Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real life friends?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Polls and Other Random Stupidity >> RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real life friends? Page: <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4 5   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/3/2008 11:35:45 PM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		so we're not really friends, RS??   *sob*

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to ResidentSadist)
Profile   Post #: 41
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/3/2008 11:47:20 PM   
ResidentSadist


Posts: 12580
Joined: 2/11/2007
From: a mean old Daddy, but I like you - Joni Mitchell
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
so we're not really friends, RS??   *sob*

I have already offered you service that involved my physical and legal jeopardy.  I thought you would help me burry the body? 


… ello,  Hello is dis’ greedy?  I gotta’ small piece of work for you to help wit'.  Do you still have that saws-all and drive a truck?



_____________________________

-=BDSM Book List=- Reading is Fundamental !!!
I give good thread.

(in reply to GreedyTop)
Profile   Post #: 42
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/3/2008 11:52:32 PM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		:D  

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to ResidentSadist)
Profile   Post #: 43
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 12:03:28 AM   
KMsAngel


Posts: 17415
Joined: 4/13/2007
Status: offline 		what, you mean that body over there that's still moving?

i saw nuffin'...

_____________________________

20 fluffy points!

flightless cherub


(in reply to GreedyTop)
Profile   Post #: 44
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 12:04:19 AM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		*smooches Angel*

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to KMsAngel)
Profile   Post #: 45
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 12:07:11 AM   
KMsAngel


Posts: 17415
Joined: 4/13/2007
Status: offline 		smooches will get you any... i mean nowhere, greedy.... there's still that body

*thwack*

well, it's not moving. for now.

_____________________________

20 fluffy points!

flightless cherub


(in reply to GreedyTop)
Profile   Post #: 46
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 12:11:10 AM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		*snort*

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to KMsAngel)
Profile   Post #: 47
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 12:15:42 AM   
KMsAngel


Posts: 17415
Joined: 4/13/2007
Status: offline 		uh, does this mean i'm an accessory after the fact?

crap. this is sooo going to ruin my pristine image. damndamndamn. all cause i let greedy distract me with a smooch



_____________________________

20 fluffy points!

flightless cherub


(in reply to GreedyTop)
Profile   Post #: 48
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 12:20:26 AM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		*fondles Angel*

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to KMsAngel)
Profile   Post #: 49
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 12:31:26 AM   
KMsAngel


Posts: 17415
Joined: 4/13/2007
Status: offline

_____________________________

20 fluffy points!

flightless cherub


(in reply to GreedyTop)
Profile   Post #: 50
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 12:34:58 AM   
WyldHrt


Posts: 6412
Joined: 6/5/2008
Status: offline 		LOL, that would be friendship right up there ^^^^^^ 

_____________________________

"MotherFUCKER!" is NOT a safeword!!"- Steel
"We've had complaints about 'orgy noises'. This is not the neighborhood for that kind of thing"- PVE Cop

Resident "Hypnotic Eyes", "Cleavage" and "Toy Whore"
Subby Mafia, VAA Posse & Team Troll!

(in reply to KMsAngel)
Profile   Post #: 51
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 2:43:34 AM   
MadAxeman


Posts: 4171
Joined: 8/28/2008
From: UK
Status: offline 		Looks up...ooh

(in reply to WyldHrt)
Profile   Post #: 52
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 3:03:55 AM   
lusciouslips19


Posts: 9792
Joined: 9/8/2007
Status: offline 		I love my online friends. They know who I really am. Its not like I talk to my vanilla chums about the scene that went wrong. These forums have changed my mind about friendship. This is a wonderful and supportive community. Thank you all for your love, support, kindness, truth even when it hurts and loads of ROTFLMAO!!!

_____________________________

Original Pimpette,
Keeper of Original Home Flag and Fire of Mr. Lance Hughes
Charter member of Lance's Fag Hags,
Member of the Subbie Mafia
Princess of typos and it's my prerogative

(in reply to MadAxeman)
Profile   Post #: 53
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 6:25:15 AM   
wandersalone


Posts: 4666
Joined: 11/21/2005
Status: offline 		Apologies for not getting back before now to make a reply

Thank you to everyone who has shared their thoughts about this...I haven't really thought about the differences in online vs 'real'  friends before so I was curious about other peoples thoughts.

