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SlaveTrainerTony -> what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/2/2008 10:50:06 AM)


sometimes its a wonder, what is it that a sub seeks...We cannot all be talk dark and exceptionally handsome...
 
Not even Me.
one would think a sub would want a Dom to adore her as His sub.   That she would want to enjoy all that He is..not what He can offer her.
 
so the confusion continues.



knockonmyduir -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/2/2008 12:37:53 PM)

don't give up, there is one out there for You....she's just got her pc in for repairs



peppermint -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/2/2008 4:06:20 PM)

The Dominant in my life is short, bald on top, gray around the edges. 

You just haven't found a good match yet.  If I were looking and was about to give up, I'd ask myself if there was some other approach that I hadn't tried.  If you'd been looking only on the internet, then you've limited yourself a great deal.  Try going to a munch.  I used to play my vacation times around events I wanted to attend.  You always meet lots of people at events.  Even if you don't meet your match there, you'll be networking and someone you meet might run into another person who is looking and that person might be your match.   Anyway...do something different and have patience. 



lilpetuk -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/4/2008 4:20:16 AM)

shock and horror...what do you mean not all Doms are tall dark and handsome ... bugger i thought they were.

Joking...honestly lol....persevere, there will be a subby out there for you, me i prefer honest sincere good sense of humour, after all i'm no angelina jolie myself either. I truly believe there is someone for everyone...good luck SlaveTrainerTony

hugsssssss



wandersalone -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/4/2008 6:09:36 AM)

It doesn't seem as if you have been here very long...you will find that a lot of people on here have patience in bucket loads.  Become involved in the forums to make yourself known, email people you are interested in and attend real life events.  I feel you are selling submissives short if you feel they are all shallow enough to only focus on a tall, dark and exceptionally handsome dom....not that there is anything wrong with that [:D].  Maybe they are simply not a match for you.

All the best.

edited to fix typing



califsue -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/4/2008 6:35:51 AM)

Ok..I am confused I will admit. Your name and headline state "Male Dominant" and yet your ad states you are a 'submissive woman'. Which is it??
 
AND..the ad only shows you have been searching for 3 months. Many have been looking alot longer.



Subductrssss -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/4/2008 7:27:16 AM)

I tell every Dom I meet, I am no longer a 20 something hot body and expect a bit of wear and tear ~ give me my kudos for my 48 years and I will do the same for You.



wandersalone -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/4/2008 7:59:22 AM)

I agree the profile is a little confusing...I think he is writing about what he wants a submissive to feel ie. that her dominant is the one that works hardest in the relationship as she 'only' has to feel and let herself go etc etc ... which of course is something that we all do so easily....I wish1 [:D]

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ORIGINAL: califsue

Ok..I am confused I will admit. Your name and headline state "Male Dominant" and yet your ad states you are a 'submissive woman'. Which is it??
 
AND..the ad only shows you have been searching for 3 months. Many have been looking alot longer.



RealSub58 -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/4/2008 10:22:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: califsue

Ok..I am confused I will admit. Your name and headline state "Male Dominant" and yet your ad states you are a 'submissive woman'. Which is it??
 
AND..the ad only shows you have been searching for 3 months. Many have been looking alot longer.


Re-read that profile Sue...you misread  [:D]



RealSub58 -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/4/2008 10:24:46 AM)

What I dont understand is how could Tony have exhausted his search?  Only on collarme?   3 months?  Oh my Tony...keep looking.
and bestest of luck 



KarenYork -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/4/2008 10:57:53 AM)

I'm sure there is someone out there for you Tony as I'm sure there is someone out there for little old me

[;)] 



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/4/2008 1:00:39 PM)

you've been here for 2 months ...what are you expecting? submissives/slaves lining up at your door when you joined?! 

good grief

if you don't have the time and patience to find someone of quality and not quantity, then i might suggest trying your luck at alt.com or adultfriendfinder.com. selecting a dominant is like selecting fine wine, i want the best in vintage that's going to suit my palate never ordering the cheap, house stuff.

take your time ...cruise and read the forums a little ...i'm sure she's out there for you...



califsue -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/4/2008 3:26:27 PM)

RealSub...you are correct...I did misread the ad....my sincere apologies...many things on my mind when I looked this morning...

quote:

ORIGINAL: RealSub58

quote:

ORIGINAL: califsue

Ok..I am confused I will admit. Your name and headline state "Male Dominant" and yet your ad states you are a 'submissive woman'. Which is it??
 
AND..the ad only shows you have been searching for 3 months. Many have been looking alot longer.


Re-read that profile Sue...you misread  [:D]



SlayerZ -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/4/2008 9:46:40 PM)

It's like everywhere, though, guys will flock like to "new meat" once she makes her first appearance, leaving all the rather patient and old fashioned guys to pick at the bones and the grissel.

I mean that in no disrespect to any of the Doms who post here. I'm just stating what I think to be true, and that is that there's a lot of desperate Doms around, therefore they will snap up the more desirable subs quicker than Doms who are less inclined to chase

Once again, no offense is intended. [;)]



reservedinpublic -> RE: what do you do Now, when you exhausted your search (10/10/2008 4:31:43 PM)

Have you found what you are looking for?



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