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master to talk with - 12/5/2005 6:21:40 AM

mons

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hello

i was wondering does it make me less of a dominant woman if i want to speak to a master from time to time i just like the feel of how they speak but i do not want to be someone sub i am wondering why there is this need i am astrong domme and very kind but strict so why do i need to speak to a master and no one laugh please

mons

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RE: master to talk with - 12/5/2005 6:27:13 AM

IronBear

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I can't see how it would make you less of a Dom. We all enjoy and need people of the opposite sex to talk with and talking with someone who is of the opposite sex but same orientation makes perfect sence and shows balance too.

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RE: master to talk with - 12/5/2005 7:20:26 AM

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I enjoy talking to all kinds of people; men, women, Dom(mes) and Subs. It doesn't affect my orientation as a Dom but it DOES give me a well rounded background and a lot of people with varying interests to be friends with. Think about it. Would you see anything wrong with four guys sitting around drinking beer and chatting? So why not four girls? Or three guys and one girl? Why not talk to people who have the same interests you do and pass on or pick up ideas?

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RE: master to talk with - 12/5/2005 7:33:40 AM

fastlane

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This is how you learn and become more well rounded in the lifestyle.
There is nothing at all wrong with it.

Peace, Kevin

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RE: master to talk with - 12/5/2005 8:10:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mons

hello

i was wondering does it make me less of a dominant woman if i want to speak to a master from time to time i just like the feel of how they speak but i do not want to be someone sub i am wondering why there is this need i am astrong domme and very kind but strict so why do i need to speak to a master and no one laugh please

mons

I think any person that recognizes themself as a Dominant within this lifestyle would be doing themself and those in their charge a disservice if they avoided interactions with another Dominant because they thought it made them less. In some things the only place a Dominant can be understood is by another Dominant. Cultivating these types of relationships are truly a behavior that I consider to be a wise course of action and heightens a Dominant and not lessens them.

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RE: master to talk with - 12/5/2005 8:33:04 AM

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One that can recognize thier own limitations has mastered maturity.

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RE: master to talk with - 12/5/2005 8:53:35 AM

Prunesquallor

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Just to add my voice to those who have already spoken.

No, enjoying talking to male doms doesn't diminish you in any way. Indeed, as far as I am concerned you could have a vanilla relationship with a male dom, and it wouldn't make you any less of a domme.

We are all different, and have different needs. I always enjoy talking to women, including dommes, simply because I like women, and relate to them whatever their BDSM orientation, or indeed, sexual orientation.

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RE: master to talk with - 12/5/2005 9:55:18 AM

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heavens no! One of My best friends is a Male Dom---as long as the contact is a good one and not with One who believes Female Dominants should not exist--smiles they do have those you know--

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RE: master to talk with - 12/5/2005 4:06:26 PM

fastlane

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I'd invite you to talk with me, but since I am under moderation...there would be a long pause.
Bad boy, bad boy, what's you going to do, what's you going to do when they come for you?

Pause

Again, you are on the right track. Talk to anyone who will listen and continue to learn.

No one listens to me anymore....alas, Fastlane throws up both arms and walks away.

< Message edited by fastlane -- 12/5/2005 4:08:08 PM >

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RE: master to talk with - 12/5/2005 5:29:05 PM

mons

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wow thank you all so much i thought everyone would think something was wronmg with me i am a dominant woman and have been for sometime but i felt and feel teh need to speak with a dom you have all made me feel so much better i try to speak with some of the doms well lol they wanted me to be a slave i will find that one person who can be my friend as well as a teacher too, i found you can not stop learing from others and i enjoy that so much wow you are all so great and so wonder ful if could i would bake a nice cake i can bake very well and send it to all of you thank you again

jane

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RE: master to talk with - 12/5/2005 5:32:52 PM

KnightofMists

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quote:

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if could i would bake a nice cake i can bake very well and send it to all of you thank you again

jane

I love chocolate cake!!! Nice and Rich!!!!

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RE: master to talk with - 12/5/2005 6:01:12 PM

Sensualips

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Also, just speaking with a Dom would not make you submissive. I mean, not unless he was really REALLY good.

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RE: master to talk with - 12/5/2005 6:12:08 PM

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I often speak to Masters male and female; lesbians; submissive and master; gays; slave and master. Some; no idea either way........(and don't really give a fuck)

I thought this wasn't about sex.........just finding people who fit, and a relationship was most of life (sexual or non, no matter) was the idea......

If you exchange parts, great.......bearings are standard like nuts and bolts, however a chevy small block don't fit any fords I know of....so what? we all drive the roads, no?

Perhaps I am mistaken.