I agree with many people who have said that they do not make a distinction between their friends.  Thinking some more about this today I realised that I actually often talk with my online friends more as I sometimes hesitate to phone my best friends due to living interstate now and not wanting to disturb them as many have partners and little ones. 

Also if it is late at night and I am feeling lonely, upset etc I pretty much always can find one of my friends from the USA/Canada around to talk with which fits in well as I tend to be too busy during the day to think about asking for a shoulder to cry on so if anything...some of my online friends know much more about the difficulties when I have them than my real life friends.

Oh no...I think that was a very long run-on sentence!


_____________________________

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. Martin Luther King
Godmother of the subbie mafia
My all time favourite threads
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2002501
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=790885

(in reply to faerytattoodgirl)
Profile   Post #: 54
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 6:27:12 AM   
wandersalone


Posts: 4666
Joined: 11/21/2005
Status: offline 		grins...just remember to hide all sharp objects if Holl comes to visit!!!....actually, she probably can do irreparable damage even with something blunt so just tie her to a chair and wrap her in cotton wool!

_____________________________

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. Martin Luther King
Godmother of the subbie mafia
My all time favourite threads
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2002501
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=790885

(in reply to VirginPotty)
Profile   Post #: 55
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 6:30:21 AM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		Yeah, Wanders... I'm the same way.. there are times when THIS is the only place I can express some feelings/ issues/etc.. either by email or posting.

ONe of the best friends I've ever had I met from AOL.  THere is NOTHING I wouldnt do for her (Missokyst knows who I am speaking of).  We've spent time together (Not nearly as much as I'd like).  But our friendship was forged via an AOL chatroom.




_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to wandersalone)
Profile   Post #: 56
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 6:51:27 AM   
sirsholly


Posts: 42360
Joined: 9/7/2007
From: Quietville
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: wandersalone

grins...just remember to hide all sharp objects if Holl comes to visit!!!....actually, she probably can do irreparable damage even with something blunt so just tie her to a chair and wrap her in cotton wool!




_____________________________

PICKED UPON
TECHNO-DOLT
MEMBER OF THE SUBBIE MAFIA
GRACEFULLY CHALLENGED :::::splat:::::
BOOT WHORE
VAA/S FAN

GIVES GOOD HEART (Lushy)

CREATOR OF MAYHEM (practice)


(in reply to wandersalone)
Profile   Post #: 57
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 6:54:26 AM   
wandersalone


Posts: 4666
Joined: 11/21/2005
Status: offline 		ugh...I am trying to respond to everyone however I just know I am missing people out...apologies...it is a reflection of my lack of computer skills rather than of your words

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
Still, I do think there is a difference between any sort of long distance relationship where the primary contact is via net or phone versus someone you spend physical time with. I won't argue that one is more valid that the other, just different in many ways. I know what I prefer but to each their own.


Yes I definitely agree with this LaT.  I am really looking forward to meeting my two friends in person and seeing how our friendship changes (or ends if we all hate each other ha ha) from a tesxt based one to a real life one and then changes back again to a text based one when they return to the USA.

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

(who sent you a postcard wootie woot)

Woohoo...speaking of which I LOVE that postcrossing site...my first postcard has been received from someone in Finland...my friends have joined it as well.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen
And I count myself extremely fortunate to have the opportunity from time to time, to turn acquaintances into mates and mates into friends.
E

smiles...I like the friends/mates/acquaintances description Lady E. 
quote:

ORIGINAL: beargonewild
I see friendship occurring at various levels of closeness and compatibility, each is unique in it's own way though it's still friendship.


smiles I like how you said that
quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

according to my landlord... NO.  your an acquantance...


grins...I am intrigued that you and your landlord had a conversation about this...so are you two friends or acquaintances?
quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick
I think it's what you share, not how you share it, that makes a friend.

