Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

diapers anyone?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> diapers anyone? Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
diapers anyone? - 10/4/2008 6:57:46 PM   
odalisqueslave


Posts: 30
Joined: 9/18/2005
Status: offline 		what's the big deal with diapers/diaper play?
i have noticed that virtualy all profiles i view have 'diapers' listed under 'hard limit'.

why is such an innocent garment so maligned...<weg>

odal
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/4/2008 7:03:58 PM   
SimplyMichael


Posts: 7229
Joined: 1/7/2007
Status: offline 		The big deal is not everyone likes the same thing, even if BSB begged me, I couldn't do this one.

That said, I saw a cut T shirt at folsom fair in SF.

"Do these diapers make my butt look big"?

(in reply to odalisqueslave)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/4/2008 7:15:26 PM   
flower2007


Posts: 120
Joined: 4/14/2007
Status: offline 		It's not a hard limit for me!  To have someone control such a basic part of me....yumm.

(in reply to odalisqueslave)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/4/2008 7:33:02 PM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		I've had my ums, the idea of changing an adult's diapers is a turn off. As far as being asked to use one, I'm not into bathroom control in anyway.

_____________________________

Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!


(in reply to flower2007)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/4/2008 7:44:04 PM   
UmbraDomina


Posts: 491
Joined: 7/22/2008
From: SE Michigan
Status: offline 		diapers hold no pleasure ideals for me, it only squicks me out, makes me think of a um, which to me is the last thought I want to have in a adult releationship. Also I can only speak for myself in this, but as a dominant woman I don't do things that I don't enjoy, and I so can not find any pleasure in cleaning poo off a grown mans butt and powdering it.

_____________________________

Alexandra ~

~~ And I will show you something different from either your shadow at morning striding behind you Or your shadow at evening rising to meet you; I will show you fear in a handful of dust..... T.S. Elliot ~~

(in reply to DesFIP)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/4/2008 8:08:19 PM   
BossyShoeBitch


Posts: 3931
Joined: 1/13/2007
From: South Florida
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The big deal is not everyone likes the same thing, even if BSB begged me, I couldn't do this one.


really?

_____________________________

A clever man can get out of situations a wise man never gets into...
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.

(in reply to SimplyMichael)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/4/2008 8:09:55 PM   
tsatske


Posts: 2037
Joined: 3/9/2007
From: Louisville, KY
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina

and I so can not find any pleasure in cleaning poo off a grown mans butt and powdering it.


Remeber, it may well be a hairy butt. That has got to make the cleaning part at least more interesting....

_____________________________

“If you never did you should. These things are fun and fun is good”
~Dr. Seuss quote

(in reply to UmbraDomina)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/4/2008 11:24:48 PM   
wulfgarw


Posts: 752
Joined: 3/18/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: odalisqueslave

what's the big deal with diapers/diaper play?
i have noticed that virtualy all profiles i view have 'diapers' listed under 'hard limit'.

why is such an innocent garment so maligned...<weg>

odal


I think the other posters have touched on the main reasons diapers aren't popular, with the top one being UMs.  and cleanup second.  My sub only wet, and never messed.

I personally love seeing a woman in a thick comfy diaper, and the closeness at changing time, and the thrill of possible discovery while out at a public place.  Alas, only one sub has tried it with me, but she enjoyed it immensely, both times I shaved and diapered her.  And of course, she wore restraints whilst in them at my place, which made her super horny.

(in reply to odalisqueslave)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/5/2008 8:46:06 PM   
SimplyMichael


Posts: 7229
Joined: 1/7/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The big deal is not everyone likes the same thing, even if BSB begged me, I couldn't do this one.


really?


Begging at this point would not work, finding you asleep in them in my bed however, would probably inspire a new kink. 

(in reply to BossyShoeBitch)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/5/2008 9:32:26 PM   
TabrisMaceth


Posts: 190
Joined: 9/23/2008
From: The Ghost Matrix
Status: offline 		Hey, I think diapers are cute. Changing them...not so much...but a girl in a diaper and a baby doll dress with an oversized lolli is too cute!
...Man, what the hell kind of fantasies am I having?

