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Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/4/2008 7:50:51 PM

tsatske

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This is really just a post for fun. (most of the ones I start are just for fun, people. Usually I get serrious when replying to ones that make me think, but when I ask something, it's generally just a gas, nothing more.)
So, there's hard limits, and then there is something - uhm - more. There are things that, while you might try to keep your opinion to yourself in a public lifestyle place, so as not to be thought judgemental, really, there are things that just make you go, 'WTF?'
Master has practicly every fetish known to man. So, I have taken up the habit of collecting things that he distinctly does NOT have a fetish for.
So far I have:
clowns, apparently, does not squick Him, but does nothing FOR Him, either.
Roman play (vomit)
and Blephophelia (gets off on licking eyeballs)

There are, of course, a lot of things we haven't discussed in depth. And a whole bunch of out on the edge things where he just smiles and says, 'I'm not telling', I think that is just to keep the fear of God ( or Master, same difference) in me.

So, what are the fetishes that are among the
'Things that make you go 'Blech!' ?

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/4/2008 7:57:28 PM

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Unfortunately that's how he feels about wax play. I love it but it does nothing for him.
The idea of cages makes me roll my eyes. If it isn't big enough to move around I'm just going to be uncomfortable and unhappy and if it is, I'm going to want to take a nap but I could do that easier in my own bed. So what's the point? I know some people find it relaxing but it doesn't appeal to me.

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/4/2008 7:59:57 PM

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So um...yea...the idea of eating poo is just an end of the world blech scenario for me...no way, no how, no amount of money...

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/4/2008 8:40:30 PM

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Enemas. I'm okay with other anal stuff, just not that. I blame my friends showing me tub girl. *shudders*

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/4/2008 8:43:25 PM

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As a sort of hijack, I've always wondered whether Liverpool should be considered the capital of wax play.

But moving swifty on topic, has anyone tried wax play with genuine ear wax?

Personally one of my most solid hard limits are cauliflowers. I have a deep phobia of cauliflowers, they squick me, I cannot have any contact or be anywhere near a cauliflower. Eating cauliflower is one kink I just cannot handle.

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/4/2008 8:44:03 PM

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Ain't into water sports and definitely not into scat.

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/4/2008 8:52:17 PM

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stella,
My last Master was raised Jewish. He was not raised Kosher, His parents did not keep Kosher, but His Maternal Grandmother was Kosher in the Ultra-Uber-Extreme. She would not eat cauliflower, Broccolli, ect, ect, said it was Trife (unKosher). Because of all those crinkly little places in it, you know - you can't clean it well enough to KNOW that it is free of bugs. (insects are not kosher to eat. That is why there are kosher brands of lipstick. Because many brands are made of like, 60% insect protean. Kosher lipstick is gaurenteed to be insect free. And this is why making me wear cheap lipstick is a kink that squicks the hell out of ME)

Edit: and, for your Wax play suggestion, stella:
Candles for Stella Style Wax Play

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/4/2008 8:56:21 PM

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Pregnancy fetishism. Just turns my stomach.

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/4/2008 9:05:34 PM

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Diapers and baby stuff... the concept makes me feel pedo-by-proxy.

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/4/2008 9:06:18 PM

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Pregnancy fetishism. Just turns my stomach.

no worries on my end....cant get preg! (and the world is safe!)

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/4/2008 9:34:07 PM

zakkan

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I remember there is something called cast fetish... Where people get a kick out of watching women bound in plastic casts, like when you break a leg. That is a little too weird for me...

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/4/2008 9:45:53 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tsatske
Blephophelia (gets off on licking eyeballs)

Thats a new one for me. One learns something new every day.

The whole Dolcett thing. I dont get. Well, any type of necro anything.

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/5/2008 2:29:06 AM

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Well, I did have my eyeballs licked once. It did nothing for me and I wonder about eye infections. Wax play is messy as crap and I'll never do that again. Intricate knife play bores me too because there comes a point where she knows I'm not going to cut her. It 's okay as a prop for rape play, but moving the thing in patterns over her skin does nothing for me. Plus, there are a zillion other things that don't interest me although I'm sure there is someone for everything.

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/5/2008 4:16:14 AM

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used to think that needles was not my thing, then i got tattooed and started wondering....

Hmm, def not my thing - poo, wee, nappies (diapers), animals.... kind of usual stuff really! oh and i have just developed a nasty reaction to anything with latex in it so anything with that in too....

Gabrielle x

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/5/2008 4:41:23 AM

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no poop - puke - kids or animals for me....and err...i hate having to lick an hairy anus...former Master was into that humilation - i never ever got used to that.....*L*.....

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/5/2008 4:42:52 AM

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quote:

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...i hate having to lick an hairy anus...

what's up with you girl lol?

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/5/2008 5:28:59 AM

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I had a subbie who wanted to lick honey off my balls and cock. It was her big thing, and it was all right for the first dozen times, but it was a bugger to clean up as she never got all of it. I'm just glad we didn't do it in the summer with the windows open.

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/5/2008 5:32:23 AM

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Don't think I'd have My eyeballs licked. Somehow, I think it would mess up My eyeliner.

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/5/2008 5:34:44 AM

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Honestly, I think it's probably easier to list the things I -do- get into than the things I don't... the don't list is pretty long, actually--but the stuff that is on it I absolutely am NOT into... no hope, no chance, no how! OTOH, some of the things I love, like reptilophilia (being crawled on by, handling, or caressing reptiles and snakes) are so hard to find I don't even bother, and enjoy that little treat in my fantasies. *LOL*

I think the biggest "absolutely will not even discuss" things, for me, though, include Roman, queening, squish/crush, insect, human toilet, and adult baby. Those just creep me out so much that I can't even respond to people who bring them up in an email.

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RE: Not to judge, YKIOK and all, but.... - 10/5/2008 6:54:36 AM

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My list is long NO scat, watersports, vomit, human toilet, AB, necro and it goes on but thats the short version.

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