeit true, does feed my pain fix, it still a completely different thing. not to mention, something that i rarely get. it is a sensation that nothing can duplicate. nada. i really like it, and sometimes when i dream, i wake up nearly feeling the dern things on me.

really odd.

i need a life
lee



MasterFireMaam -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 9:45:48 AM)

I have this fetish. I had a lover write poetry on me once...and have written on others. Have you ever seen the movie, "The Pillow Book?" I highly recommend it as soft porn for this fetish! http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114134/

Master Fire



MercTech -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 9:51:28 AM)

Now my mind is going into a fugue considering sensations.....

What would be the difference in feeling from going from bamboo Kanji brush to calligraphy pen...
Feather quill pens...

Now, if my artistic abilities were better, I'd consider using Henna so the results would show for days or weeks.

Stefan



caelestis -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 11:30:29 AM)

I actually get this sensation a lot too, theres just somthing relaxing about being used as someones personal sketchbook. I also get the urge to be covered in hot wax, especially when some part of me is sore or achey. I know theres other stuff I could use to get the same heat, but the feel of wax and the amusement of peeling it off makes it worth it.


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

You brought up a good point perse. It is only good in your head. Thats what some of the newbies have to face when they come here. While the thought may sound nice give it some more thought.


While thought is required in nearly anything we do, as to calculate risks and hopefully lower them, thought is sometimes not enough. Sometimes it just needs to be experianced to know whether or not its something we will truly enjoy, something we will dislike, or perhaps to just reach the conclusion that it was a nice idea, but not so nice in theory.

And OttersSwim are you prehaps refering to a wartenberg wheel? Those things are delightful.... especially if they've been kept in the freezer... the added cold of the metal along with the little spikes makes for a wonderful spine tingly sensation. *giggles*



OttersSwim -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 11:36:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: caelestis
And OttersSwim are you prehaps refering to a waterburg wheel? Those things are delightful.... especially if they've been kept in the freezer... the added cold of the metal along with the little spikes makes for a wonderful spine tingly sensation. *giggles*


Yea, I think that is what She called it. [:)]   She said it was for usually used for "neural stimulation", and it sure stimulated my "neurals"!  That thing was CRAZY - especially because I had no idea what it was - I thought She was burning me with a hot pen or something - admittedly, that was part of the amazing thing of the sensation was not knowing what it was and just experiencing it.  She had me totally bound as well, so I was able to focus in on the sensation and not have to worry about not moving - YUMMY and more please is all I can say!  [:D]



caelestis -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 11:45:16 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

quote:

ORIGINAL: caelestis
And OttersSwim are you prehaps refering to a wartenberg wheel? Those things are delightful.... especially if they've been kept in the freezer... the added cold of the metal along with the little spikes makes for a wonderful spine tingly sensation. *giggles*


Yea, I think that is what She called it. [:)]   She said it was for usually used for "neural stimulation", and it sure stimulated my "neurals"!  That thing was CRAZY - especially because I had no idea what it was - I thought She was burning me with a hot pen or something - admittedly, that was part of the amazing thing of the sensation was not knowing what it was and just experiencing it.  She had me totally bound as well, so I was able to focus in on the sensation and not have to worry about not moving - YUMMY and more please is all I can say!  [:D]


Hehe, yep, that is indeed a wartenberg wheel then (realized I just spelled it waaay wrong in above post). First time I had one used on me it actually tickled, and my laughter confused my Dom a little. [:D]



avinyl -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 11:45:51 AM)

It's actually called a Wartenburg wheel...juuuuust in case anyone wants to look it up...



MasterFireMaam -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 11:50:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MercTech

Now, if my artistic abilities were better, I'd consider using Henna so the results would show for days or weeks.

Stefan


Don't forget woading. It's usually celtic patterns painted in indigo ink. http://www.mehandi.com/shop/skinindigo/

That site has the best henna, too.

Master Fire



VivaciousSub -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 11:55:57 AM)

<FR>

I got caned last night for the first time in ages and I really need that mix of stinging pain from the cane and heat from Sir's hands tracing over me. *shivers with pleasure*

I want to be drawn on now too...especially those celtic patterns that Master Fire wrote about. That's hot.



malloves69 -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 1:17:36 PM)

the biggest sensation need or craving i have is being fisted anally by my mistress [:)] if i dont get it at least once a week im going nuts [:)] something about her lubing my ass and sliding in me for the first time after a week without i just love that feeling [:)] once shes inside of me gawd that feels amazing indeed [:)] and when she goes in deeper shes got me ..im all hers ..until she is done having her way with my ass and prostate [:)] the lady knows my ass and prostate well i swear her fingers are magical indeed [:)] love strapon play too but being fisted is much more intense [:)] can i be anymore vulnerable to her when she does so ? [:)] have fun mal



suhlut -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 10:25:25 PM)

k.. i have a couple of them..

One is the intense and overpowering need of a hug.. kinda a sad moment for me, when this need hits, and is often very emotional.. with scalding heat and tears.An actual physical burning emptiness and need for human touch.

and the other, is much better,

i have a tattoo.. located on my right calf.. two roses, wrapped in ribbon, butterfly hovering.. and.. well.. i get this overwhelming need & curiousity.. to see what it would feel like.. to have someone lick it..

Anyone whom has a tattoo.. ever needed or wanted it licked?



VivaciousSub -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 10:32:44 PM)

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Anyone whom has a tattoo.. ever needed or wanted it licked?


Yes!!! Especially my chestpiece. Ever since I got it done, the skin there is much more hypersensitive to touch and I love having it licked. And cum on. Target practice!



suhlut -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 10:43:37 PM)

oh my.. now i MUST find a way to talk someone into licking mine for me.. gawd will i love how that feels.. the tattoo is very curvy as it works its way from ankle on up my calf.. 

damn.. i need to pull my mind back outta that gutter..lol



SlaveIndigochild -> RE: Sensation needs, wants and desires (10/2/2008 11:36:19 PM)

i don't always get what i want, but i get what i need.
As for desires? The longer i live the more i understand them to be universal; repressed, denied, deflected and so forth but far more universal than we in the 'lifestyle' assume.
We ain't that different. Just more expressive about WIITWAD. (actually).



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