-Tabris

_____________________________

I don't like hand baskets. Everything's always going to Hell in them.

(in reply to SimplyMichael)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/5/2008 10:15:47 PM   
CallaFirestormBW


Posts: 3651
Joined: 6/29/2008
Status: offline 		Nope, no diapers for me. I started my working life changing diapers on adults in nursing homes, then raised four offspring. I've faced the fact that at least one of my offspring plans on being a breeder himself (the other three have sworn off breeding!) and I will probably be relegated to at least one round of "grandma does diapers". I am doing my utmost best to not end up in the damned things myself (healthy diet, lots of kegels).

After all is said and done, I've suffered through my diaper thing. I hate scat play and queening, so it isn't just scat -- it's that whole concept dealing with evacuation of wastes. ("Roman", too... ewwww!)

Calla Firestorm

_____________________________

***
Said to me recently: "Look, I know you're the "voice of reason"... but dammit, I LIKE being unreasonable!!!!"

"Your mind is more interested in the challenge of becoming than the challenge of doing." Jon Benson, Bodybuilder/Trainer

(in reply to odalisqueslave)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/6/2008 3:55:36 AM   
Twicehappy2x


Posts: 1096
Joined: 3/27/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW

I will probably be relegated to at least one round of "grandma does diapers".

After all is said and done, I've suffered through my diaper thing. I hate scat play and queening, so it isn't just scat -- it's that whole concept dealing with evacuation of wastes. ("Roman", too... ewwww!)


I'll see your ewww and raise you a disgusting!
 
And, grins, if i am alone with one of my grandkids, i'd change the diaper but if a parent is handy i'd hand them over saying " this is yours now, i'll take it back when it's clean". But i am a baddd grandma, i love buying them chocolate, cotton candy, noisy toys, drums, etc... you get the idea, then sending them home to make mom and dad nuts. WEG....call it revenge......


_____________________________

The human heart is not a finite container but an ever expanding universe with all the stars contained there in.

(in reply to CallaFirestormBW)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/6/2008 5:58:22 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


Posts: 3931
Joined: 1/13/2007
From: South Florida
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The big deal is not everyone likes the same thing, even if BSB begged me, I couldn't do this one.


really?


Begging at this point would not work, finding you asleep in them in my bed however, would probably inspire a new kink. 

Funny how that constantly seems to happen with us, isn't it?

_____________________________

A clever man can get out of situations a wise man never gets into...
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.

(in reply to SimplyMichael)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/6/2008 6:02:29 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


Posts: 3931
Joined: 1/13/2007
From: South Florida
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x

quote:

ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW

I will probably be relegated to at least one round of "grandma does diapers".

After all is said and done, I've suffered through my diaper thing. I hate scat play and queening, so it isn't just scat -- it's that whole concept dealing with evacuation of wastes. ("Roman", too... ewwww!)


I'll see your ewww and raise you a disgusting!
 
And, grins, if i am alone with one of my grandkids, i'd change the diaper but if a parent is handy i'd hand them over saying " this is yours now, i'll take it back when it's clean". But i am a baddd grandma, i love buying them chocolate, cotton candy, noisy toys, drums, etc... you get the idea, then sending them home to make mom and dad nuts. WEG....call it revenge......


I forgot about grandma's revenge... So I just have 20 or so years to wait...  I can wait... *s*

_____________________________

A clever man can get out of situations a wise man never gets into...
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.

(in reply to Twicehappy2x)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/6/2008 7:08:10 AM   
Mercnbeth


Posts: 11766
Status: offline 		DISCLAIMER: Diaper play for us does not involve scat - only water-sports.

quote:

what's the big deal with diapers/diaper play?
Ultimate control.

