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GreedyTop -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 6:41:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: variation30 quote: ORIGINAL: Duckiemine Whats your fetish? What would you admit to liking? how far would you answer that question to a stranger? brutalizing a woman to the point to where rape would seem too polite a term... puddle

GreedyTop -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 6:45:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: catize quote: If you take the word fetish for what it means then I don't have one. I enjoy ceratin aspects of BDSM but I do not have to have them to get off. Thank you! All I can say is "ditto" !! count me in on this one...

aperversetwist -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 10:31:30 AM)
I would ask the person what their reason was for asking. My answer would depend on the person and the situation. Since I have many fetishes I could answer with whichever one seemed to fit the situation best. I'd also think the person asking should volunteer their fetish as well.

Slavelary -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 10:45:09 AM)
Speaking of which, looking at your photo (and I know you're straight, but) I've always had an obsessive glove fetish. Probably similar to the one Yukio Mishima alludes to in his book Confessions of a Mask. I just bought my new Master a pair of police gloves but I haven't got them in the mail yet...

bipolarber -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 1:37:57 PM)
From the movie "Caddyshack:" LACY: Say, you have a nice tie... Do you have a lot on ties? CHEVY CHASE: Um... what do you mean? LACY: Would you like to tie me up with some of your ties? CHEVY CHASE: Tell you what... let's go back to my place, we can take our clothes off, and treat each other as two people who respect each other... LACY: (rolls eyes, as if to say "oh, brother...") In the right crowd, this would be a great ice breaker... but to a complete stranger, it could be TMI. But, for the record, I once spent an evening trying to deconstruct my kinkiness... to figure out what the foudation was for my sexuality... I realized that what I was really looking for, via all the bondage games, the role playing, the flogging, the hot wax and other games was... objectification. I basically want to be someone's plaything, their personal fuckhole, with little or no input to what happens within the scene. (Except to hit the brakes, of course, if I should get in over my head.) All the rest of the stuff is just the expression of this desire, and not the base desire itself.

monywildcat -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 2:28:31 PM)
Zip ties and duct tape. I said this to some cheesy guy in a bar once. He asks me "what do you do with zip ties and duct tape?" I simply smiled and told him that "silence is golden, duct tape is silver". He tells daddy that I am insane. His response "yeah I know it's awesome". Then he left. Haven't seen him since. [:D]

PeonForHer -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 4:46:07 PM)
If the stranger is hot and if i felt comfortable i would prolly answer. i try very hard to not present my desires in a matter of fact way. i consider it a duty to the community to demystify and humanize the face of wiitwd in hopes that some learning could take place. Despite the polarizing opinions about mainstreaming or begging for acceptance of this thing we enjoy...i want to do my part to at least put a face to it...i do the same thing with the lesbian aspect of my life...i try to correct misconceptions in the straight world about homosexuality if i see an opportunity to do so. Same with this. BRAVO Persephonee!

silkncarol -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 6:25:03 PM)
A good simple answer.....leather.....the feel of it on my skin..the smell......boots, belts and gloves..Oh My!!! quote: ORIGINAL: beargonewild I Simply say it's leather. Usually if they clue in then no further explanation is needed.

Slavelary -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 6:27:21 PM)
Of course, nothing beats leather. Frankly "Pleather" just isn't much fun really...

faithbunny -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 6:39:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: aravain I'm glad someone pointed out the difference between fetish and kink. My fetish is, quite simply, oral sex (giving, of course). I can't think about (and am not even interested in) getting off with another man if I don't get at least a minute or so of it. If someone else is even in the room I can't do it without that. By the dictionary definition, giving a blow job is a fetish for me, too... and given that I can't orgasm without at least thinking about him, I think my beloved qualifies as a fetish, too... ~faith

apiercedkitty -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 6:42:33 PM)
~FR~ If asked, i'd ask them if they REALLY wanted to know. Depending on my mood at the time, i might even admit to having an oral fetish... actually, my exact words are, "on my knees is my favorite place to be." It's enough of a statement to shut most guys up for at least 30 seconds while their mind computes... lol i also have a tattoo licking fetish - don't know what it is about a guy and a tattoo... i love to run my tongue over them... shiver

darchChylde -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 6:50:57 PM)
Cuddling. Bondage. Suspension. In that order. I'm usually very honest about what I like and what I'm into. I generally don't volunteer unasked for details. If I'm asked in a vanilla setting, I'll lead off with "It's not generally accepted as normal, are you sure you want to know?". If given the go ahead, I'll say "I prefer to have a woman in control, in bed and out." Further details if I'm asked to explain, I've had rather in depth discussions with certain vanilla friends and acquaintances.

MidMichCowboy -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 8:16:27 PM)
What I admit to: "Taking" a strong, intelligent woman. If they want further information, I'll say my lawyer said to keep me mouth shut. Then I smile.

UmbraDomina -> RE: What is your fetish? (10/4/2008 8:40:12 PM)
I have a necklace that say's "FREAK" enough said........lol

realslaveorkut -> RE: What is your fetish? (7/16/2009 11:30:44 PM)
fffff

Sunnyfey -> RE: What is your fetish? (7/17/2009 1:10:46 AM)
Right now? I want "quiet brutality". Think...a predator vs prey mentality, in the essence, I know as a Switch, I can fight back, violently so. my point being, the thing i want is to NOT have to fight to be physically taken down. Like, I'd rather have my hands pinned behind my back forcefully, and be on the cusp of spitting in the persons face, untill I get that look. the look that says "your not going to spit in my face, you going to take what I am about to give and shut up, you WILL obey". Then to be smacked hard enough i fall over and be taken that way. Get my drift?

NihilusZero -> RE: What is your fetish? (7/17/2009 1:36:31 AM)
I prefer the Induce-Submission-Via-Distraction-Due-To-Overwhelming-Sensory-Intoxication method. The pouncing, clawing and biting usually happen after the fact, more as additive predatory processes.

Sunnyfey -> RE: What is your fetish? (7/17/2009 1:58:11 AM)
whistles Nihilus, you slay me :P

Hawkwindblues -> RE: What is your fetish? (7/17/2009 3:07:55 AM)
Silk and a lot of other fabrics. Everything that has to do with fabric. Long hair, Green Eyes. Rope. Wit. Leather, especially if it is not black.

Sunnyfey -> RE: What is your fetish? (7/17/2009 3:11:11 AM)
One of these days, I'll find someone to listen when i tell them I'm not all about pain all the time. Yes, I'm a masochist, but I AM be that very definition of masochist...also a sensation slut. That doesn't just mean pain, an overwhelming ammout of SENSATION, be it sensual, sexual, painfull, or all three, will get me there quicker then just beating the shit out of me will.

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