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odalisqueslave -> diapers anyone? (10/4/2008 6:57:46 PM)

what's the big deal with diapers/diaper play?
i have noticed that virtualy all profiles i view have 'diapers' listed under 'hard limit'.

why is such an innocent garment so maligned...<weg>

odal




SimplyMichael -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/4/2008 7:03:58 PM)

The big deal is not everyone likes the same thing, even if BSB begged me, I couldn't do this one.

That said, I saw a cut T shirt at folsom fair in SF.

"Do these diapers make my butt look big"?




flower2007 -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/4/2008 7:15:26 PM)

It's not a hard limit for me!  To have someone control such a basic part of me....yumm.




DesFIP -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/4/2008 7:33:02 PM)

I've had my ums, the idea of changing an adult's diapers is a turn off. As far as being asked to use one, I'm not into bathroom control in anyway.




UmbraDomina -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/4/2008 7:44:04 PM)

diapers hold no pleasure ideals for me, it only squicks me out, makes me think of a um, which to me is the last thought I want to have in a adult releationship. Also I can only speak for myself in this, but as a dominant woman I don't do things that I don't enjoy, and I so can not find any pleasure in cleaning poo off a grown mans butt and powdering it.




BossyShoeBitch -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/4/2008 8:08:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The big deal is not everyone likes the same thing, even if BSB begged me, I couldn't do this one.


really?[sm=flying.gif][sm=flying.gif]




tsatske -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/4/2008 8:09:55 PM)


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ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina

and I so can not find any pleasure in cleaning poo off a grown mans butt and powdering it.


Remeber, it may well be a hairy butt. That has got to make the cleaning part at least more interesting.... [:'(]




wulfgarw -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/4/2008 11:24:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: odalisqueslave

what's the big deal with diapers/diaper play?
i have noticed that virtualy all profiles i view have 'diapers' listed under 'hard limit'.

why is such an innocent garment so maligned...<weg>

odal


I think the other posters have touched on the main reasons diapers aren't popular, with the top one being UMs.  and cleanup second.  My sub only wet, and never messed.

I personally love seeing a woman in a thick comfy diaper, and the closeness at changing time, and the thrill of possible discovery while out at a public place.  Alas, only one sub has tried it with me, but she enjoyed it immensely, both times I shaved and diapered her.  And of course, she wore restraints whilst in them at my place, which made her super horny.




SimplyMichael -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/5/2008 8:46:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The big deal is not everyone likes the same thing, even if BSB begged me, I couldn't do this one.


really?[sm=flying.gif][sm=flying.gif]


Begging at this point would not work, finding you asleep in them in my bed however, would probably inspire a new kink. 




TabrisMaceth -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/5/2008 9:32:26 PM)

Hey, I think diapers are cute. Changing them...not so much...but a girl in a diaper and a baby doll dress with an oversized lolli is too cute!
...Man, what the hell kind of fantasies am I having?

-Tabris




CallaFirestormBW -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/5/2008 10:15:47 PM)

Nope, no diapers for me. I started my working life changing diapers on adults in nursing homes, then raised four offspring. I've faced the fact that at least one of my offspring plans on being a breeder himself (the other three have sworn off breeding!) and I will probably be relegated to at least one round of "grandma does diapers". I am doing my utmost best to not end up in the damned things myself (healthy diet, lots of kegels).

After all is said and done, I've suffered through my diaper thing. I hate scat play and queening, so it isn't just scat -- it's that whole concept dealing with evacuation of wastes. ("Roman", too... ewwww!)

Calla Firestorm




Twicehappy2x -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/6/2008 3:55:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW

I will probably be relegated to at least one round of "grandma does diapers".

After all is said and done, I've suffered through my diaper thing. I hate scat play and queening, so it isn't just scat -- it's that whole concept dealing with evacuation of wastes. ("Roman", too... ewwww!)


I'll see your ewww and raise you a disgusting!
 
And, grins, if i am alone with one of my grandkids, i'd change the diaper but if a parent is handy i'd hand them over saying " this is yours now, i'll take it back when it's clean". But i am a baddd grandma, i love buying them chocolate, cotton candy, noisy toys, drums, etc... you get the idea, then sending them home to make mom and dad nuts. WEG....call it revenge......




BossyShoeBitch -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/6/2008 5:58:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The big deal is not everyone likes the same thing, even if BSB begged me, I couldn't do this one.


really?[sm=flying.gif][sm=flying.gif]


Begging at this point would not work, finding you asleep in them in my bed however, would probably inspire a new kink. 

Funny how that constantly seems to happen with us, isn't it[;)]?