I'm no so much into bondage. I love the ultimate look of shibiri, but don't have the skill to do it all the time, nor the patience to get to that great result. The physical restriction, the control, provided by bondage is the attraction for me. I don't think

What can be more controlling than limiting a body function? Taking over control of a basic bodily function takes the physical rope/leather restriction one step further. I've seen beth go into a into very deep 'subspace', when its diaper time. Some times its for a day, under a skirt, especially when we're going on a long car trip when I don't want to stop. Other times, it's for bedtime.

Like anything - we do it because we enjoy it. Its FUN!

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
That said, I saw a cut T shirt at Folsom fair in SF.

"Do these diapers make my butt look big"?
Michael,
I've had beth wear that tee shirt a few times. In fact, last year at the Fringe after the Saturday night party beth wore that tee shirt along with a diaper.

Sometimes, she's just a big baby! Sometimes, I enjoy treating her like a big tall redheaded baby.

she looks GREAT in a diaper, pigtails, and pacifier.

(in reply to SimplyMichael)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/6/2008 7:10:53 AM   
SimplyMichael


Posts: 7229
Joined: 1/7/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The big deal is not everyone likes the same thing, even if BSB begged me, I couldn't do this one.


really?


Begging at this point would not work, finding you asleep in them in my bed however, would probably inspire a new kink. 

Funny how that constantly seems to happen with us, isn't it?


The irony and timing of you posting this minutes before I watched that gift you made me is amazing.  I never wanted one of those before but oh my fucking god do I want to now.  You gloriously naughty woman!

(in reply to BossyShoeBitch)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: diapers anyone? - 10/6/2008 8:42:56 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


Posts: 3931
Joined: 1/13/2007
From: South Florida
Status: offline 		*takes a bow*  Why thank you very much!

_____________________________

A clever man can get out of situations a wise man never gets into...
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.

(in reply to SimplyMichael)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: diapers anyone? - 5/25/2016 1:02:29 AM   
dnine


Posts: 5
Joined: 11/13/2009
Status: offline 		As they say - different strokes...

I am lucky enough to be afflicted by this fetish. How the idea was planted in my head I'll never know. What I DO know is that for as long as I can remember I have been turned on at the thoughtt of wearing a diaper. I always joke that I think I got into diapers the day I stopped having to wear them ;-/. Anyhow this fetish has consumed me for my entire life. I have always realized that it was highly taboo. Trust me, this is not the kind of thing you openly talk about with family or even partners, you'll never see me shouting from the rooftops that I get off wearing diapers. This fetish also takes many turns, ABDL has many facets it's hard enough just trying to grasp the turn-ons and turn-offs of this complex fetish. For me I have always felt submissive around females, the idea of being forced to wear and use diapers by a dominant female is my ultimate turn on. Imagine my surprise as I grew up and started seeing aspects of ABDL in porno magazines. My roommate in college had a Penthouse Magazine that had an ad for Adult Baby Wear. It was an eye opening discovery for me - reaffirming that I was not alone with this fetish. So for all of those people out there that "don't get it", that's fine but trust me there are plenty of us out there. I have always seen it as a form of punishment, control and humiliation - plus diapers are quite resourceful in long term confinement or bondage.

(in reply to BossyShoeBitch)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: diapers anyone? - 5/25/2016 5:14:40 AM   
Shandirra


Posts: 196
Joined: 11/28/2007
From: NYC
Status: offline 		~FR~

Just no. Not ever. Not for any reason. Not wearing nor watching others wear. Most certainly never changing or dealing with messy diapers. Others may enjoy this fetish but I will never, ever have anything to do with it. It's one of the top five hard limits. Immutable and unchangeable.

_____________________________

Life shouldn't be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly shouting..."Wow! What a ride!

(in reply to dnine)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: diapers anyone? - 5/25/2016 4:46:30 PM   
Wayward5oul


Posts: 3314
Joined: 11/9/2014
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The big deal is not everyone likes the same thing, even if BSB begged me, I couldn't do this one.

That said, I saw a cut T shirt at folsom fair in SF.

"Do these diapers make my butt look big"?


(in reply to SimplyMichael)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> diapers anyone? Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.109