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veronicaofML -> RE: Financial Domination? (12/6/2005 2:15:16 PM)


Though I must admit, I feel quite awkward when a person offers to perform services for me and I provide "nothing" in return. It is difficult for me to accept. I either feel guilty or suspicious. That is my own personality flaw, as I seldom have the desire to provide service just for the satisfaction alone.
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i do not know WHY any Domme would feel guilty?
just because "I" am not;
s/m
not romantic
not sex
and all i do...do...is just service...a Domme is feeling guilty?
whoa!
now THERE is one i hadn't heard!
why on earth feel guilty about 'a' house slave like me,..that ONLY does service...????/

i fail to grasp it...

but ok
i'll take Your word on it

happy holidays to Yas



Sensualips -> RE: Financial Domination? (12/6/2005 2:34:37 PM)

quote:

i do not know WHY any Domme would feel guilty?


Well there you go then. I top sometimes, but I would not consider myself a Domme. ;)



CaptainsPet -> RE: Financial Domination? (12/7/2005 4:39:37 AM)

Whatever floats your boat. But for me, personally, I don't surrender my money to anyone. If that's what works between consenting parties...fine. It wouldn't work for me. I've seen many friends who have no established credit, because everything is in his name. Big, big mistake. Try doing anything in this life without a well-established credit history. Maybe the difference is in mindset. I consider myself submissive, but not a slave. I just couldn't imagine giving up my "ace in the hole," on the chance that He would always do me right. If you give up your financial freedom, and you gambled on a losing hand, you walk away with nothing. I need better odds than that. But that's just me.



McWhips -> RE: Financial Domination? (12/7/2005 6:39:50 AM)


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ORIGINAL: openmindedslave

What is it that makes it so easy to fall for someone who demands your money in order to worship them?? I see so many requesting it . I would love to hear from all of you about what the attraction is ? Please share your experiences if you would , and what you received out of it?


Yes many Dommes are looking for money, at least 50% of them anyway. You would have thought that supply would correlate to supply but I have yet to see even one ad from a male sub that is requesting to give his money away to someone. There probably is one ad somewhere by a male sub like this but I am still convinced the proportion of ads here from male subs looking to give their money to someone is something like 0.01%.

I think its pretty obvious that financial Domination takes place predomenantly in the hetero male sub/Femme Domme situation because there are 100 subs to every one Domme, thus a perfect opportunity for people to make money out of the disparity of numbers.

Hetero male subs arent the only type of sub, there are also gay male subs and hetero and gay female subs. Yet none of those 3 are supposedly into financial Domination so very much as the hetero male sub is supposed to be.

Seeing as perhaps stupidly I often think that being submissive means you often have similar fantasies to other submissives, perhaps someone could explain why it is that out of hetero male, hetero female, gay male and gay female subs, the only group of those interested in having their money taken away from them to such a relatively strong degree is the hetero male sub. It certainly doesnt make sense to me. Perhaps the hetero male sub is unique in this way.

I know that some of you may some on and argue that there are not just hetero male subs out there looking to give their money away but I have in the last few paragraphs used phrases like 'relatively' and 'as much as'. The point I was trying to make is that male subs are into having their money taken away from them many many times more than other kinds of subs even though there might be very very few of the others who are also.

Another thing that seems pretty odd to me is how come there are so very few male Doms looking for money pigs etc. Surely if it was a genuine fetish then it would be synonymous with all kinds of Dominants and submissives?! after all every other kind of fetish is!



amayos -> RE: Financial Domination? (12/7/2005 7:56:13 AM)

I suppose to answer this question we would need to ask, what makes a human being wish to be a slave in the truest sense of the word to another? Where the body, mind and soul goes, all else follows.




Rayne58 -> RE: Financial Domination? (12/7/2005 2:52:50 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CaptainsPet

Whatever floats your boat. But for me, personally, I don't surrender my money to anyone. If that's what works between consenting parties...fine. It wouldn't work for me. I've seen many friends who have no established credit, because everything is in his name. Big, big mistake. Try doing anything in this life without a well-established credit history. Maybe the difference is in mindset. I consider myself submissive, but not a slave. I just couldn't imagine giving up my "ace in the hole," on the chance that He would always do me right. If you give up your financial freedom, and you gambled on a losing hand, you walk away with nothing. I need better odds than that. But that's just me.



Not just you CaptainsPet - I was lucky I did have some credit history in my own name before I left my husband. I may even have subconsciously put a couple of things on time payment just in MY name not his, because it wasn't many years before I left that I did that. So I was able to obtain a credit card (albeit with a small credit limit, but enough for emergencies), and put desperately needed things on time payment.

I trust Master with my body and my life. But He has no interest in controlling my finances. In fact I have control of both our accounts - He gave me His PIN number for His bank card so I can get money from His account when He is too ill to go to the shops. I keep the ATM receipt so He knows how much I have taken out and how much is left. I put the rent aside and some for groceries and petrol and the rest I leave in His wallet.




openmindedslave -> RE: Financial Domination? (12/11/2005 4:24:20 PM)

I do believe you are correct in the example you set saying most of these pay pig situations occure in the hetro sexual males. I have seen some Masters that are in search of gay bois request that their money will be taken and manged for them. But you are right , that most straight guys seem to be the prey or the most involved in money to be given out . It really seems so easy at first..Almost like a vanilla relationship. You take someone to dinner , buy them gifts and trips and next thing you may see is your money whether it is demanded or expected, seems to disappear. I saw one web site the other day encouraging so called " pay pigs " to pay out money for domination, which includes
the promise to take them for everything they have...



jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Financial Domination? (12/13/2005 9:26:22 PM)

greetings open minded slave??????
...moi?
i dont know what's the big mystery?
its a cream if the dom makes you spend for her and ,her boyfriend while they crap all ,over you like your a doorknob ,or dust left ,behind on the floor
(typical m attitude of mine is .....ahhh- kill me, but ,take the money ,and be happy ,too doing it -cream me....)
but,
if you can't get a dom
and you dont like her much cause shes a phoney; (just wants your money;an ignoramous with no skills)you stay at an arms length,
and, pay her ,off,
from a distance
and still keep your face and
maybe, fantasize ,
that you're living with the real thing!
otherwise:
it's the same principal, as vanilla ,or,with any girl....,
or guy
(even a guy cant come if they are worried over money)
they have to feel "safe ,and,secure", in order to come with somebody and ,money does that ....
its an unconditonal reinforcer
and, makes anyone feel very safe and secure.
you dont have to teach a baby to like money ,cause it's a universal reward;
its unconditional,
you can salivate to it, without being taught first,
but ,
what kinda self-respecting -slave can you be ,if you can't give her all ,and make her come ,to, forget you....
it's ,just a cream-dream....
the more i can give
the more she can be free
the more loved
worshiped
and respected she is
the free-er and easier it is for her to come !
and to be herself
completely
and if she aint happy; mamma cant be happy either
you know....
the old saying:how you treat your mamma ;is how you do your goddess,so,
if she aint happy;
no one is;
not her;
not you;
not your mamma;-
not her boyfriend
;not her girlfriends;
not her relatives;
no one.
show me a single person who can't cream on a money-mattress
and, i will show you scrooge
trying to take all the money
and all the STUFF,they can
,and hide it ,
or they try to hold on to it -all the way ,to the grave ,
and,they go
alone.........only thing you can take with you to and beyond the grave is love



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