BossyShoeBitch -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/6/2008 6:02:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x

quote:

ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW

I will probably be relegated to at least one round of "grandma does diapers".

After all is said and done, I've suffered through my diaper thing. I hate scat play and queening, so it isn't just scat -- it's that whole concept dealing with evacuation of wastes. ("Roman", too... ewwww!)


I'll see your ewww and raise you a disgusting!
 
And, grins, if i am alone with one of my grandkids, i'd change the diaper but if a parent is handy i'd hand them over saying " this is yours now, i'll take it back when it's clean". But i am a baddd grandma, i love buying them chocolate, cotton candy, noisy toys, drums, etc... you get the idea, then sending them home to make mom and dad nuts. WEG....call it revenge......


I forgot about grandma's revenge... So I just have 20 or so years to wait...  I can wait... *s*




Mercnbeth -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/6/2008 7:08:10 AM)

DISCLAIMER: Diaper play for us does not involve scat - only water-sports.

quote:

what's the big deal with diapers/diaper play?
Ultimate control.

I'm no so much into bondage. I love the ultimate look of shibiri, but don't have the skill to do it all the time, nor the patience to get to that great result. The physical restriction, the control, provided by bondage is the attraction for me. I don't think

What can be more controlling than limiting a body function? Taking over control of a basic bodily function takes the physical rope/leather restriction one step further. I've seen beth go into a into very deep 'subspace', when its diaper time. Some times its for a day, under a skirt, especially when we're going on a long car trip when I don't want to stop. Other times, it's for bedtime.

Like anything - we do it because we enjoy it. Its FUN!

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
That said, I saw a cut T shirt at Folsom fair in SF.

"Do these diapers make my butt look big"?
Michael,
I've had beth wear that tee shirt a few times. In fact, last year at the Fringe after the Saturday night party beth wore that tee shirt along with a diaper.

Sometimes, she's just a big baby! Sometimes, I enjoy treating her like a big tall redheaded baby.

she looks GREAT in a diaper, pigtails, and pacifier.




SimplyMichael -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/6/2008 7:10:53 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The big deal is not everyone likes the same thing, even if BSB begged me, I couldn't do this one.


really?[sm=flying.gif][sm=flying.gif]


Begging at this point would not work, finding you asleep in them in my bed however, would probably inspire a new kink. 

Funny how that constantly seems to happen with us, isn't it[;)]?


The irony and timing of you posting this minutes before I watched that gift you made me is amazing.  I never wanted one of those before but oh my fucking god do I want to now.  You gloriously naughty woman!




BossyShoeBitch -> RE: diapers anyone? (10/6/2008 8:42:56 AM)

*takes a bow*  Why thank you very much!




dnine -> RE: diapers anyone? (5/25/2016 1:02:29 AM)

As they say - different strokes...

I am lucky enough to be afflicted by this fetish. How the idea was planted in my head I'll never know. What I DO know is that for as long as I can remember I have been turned on at the thoughtt of wearing a diaper. I always joke that I think I got into diapers the day I stopped having to wear them ;-/. Anyhow this fetish has consumed me for my entire life. I have always realized that it was highly taboo. Trust me, this is not the kind of thing you openly talk about with family or even partners, you'll never see me shouting from the rooftops that I get off wearing diapers. This fetish also takes many turns, ABDL has many facets it's hard enough just trying to grasp the turn-ons and turn-offs of this complex fetish. For me I have always felt submissive around females, the idea of being forced to wear and use diapers by a dominant female is my ultimate turn on. Imagine my surprise as I grew up and started seeing aspects of ABDL in porno magazines. My roommate in college had a Penthouse Magazine that had an ad for Adult Baby Wear. It was an eye opening discovery for me - reaffirming that I was not alone with this fetish. So for all of those people out there that "don't get it", that's fine but trust me there are plenty of us out there. I have always seen it as a form of punishment, control and humiliation - plus diapers are quite resourceful in long term confinement or bondage.




Shandirra -> RE: diapers anyone? (5/25/2016 5:14:40 AM)

~FR~

Just no. Not ever. Not for any reason. Not wearing nor watching others wear. Most certainly never changing or dealing with messy diapers. Others may enjoy this fetish but I will never, ever have anything to do with it. It's one of the top five hard limits. Immutable and unchangeable.




Wayward5oul -> RE: diapers anyone? (5/25/2016 4:46:30 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The big deal is not everyone likes the same thing, even if BSB begged me, I couldn't do this one.

That said, I saw a cut T shirt at folsom fair in SF.

"Do these diapers make my butt look big"?

[sm=rofl.gif]




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