I agree
quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

If we are talking with each other we are friends.

ditto
quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl
on the other hand, my bffs are the ones who reside in my inner circle.  i see and meet them in real life for coffee or dinner to a fun night on the town.

One thing I really miss is not seeing my best friends in real life any more ... mind you, the person I consider to be my best friend in the whole world and I probably see each other once a year and only talk on the phone once a month or so ...yet I would drop everything for her in a heartbeat and vice versa.

quote:

ORIGINAL: nursygirl

I use to consider people as simply online acquaintances, but after a life-threatening medical crisis last week and the concern showed by these "acquaintances", not to mention the phone call from Australia,  those people are forever in my heart as friends.

smiles...yes I love the support shown by people on here when anyone is struggling...there are many beautiful and caring souls on here


_____________________________

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. Martin Luther King
Godmother of the subbie mafia
My all time favourite threads
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2002501
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=790885

(in reply to LaTigresse)
Profile   Post #: 58
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 7:12:16 AM   
SavageFaerie


Posts: 4377
Joined: 12/3/2004
From: NYC
Status: offline 		Without the internet and even back to the old bbs system, I would be friendless. Over the years I have become very close with my internet friends and usually if possible meet them eventually. While some are still far away, we keep in touch with each other and maintain that of a close friend.

My best friend I met through the internet some 11 years ago,gags seeing that in writing is boggling. It started out as an invite to NJ from Texas to a fetish party she was giving, and I went with a mutual friend (well not really she lost favor quickly) and she spent 5 year convincing me to move up the NJ with her and her husband which I did end up doing, a financial crisis sent me back to Texas for 2 years and now Im back up here where we can visit again. We arent just best friends, we are now related by blood since my daughter gave her belly and her time to surrgate a child for them. She is now 3 years old and still part of my life. I would drop everything for my friend and my other family,  and she would do the same.

Im blessed with the quality of friends via online, without regard to whether I have actually met or not. Some come and go, while others are lifelong friends.

_____________________________

Disclaimer:If its the wrong word or misspelled I blame on my fingers and brains refusing to interact.

(in reply to wandersalone)
Profile   Post #: 59
RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real ... - 10/4/2008 7:19:07 AM   
lronitulstahp


Posts: 5392
Joined: 10/17/2007
Status: offline 		my online friends are friends.  Fortunately, some have become RL friends, and similar to DV , when i meet online friends face-to-face, it's more like a high-school reunion than a first meeting. 

i love knowing if i have a bad day, or a joke, or a happy news report, i can send out mass emails, and get some love in return.  i truly felt like getting on a plane and hitting Cali's ex in the kneecaps with a Louisville Slugger(lots of bending involved on my part...and let me point outthat i have nothing against "little people" and enjoy Verne Troyer in all the Austin powers movies) just as much as i wanted to when one of my best friends of many years was dealing wth similar issues.  i get all gooey eyed when lushy or christine or any of us have a break-up, and all joyfull over the moon when they find hot new Daddies, i pray for Things 1 and 2, and i cry when some of you lose loved ones, i pray for people on long journeys to Texas, and Texan friends from whom i miss receiving emails after Ike.  Just like i would for any other friends.

The TDHO laughs when i try to underplay how important my CM friends are to me.  Something will happen, and He figures "they know" pretty soon afterwards. (though i am getting better LOL)  i have a bunch of RL  friends i've accumulated during my lifetime, all over the world...(i am a lucky girl)  but i still value my online friends, and the connection i share with them is no less than any others...often we have more of a connection.  Not all of my RL friends are happy that i let guys "boss me around" or that i seem to be overly fond of cocksucking.  But the Pimpettes??? Hell, we hold emergency cock-sucking advice and intervention meetings!!!!



_____________________________

Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for." -Bob Marley

(in reply to wandersalone)
Profile   Post #: 60
Page:   <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4 5   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Polls and Other Random Stupidity >> RE: online friends....can they ever be classed as real life friends? Page: <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4 5   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.094