Ron

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RE: master to talk with - 12/6/2005 3:28:42 AM

Webmaster60

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quote:

hello

i was wondering does it make me less of a dominant woman if i want to speak to a master from time to time i just like the feel of how they speak but i do not want to be someone sub i am wondering why there is this need i am astrong domme and very kind but strict so why do i need to speak to a master and no one laugh please

Would not dare laugh.. Goreans believe that there is a little bit of a slave in every free woman... Perhaps you've just never been comfortable enough with a Master or found one strong enough to share your submissive side with. WHy do you feel it? You may not like it, but my answer is, why you are probably a very good Domme, and are genuinely so, but it goes against your "basic" nature or your natural order. If you think about it, in the presence of a strong man, a Master.. a little "tug" is felt..? Mind wander a bit?

Not that you want him to chain you or anthing, but that warm fuzzy feeling doesn't hurt either :)

No sin, no harm, no fowl..

< Message edited by Webmaster60 -- 12/6/2005 3:33:06 AM >

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RE: master to talk with - 12/6/2005 5:33:53 AM

FTopinMichigan

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Webmaster60
Goreans believe that there is a little bit of a slave in every free woman... Perhaps you've just never been comfortable enough with a Master or found one strong enough to share your submissive side with. WHy do you feel it? You may not like it, but my answer is, why you are probably a very good Domme, and are genuinely so, but it goes against your "basic" nature or your natural order. If you think about it, in the presence of a strong man, a Master.. a little "tug" is felt..? Mind wander a bit?

Really? This is a "Gorean" belief about women in general? Amazing. Do they also feel that lesbians just haven't found the right man?

To the OP, I enjoy talking with men that are free thinking, assertive and socially extroverted. I find these qualities in most dominant men that I meet (and not as often in submissive males), and enjoy conversing with them all the time. Men and women talk. Unless you're seeking to specifically have him assert control over you, in one way or another, I'm at a loss as to why you would feel "less dominant," just talking to him.

K

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RE: master to talk with - 12/6/2005 5:43:29 AM

Webmaster60

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quote:

Really? This is a "Gorean" belief about women in general? Amazing. Do they also feel that lesbians just haven't found the right man?

Getting past your not-so-veiled sarcasm.. Person with her ass in her pic? Best view perhaps?

WE believe there is a natural order of things. Like it or not, thats the way some think, namely ME. Lets NOT go into my beliefs about lesbians. If you Really want to know, which I doubt.. Put it in a mail.

You'll find that while I'm very opinionated, I don't go around bashing others kinks. A question was asked and I answered. We don't want to get into a belief bashing shit storm do we? Keep it civil.

< Message edited by Webmaster60 -- 12/6/2005 5:44:44 AM >

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RE: master to talk with - 12/6/2005 6:07:33 AM

FTopinMichigan

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ORIGINAL: Webmaster60
Getting past your not-so-veiled sarcasm.. Person with her ass in her pic? Best view perhaps?
<snip>
Keep it civil.

My comment was meant to be humorous, and albeit a bit sarcastic.

Your's was just pure mean spirited. I do hope it makes you feel better to be that way, but you should know that it doesn't effect me.

As a suggestion, you might try to deal with the words and sentiments expressed in posts, and not attack the person. I believe there may be something in the TOS about that.

I am very happy to know a few men that partake of the Gorean Lifestyle (as well as reading a few Gorean Masters here too), and I am happy to see that "some" are real gentleman.

"Keep it civil"....yes, please follow your own advice.
K

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RE: master to talk with - 12/6/2005 7:58:31 AM

Webmaster60

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quote:

My comment was meant to be humorous, and albeit a bit sarcastic. Your's was just pure mean spirited.

So sarcasm veiled in humor is ok, as long as its just not mean. Oh, silly me.. i completely understand now.

quote:

As a suggestion, you might try to deal with the words and sentiments expressed in posts, and not attack the person.

I'm so sorry.. you weren't attacking? And what did YOUR statementhave to do with the OP? And of course dear, you're right.. You didn't attack me.. You just attacked Goreans.. So if I attack lesbians, its ok as long as I leave the 'lesbian" in question unscathed?

quote:

I believe there may be something in the TOS about that.

::chuckles:: thats rich.. Pot? or Kettle?

Hmm...

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RE: master to talk with - 12/6/2005 8:49:42 AM

DesertRat

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Hi there, mons:

Seems some of the responders didn't read your simple OP fully before going off on tangents.

To answer: If one finds friends here, then things like orientation, gender, role, whatever, shouldn't matter. I recently made a great friend here. She is a Domme, but we have lots to talk about and we email each other several times a week. Sometimes daily. It's got nothing to do with D/s or Master/slave...it's just two people talking.

Bob

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RE: master to talk with - 12/6/2005 9:14:15 AM

LadyMorgynn

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ROFL! Cute, very cute ;)

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ORIGINAL: Sensualips

Also, just speaking with a Dom would not make you submissive. I mean, not unless he was really REALLY good.

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